Traveling with pomegranates A mother daughter story

Sue Monk Kidd

Book - 2009

A wise and involving book about feminine thresholds, spiritual growth, and renewal, "Traveling with Pomegranates" is a revealing self-portrait by the beloved author of "The Secret Life of Bees" and her daughter, a writer in the making.

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New York, N.Y. : Viking 2009.
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282 p. : maps
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Sue Monk Kidd (-)
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Ann Kidd Taylor (-)
Review by New York Times Review

#+ |9780393065671 ~ FROM 1914 until 1930, C.G. Jung recorded, revised, rewrote, recopied and painstakingly illustrated what he considered "the numinous beginning" from which all the rest of his work derived. "The Red Book," or as Jung called it, "Liber Novus," consisted of some 200 parchment pages of meticulous calligraphy and visionary paintings collected into a huge folio bound in red leather. While its content, either whole or in part, was made available to a handful of colleagues and patients, its publication was postponed until now, nearly 50 years after his death, because Jung feared the book's potential impact on his reputation. After all, anyone who read it might conclude what Jung himself first suspected: that the great doctor had lost his mind. Jung began what would become "The Red Book" shortly after he had fallen out with Freud, each unable to accept the other's understanding of the unconscious. Though Jung agreed with Freud's basic theory that the unconscious mind existed beyond the reach of consciousness and yet influenced human behavior, he believed Freud's conception of it as a dark vault of repressed urges and denied emotions was incomplete and unnecessarily negative - too focused on neurosis. The 1912 publication of Jung's "Psychology of the Unconscious," which had grown out of his psychoanalysis of the heroes and heroines of "mythology, folklore and religion" made the two doctors' differences of opinion public, and the Zurich Psychoanalytical Society, with which Jung was actively involved, broke away from Freud's International Psychoanalytic Association. Undoubtedly, Jung's liberation from his mentor was as unnerving as it was exciting, and in the fall of 1913 he had a series of waking visions that disturbed him both for their overwhelming, bloody devastation, and because he could not interpret them. Having worked with schizophrenic patients in thrall to their own tormenting hallucinations, he concluded he was "menaced with a psychosis" and, ever the clinician, decided to take notes on his madness. But the advent of World War I changed his understanding of the visions. In the face of actual widespread carnage, he now received them as prophecy, evidence, the editor and translator Sonu Shamdasani writes, of "deep subliminal connections between individual fantasies and world events." Jung's study of archetypes in myths had convinced him that the creation of symbols was a characteristic of mankind; it wasn't necessarily pathological - quite the opposite. The "union of rational and irrational truth," symbols were the essential and necessary product of the unconscious, its "most important function." Using a language of archetypes and symbols to speak to the conscious mind, the unconscious offered a means toward self-awareness far more profound than the groping of consciousness alone. Armed with this conviction, Jung embarked on a journey into his own unexplored depths. Practicing "active imagination," Jung conjured characters with whom he interacted and conversed. Dreams, he felt, were "inferior expressions of unconscious content" because there was less tension in sleep. "The Red Book" "faithfully transcribed" visions Jung recorded privately in his "Black Books," adding commentary and painting what he had seen in his waking dreams to encourage readers to "understand the psychological nature of symbolism" and challenge them "to a new way of looking at their souls." The whole is structured after Nietzsche's "Thus Spoke Zarathustra," a work of great influence on Jung. But while Nietzsche had announced the death of God, "The Red Book" described "the rebirth of God in the soul," drawing from many and varied sources, including the Bible, the Apocrypha, Gnostic texts, Greek myths, the Upanishads, the ancient Egyptian "Am-Tuat," Wagner's "Ring," Goethe's "Faust" and Dante's "Divine Comedy." And, as Shamdasani points out, although the writers on whom Jung drew "could utilize an