Modern loss Candid conversation about grief : beginners welcome

Rebecca Soffer

Book - 2018

"Inspired by the website that the New York Times hailed as "redefining mourning," this book is a fresh and irreverent examination into navigating grief and resilience in the age of social media, offering comfort and community for coping with the mess of loss through candid original essays from a variety of voices, accompanied by gorgeous two-color illustrations and wry infographics." -- From Amazon.com summary.

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Published
New York, NY : Harper Wave [2018]
Language
English
Main Author
Rebecca Soffer (author)
Other Authors
Gabrielle Birkner (author), Peter Arkle (illustrator)
Physical Description
xxiii, 355 pages : illustrations ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 333-335).
ISBN
9780062499189
  • Introduction
  • Collateral Damage: But Wait, There's More?
  • Introduction
  • A Wake
  • The Would-Bes
  • The Second Third Child
  • There Won't Be Blood
  • Mother Figure
  • Things to Know Before Scattering Ashes
  • Triggers: What Sets Us Off Might Surprise You
  • Introduction
  • A Little to the Left
  • When Mom Kan't Keep Up with the Kardashians
  • Brain Games
  • Thanksgiving After Jack
  • The Barren Field
  • The Dos and Don'ts of Building Your Crew
  • Intimacy: 1 − 1 + 1 = ?
  • Introduction
  • Meet the Twins: Grief and Desire
  • Are You My Papi?
  • What's Good Enough Now
  • Taboo Times Two
  • The Promise
  • Guess Who's (Not) Coming to Dinner? Surviving Small Talk After a Loss
  • Identity: Who We Were and Who We've Become
  • Introduction
  • Four Little Words, One Big Meaning
  • Dad-die Issues
  • The Dead-Brother Code Switch
  • Making Peace with My Mother's Whiteness
  • Just Say Uncle
  • Survivor Gilt: Creative Ways to Use What's Left Behind Instead of Banishing it to Storage Purgatory
  • Inheritance: Property of:
  • Introduction
  • Icky Pop
  • Honey, Don't Screw Up the Namesake
  • The Accidental Archivist
  • Under the House
  • Uncle Ron
  • There's No Will. What the Bleep Do I Do Now?
  • Data: Loss (and Found) in the Digital Universe
  • Introduction
  • My Husband's Death Went Viral, and All I Got Was This Lousy T-shirt
  • Confessions of a Gmail Hoarder
  • Unrecovered
  • Meeting Patricia, Aunt Esther's Amazon Alter Ego
  • A Brief Guide to Griefspeak
  • Secrets: What They Didn't Tell Us, and What We Aren't Telling Others
  • Introduction
  • My Dead Husband, the Serial Adulterer
  • Practice Imperfect
  • And the Oscar Goes to ...
  • Forever Younger
  • F Is for Forgiveness
  • Word Life After Loss
  • Journey's: Where We've Headed but Not Necessarily Ended Up
  • Introduction
  • My Wedding Grown's Last Dance
  • Where the Heart No Longer Is
  • Feet, Pain, Love
  • From a Purple Room to the Obama White House
  • Art Imitates Loss
  • Patches
  • Shit People Say, But Really Shouldn't
  • Absence + Time: What Comes Later
  • Introduction
  • David
  • Considering the Alternative
  • The Deathday-Birthday
  • Double Digits
  • Acknowledgments
  • Notes
  • Credits
Review by New York Times Review

CATNIP By Michael Korda. (Countryman Press, $14.95.) Korda, a presidential biographer, has always loved doodling. When his wife, Margaret, was diagnosed with a brain tumor in 2016, he started producing a sketch a day for her - featuring one of their cats, Ruby, Kit Kat or Tiz Whiz - silly, whimsical drawings he never imagined would be collected like this after her death. JANE ON THE BRAIN By Wendy Jones. (Pegasus Books, $27.95.) A psychotherapist and an English professor, Jones wears both hats simultaneously to describe why Jane Austen's novels appeal to the human brain, which craves sociability. MODERN LOSS Edited by Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle (Harper Wave, $24.99.) Love is not the only human experience so common it is endlessly fascinating in its permutations - so is loss. Soffer and Birkner, who both had parents die tragically when they were young, understand this. First with a website, and now this book, they have collected moving, emotional and oftentimes funny essays about how grief can enter and change your life. EAT LIKE WALT By Marcy Carriker Smothers. (Disney Editions, $35.) The corn dogs and banana splits at Disneyland are part of its kitschy appeal. But how did that particular American cuisine get there? Like all else at the park, Walt Disney is in the details. This strangely fascinating book lays out his thinking as well as some recipes - from Adventureland's "Pineapple Polynesian Ribs" to Main Street, U.S.A.'s "Potato Salad." A GOOD COMB By Muriel Spark. (New Directions, $11.95.) A collection of the author's sayings and aphorisms, which includes such gems as, "It is impossible to persuade a man who does not disagree, but smiles." "With modern workplace culture being interrogated anew, I'm plunging back into THE GIRLS IN THE OFFICE, by Jack Olsen: a fascinating if lamentably out-of-print 1972 collection of interviews with 15 pseudonymous female employees of a Manhattan organization referred to simply as the Company. With its frequent alcoholic 'pours' this Company suspiciously resembles the old Time Inc., for which Olsen was once Midwest bureau chief. The colorful, forthcoming subjects include the 20-something Bettye McCluin ('overskilled, sexy, aloof') and the 'fading jet set cosmopolite' Callia Bartucci. A prolific writer and father of seven who died in bed at 77 with a magazine on his chest, the author specialized in true crime. His oral history - a genre practiced with more transparency by Studs Terkel and Jean Stein - favors lurid detail and despair, like a nihilistic sequel to the Rona Jaffe novel 'The Best of Everything.' But it serves as powerful documentation of an era when women were institutionally subordinate, squabbling over the terms of their own liberation. How much has changed . . . and how little." - ALEXANDRA JACOBS, FEATURES EDITOR, ON WHAT SHE'S READING.

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