You'll never believe me A life of lies, second tries, and things I should only tell my therapist

Kari Ferrell

Book - 2024

"The compelling, edgy, compassionate, laugh-out-loud memoir from Kari Ferrell, formerly known as the Hipster Grifter Before Anna Delvey, before the Tinder Swindler, there was Kari Ferrell. Adopted at a young age by a Mormon family in Utah, Kari struggled with questions of self-worth and identity as one of the few Asian Americans in her insulated community, leading her to run with the "bad crowd" in an effort to fit in. Soon, she graduated from petty crimes to more serious grifts, stealing money from unsuspecting targets and eventually hitting Utah's Most Wanted List. Desperate for a fresh start, she moves to New York City, slips into the indie-sleaze scene where she games her way to a job at Vice News, picks up men and t...heir wallets at clandestine bars, and becomes known as the Hipster Grifter, a moniker that she would never escape. As the media--in true early aughts form--begins to sensationalize and fetishize her story and thousands followed along online, she hides from cops in a grungy Brooklyn apartment, eventually goes to jail where she survives prison riots and makes friends with her fellow inmates, struggles in a trailer park after her release , and in search of her roots, returns to Korea for the first time since birth. In turns rollicking and irreverent, warm and compassionate, Kari's is a heartfelt memoir of redemption and reconciliation, as she eventually dedicates her life to activism, social justice, reform, and setting the record straight. You'll Never Believe Me tells Kari's story for the first time, introducing a fresh, hilarious new voice to the literary stage, and offering readers a nostalgic, uplifting, and, at times, unbelievable book that grapples with truth, why we lie, and what it means when our pasts don't paint the whole picture"--

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Published
New York : St. Martin's Press [2024]
Language
English
Main Author
Kari Ferrell (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
pages cm
ISBN
9781250288226
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Review by Booklist Review

Ferrell didn't mean to do it, as she explains in this memoir of larceny, lust, and identity. By the time she was dubbed "The Hipster Grifter," she'd already been in jail, had warrants for $60,000 in forgeries and retail theft, and had kited checks from Utah to NYC. Buried beneath the headline-grabbing behavior was the pain and rejection of being a transracial adoptee, her hidden bisexuality, and rebellion against the strict mores of the LDS church. Stuck in a spiral of bad behavior and ripping off everyone in her life, Kari gets collared and spends a significant amount of time in jail, where she starts to transform her approach to life. Her observations deepen and her voice is strongest when she talks about the intricacies of incarceration, her fellow cellmates, and their stories of being women in the system. While Kari became famous for lying about her background to snag a prestigious job at VICE Magazine, she's working to prove that her story is just as interesting when she's free of the grift. A "bad girl makes good" memoir with some sharp insights.

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Ferrell debuts with a raw and riveting account of how she became infamous for scamming New York City's hipsters. Adopted from South Korea as a five-month-old by Mormons in Salt Lake City, Ferrell weathered both the church's religious strictures and casual racism from classmates and acquaintances. Insecure and lonely, she fell in with a bad crowd after her parents' divorce, shoplifting and committing check fraud as a teenager. In 2008, Ferrell moved to New York, where she charmed a string of men--mostly Brooklyn artists--whom she subsequently fleeced. The New York Observer nicknamed Ferrell "the Hipster Grifter," and, while serving nearly a year in jail for her crimes, she began to drop her hard-edged persona as she met and bonded with her fellow inmates. After her release, Ferrell became a prisoners' rights advocate and developed a production company that focuses on work from women of color. With a combination of bruising vulnerability and self-deprecating humor ("I was like a law-breaking Martha Stewart. Oh, wait"), Ferrell's audacious coming-of-age tale pairs the thrill of true crime with the redemptive arc of a good memoir. It's a deliciously edgy testament to reinvention. Agent: Lily Dolin, UTA. (Jan.)This review has been updated.

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