established cosmology, 'Liber Novus' is an attempt to shape an individual cosmology." Jung continued to practice while working on "The Red Book" and encouraged his analysands to summon and record their own visions, as he had done. The book a patient created would be, he said, "your church - your cathedral - the silent places of your spirit where you will find renewal." In fact, reading "The Red Book" is like visiting a foreign place of worship. To understand Jung's text - to meet and listen to the creatures of his unconscious - requires solitude, silence, concentrated effort. At the beginning of the book (which is divided into "Liber Primus," "Liber Secundus" and "Scrutinies"), Jung rediscovers his soul, alienated while he "had served the spirit of the time." With it, he embarks on a series of adventures and meets, among others, Elijah, Salome, a serpent and the Devil. The narrative proceeds like a blend of biblical prophecy and dialectic, in places unexpectedly funny, as when, in "The Castle in the Forest," he encounters a woman from the kind of novels he had "spat on long ago." "I am truly in Hell," Jung remarks, "the worst awakening after death, to be resurrected in a lending library!" But the conventional heroine who fills Jung with disgust has something to teach him: what he considers "banal and hackneyed contains the wisdom" he seeks. The heroine trapped in a castle in a forest is an archetype - one that, in this instance, challenges his tellectual snobbery. "INDIVIDUATION" is the word Jung used for the integration of conscious and unconscious required for a person to reach psychological wholeness, an evolved state of being he did not consider within the reach of every person. Rather than breaking with convention, the "insufficiently creative," as Shamdasani calls them, should remain within the "collective conformity" of society, which encourages us to assume that all cosmologies, all myths and religions, lie without rather than within ourselves. But, as Jung argued, the collective unconscious, even deeper than the personal, is a realm into which we can travel to discover all we contain, making the beauty, terrors and wisdom of the unconscious available to consciousness. "The Red Book" includes a facsimile of every page of the original, followed by a comprehensive introduction by Shamdasani and the full translation of Jung's handwritten text. Jung's paintings, many of mandalas or, as he described them, "cryptograms on the state of my self," are vibrantly reproduced. Accomplished works informed by various ancient motifs, they encourage one to leave "The Red Book" on the coffee table. Most likely, it will not fit on the shelf. At 15½ by 12 inches and nearly 10 pounds, the physical size and weight of the book serve as a warning: once a reader decides to follow Jung into his unconscious, it will be some time before the tour is over. Shamdasani provides the historical context of Jung's inner journey, on which he embarked when self-experimentation was common and spiritualism attracted the interest of leading scientists, who explored methods used by mediums, including "automatic writing, trance speech and crystal vision" as means of accessing the minds of the living rather than the dead. Do the decades between the completion and publication of "The Red Book" render it less potent or interesting? Not at all. As Shamdasani observes, "in a critical sense, 'Liber Novus' does not require supplemental interpretation, for it contains its own interpretation," and so it is at last possible to begin a study of Jung with the work he held above all the rest. "The Red Book" not only reminds us of the importance of introspection, but also offers a guide to separating the self from the spirit of a time that would have astonished and offended Jung with its endless trivial distractions, its blogs and tweets and chiming cellphones. The creation of one of modern history's true visionaries, "The Red Book" is a singular work, outside of categorization. As an inquiry into what it means to be human, it transcends the history of psychoanalysis and underscores Jung's place among revolutionary thinkers like Marx, Orwell and, of course, Freud. The dedication - the love - with which it was assembled makes "The Red Book" as beautiful and otherworldly as a medieval book of hours. "What is this I am doing?" Jung asked himself at the beginning of his "most difficult experiment." A voice answered him. "'That is art;'" it said. Kathryn Harrison's most recent book, "While They Slept: An Inquiry Into the Murder of a Family," has just been released in paperback.

