How to love better

How to love better

Yung Pueblo

Book - 2025

""Personal transformation, that is grounded in self-love and has greater inner peace as the goal, will naturally teach you how to love better. Seeing yourself clearly opens the door to compassion for yourself and other people." Love enters our lives in many forms: friends, family, intimate partners. But all of these relationships are defined by the love we have for ourselves. If we see our relationships as opportunities to be fully present in our healing and learn to love each other better, yung pueblo assures us that we can transform and meet each other with compassion instead of judgment. In How to Love Better, yung pueblo examines all aspects of a relationship, from the rose-colored first days when you may be hesitant to s...how your full self, to the challenges that can arise without clear communication, to dealing with heartbreak and healing as you close a chapter of your life. The power of looking inward remains at the core of all his teachings. Ego and attachment can become barriers in a relationship, so the more self-aware you become, the more you can support your partner and yourself. yung pueblo's understandings on embracing change, building a foundation of honesty, and learning to listen selflessly will resonate regardless of where you are in your healing journey. And his unique combination of poetry, personal experience, and thoughtful advice will help you grow and strengthen all your relationships"--

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Subjects
Love.
Interpersonal relations.
Interpersonal conflict.
Amour.
Conflit interpersonnel.
love (emotion)
Published
New York, NY : Harmony [2025]
Language
English
Main Author
Yung Pueblo (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
pages cm
ISBN
9780593582275
  • Introduction
  • How to Help Love Flow
  • The Relationship Between You and Yourself
  • How to Thrive
  • Where We Stumble
  • What Love is and What It Isn't
  • Love is Commitment & Understanding
  • The Art of Arguing
  • The Challenges Relationships Face
  • When to Break Up
  • Recovering From Heartbreak
  • Finding the Right Partner
  • The Foundations of a Good Relationship
  • Love is Freedom.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Bestseller Yung Pueblo (a pseudonym for poet Diego Perez) follows up Lighter with a down-to-earth explainer on how cultivating self-knowledge can foster more fulfilling relationships. Recalling how a meditation practice helped him and his partner better "understand what we genuinely needed from one another," the author calls on readers to use tools like meditation, breathwork, and therapy to fuel a "growth mindset" that involves releasing the ego and being open to change. With this mindset, readers can fine-tune their behaviors to "be more conducive to a harmonious relationship"--for example, by using arguments to practice "selfless listening," or letting "yourself be immersed in view of things" rather than silently preparing a rebuttal. While the author's tendency to repeat his central message that one must love oneself in order to love someone else can become wearying, fans will appreciate his tried-and-true advice, which is often paraphrased in prose poems at the end of each chapter ("The same defensive pattern that protected you before/ can stop a new connection from fully flourishing"). It adds up to a smart if at times familiar resource for revitalizing one's relationships. (Mar.)

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