Sex, teens, & everything in between The new and necessary conversations today's teenagers need to have about consent, sexual harassment, healthy relationships, love, and more

Shafia Zaloom

Book - 2019

"In the age of #MeToo and #TimesUp, issues of consent and sexual harassment are being talked about more than ever before. Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between gives parents, educators, and healthcare professionals the tools they need to raise these important conversations with teens. Covering topics such as consent, legal responsibility, bystander intervention, and support and prevention, this book is an essential resource for adults who want to have open, nonjudgmental conversations about these issues with teenagers to help keep them safe and satisfied in their sexual exploration"--

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Published
Naperville, Illinois : Sourcebooks [2019]
Language
English
Main Author
Shafia Zaloom (author)
Physical Description
xxvii, 323 pages ; 21 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN
9781492680086
  • Foreword
  • Introduction
  • Chapter 1. Yes Means Yes: What We Mean When We Talk about Consent
  • Chapter 2. It's the Law: Your and Your Child's Rights-and the Real-World Legal Consequences of Sexual Harassment and Assault
  • Chapter 3. "You Good?" How to Teach Consent-and Keep It Sexy
  • Chapter 4. Sexpectations: Gender, Pressure, and Porn
  • Chapter 5. Love, Pleasure, and Good Sex
  • Chapter 6. Bystander Intervention: What We Can All Do to Prevent Sexual Harassment and Assault
  • Chapter 7. "How Can I Stay Safe?" Making the Best Choices in Difficult Situations
  • Chapter 8. Strong Voices: An Anthology of Survivor Stories
  • Appendix A. Glossary of Terms
  • Appendix B. Assaulted: What Your and Your Child Need to Know if They Are Assaulted
  • Appendix C. Accused: What You and Your Child Need to Know if They Are Accused
  • Appendix D. Getting It Right: Practice Scenarios for You and Your Teen
  • Endnotes
  • Bibliography
  • Index
  • Acknowledgments
  • About the Author
Review by Library Journal Review

In an age when porn is normalized and too often smartphones take precedence over personal relationships, parents need to be regularly part of the conversations about sex and relationships, and be ready to answer their children's questions honestly. While "hookup" culture seems to be rampant in high schools and colleges, impersonalizing and divorcing sex from emotion, Zaloom, a leading expert on sexual consent education, cites a 2015 study from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reporting that not everyone is hooking up. In fact, 60 percent of U.S. high school students are virgins, and 85 percent of those same young people want to have sex only within a serious romantic relationship. Another statistic from the CDC shows that one in four students is sexually, or otherwise assaulted in high school, and one in five in college. All of these statistics demonstrate a need for teaching about consent. Educating others on how to treat you, and listening to how others wish to be treated are the keys to healthy relationships, writes the author. She further argues that essential to preventing sexual harassment and assault is bystander intervention, and shares ideas on sticking up for others without compromising their own reputation (an oft-shared concern of teens). VERDICT This guide may benefit parents of teens who are looking to start a conversation about issues many young people face today, encompassing the #metoo movement, sexual harassment, assault, and many others.

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