Copyright (c) The New York Times Company [December 6, 2009] Review by Booklist Review

Best-selling author Kidd travels in 1998 throughout Greece and France with twentysomething daughter Ann to (re)define their life changes as Kidd contemplates middle age and her daughter approaches marriage. They take turns sharing their thoughts directly with the reader as Kidd contemplates the loss of a daughter now grown and a stranger, and Ann fears losing herself in her upcoming marriage. While Kidd wonders, Is there an odyssey the female soul longs to make at the approach of fifty? Ann is confused and filled with pain ; she has lost a cohesive vision of herself. Using the Greek myth of the mother-daughter bond between Demeter and Persephone as the underlying foundation, the two women, in emotional crises as one's life waxes and the other's wanes, seek to reforge their once close connection. Their spiritual pilgrimage includes a visit to the 900-year-old Black Virgin of Rocamadour, one of the European Black Madonnas. A return trip in 2000 finds both women changed, and a 2008 afterword rounds out this stunning account of inner journeys, separate and intertwined.--Scott, Whitney Copyright 2009 Booklist

From Booklist, Copyright (c) American Library Association. Used with permission. Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Mother and daughter reconnect in this warm travelogue of a journey through Greece, Turkey and France. Both women are at crucial junctures in their lives (and both rely heavily on a tired Demeter-Persephone analogy for their relationship): Taylor, 22, is entering adulthood after recently graduating from college, and novelist Kidd is turning 50 and hitting menopause. Kidd mispronounces a number of words; Taylor reads with emotion, but her voice rises into an inappropriate question mark at the end of statements. Both have pleasant Southern accents with slightly gravely notes in their voices. Some listeners might enjoy the immediacy of hearing the authors read; most, however, will prefer the printed version. A Viking hardcover (Reviews, June 22) (Sept.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved

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In alternating chapters, novelist Sue Monk Kidd (The Secret Life of Bees) and daughter Ann Kidd Taylor narrate their literal and spiritual journeys over a two-year period, traveling to Greece and Paris and back while Sue copes with impending menopause and Ann seeks her life calling. The New Agey tone, imbuing every event with "meaning," will remind readers of Kidd's earlier novels. Fans of The Secret Life of Bees will enjoy learning about the origins of the characters and symbols. Others will be put off by the overly ponderous writing style and the authors' self-importance. Readalikes: Michael Quinn Patton's Grand Canyon Celebration: A Father-Son Journey of Discovery and Jean Shinoda Bolen's Crossing to Avalon: A Woman's Midlife Pilgrimage. [See Prepub Alert, LJ 5/15/09.]-Lauren Gilbert, Cold Spring Harbor Library and Environmental Center, NY (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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The New Age odyssey of bestselling author Kidd (The Mermaid Chair, 2005, etc.) and her daughter Ann. In alternating chapters, the mother-daughter team recounts their different but parallel journeys of self-discovery. Mom found guidance in the regenerative myths of Demeter, Persephone and the Virgin Mary, while Ann, feeling confused and rudderless in her early 20s, wondered whether the power of Athena could help her unearth life's purpose. Sue, who grew up in upstate South Carolina and worked as a nurse during her early adult life, eventually found her writer's voice and moved with her husband to Charleston. Ann attended Columbia College (in South Carolina) and resolved to study Greek history after an inspiring group trip to Greece in the late '90s, but she was rejected from her ideal graduate program. During a subsequent trip to Greece to commemorate Sue's 50th birthday and Ann's college graduation, Ann felt depressed about her future just as Sue was hoping to find spiritual clues to the next phase of her life. Most of the book is devoted to their first trip to Greece in 1998, narrated first by Sue, then Ann, from Athens to Eleusis (the sanctuary of Demeter) to Ephesus, Turkey, where "Mary's House" is located. Both mother and daughter continually sound the themes of autonomy and self-realization. Yet while Sue hit on her life's mission to write a novelwhich became the mega-selling The Secret Life of Bees (2002)Ann returned home, got married and had a baby. Although she did find courage to apprentice as a writer, the letdown is palpable. A touching rapprochement between mother and daughter, but much of the writing is murky and both narratives sound curiously alikewon't deter the many fans of Mom, however. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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