The sexual evolution How 500 million years of sex, gender, and mating shape modern relationships

Nathan H. Lents

Book - 2025

"In The Sexual Evolution, Lents takes readers on a journey through the animal world, from insects to apes, revealing what the incredible array of sexual diversity can teach us about our own diverse beauty. Nature, it turns out, has made a lot of space for diverse genders and sexual behaviors. And why? Because when it comes to evolution--diversity wins. This is not just a political or social message, instead it's rooted in science and cultivated from understanding the full breadth of sexuality that exists throughout the world. With shades of both Frans de Waal and Esther Perel, Lents's storytelling is as fascinating as it is topical, offering eye-opening stories about the diversity of animal life, while relating it to our own ...sexual journey as a species. At once a forceful rebuttal to bigotry and a captivating dive into the secret sex lives of animals, The Sexual Evolution is the rare book of pop science that leans into the controversy. Sex, the reactionaries say, should only be for procreation between a man and a woman, anything else goes against nature. Well, nature would like a word with them"--

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Published
New York ; Boston : Mariner Books 2025.
Language
English
Main Author
Nathan H. Lents (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
323 pages : illustrations 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 287-310) and index.
ISBN
9780063375444
  • Introduction: The state of affairs
  • Evolution's rainbow : males, females, and more
  • Bending gender
  • That's gay
  • Monogamish
  • Sexual animals
  • Family values
  • The sex and gender (non)binary
  • The gay gene
  • Conclusion
  • Acknowledgments
  • Notes
  • Recommended reading
  • Index.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

"When it comes to a more expansive, diverse, and flexible attitude toward gender and sexuality, we can learn a lot by looking beyond our own species," according to this enthralling survey. Lents (Human Errors), a biology professor at John Jay College, CUNY, explains that same-sex intercourse is extremely common in the animal kingdom, noting, for instance, that female bonobos have sex with each other more often than with males as a form of bonding and social climbing. Many species have more than two ways to express gender (loosely construed as "patterns of behavior that are either sexualized or tied to reproduction"), Lents contends, discussing how male bluegill sunfish come in two biologically distinct types, the smaller of which resembles a female and engages in three-way mating rituals with larger males and females. Elsewhere, Lents emphasizes how few animals practice sexual monogamy, explaining how couplings among birds were long assumed to equate with sexual exclusivity until genetic testing in the late 1980s revealed the high prevalence of hatchlings sired by a male other than their mother's partner. Lents gleefully tears down cis, hetero, and monogamous norms, outlining surprising case studies that give the lie to restrictive conceptions of gender and sex. The result is an indispensable glimpse into the queerness of animals. Agent: Larry Weissman, Larry Weissman Literary. (Feb.)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Boldly venturing where few cultural warriors dare go: to biological fact. This book is about more than modern relationships; it's about modern debates over who is male or female and why many people say they're not the gender they were assigned at birth. An evolutionary biologist at John Jay College, Lents takes a compassionate and rational approach to these subjects, explaining that much of the misunderstanding surrounding them comes from the imprecise language we use to talk about sex and gender. Lents sheds light on the comparative biology and ethnology behind the most controversial aspects of human reproduction: the universality of masturbation and promiscuity among mammals and other animals; the forms "gay" sex takes among species, ranging from bedbugs to seabirds to those "sluttiest creatures," the socially peaceful bonobos; the chemical and microbiological processes underlying the reasons embryos develop into babies that present as one sex at birth while feeling like another sex trapped inside their body as they get older. "When an organ doesn't form in the typical way," Lents writes about "intersex" embryos, "we usually call this a 'defect' or an error….[A]natomical tweaks are the raw material for evolution's creative potential. They arenot errors or defects. They are simply variations." Variation is the watchword in this informative and often very funny book. Lents, a gay married man with adopted children, has some stake in these debates, and he isn't shy about sharing his thoughts on the dangerous impact of religion and conservative cultural values on people who vary from the statistical norm. People with those views may be scandalized by Lents' arguments, but they would do well to read this strong case against their positions. Destined to be a go-to source in future sex and gender debates. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.