Review by Booklist Review
How do you cope with the unimaginable? Leavitt's comics after the death of her beloved partner, Domino, tell the story of longing, questioning, and the brief ups and devastating downs of bereavement. Domino requested a medically assisted death after excruciating pain from chronic illnesses. Leavitt's comics, alternating between pitch black and muted watercolors to bright colored pencil, discuss what it means to support a loved one in such a position and the inconceivable difficulty of "walking her to the door." In a poetic stream of consciousness, Leavitt illustrates her chaotic emotions and memories as she tries to understand how such a momentous choice could be made. Leavitt's love and grief shine as she begins to come to terms with the unprecedented events that have overturned her life. As Leavitt becomes able to see the joy again, it remains clear that Domino will always be a part of her, even with the book's open-ended final pages. Emotional, expressive, and devastating, Leavitt's grief turned art will touch readers dealing with the most difficult of losses.
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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Sifting through a kaleidoscope of memories and emotions, Leavitt (Tangles) presents a haunting comics diary of her grief following the death of her longtime partner, Donimo, in 2020. After suffering years of constant, severe pain due to many chronic conditions, Donimo chose to end her life with medical assistance at age 54. "After she died," a bereft Leavitt writes, "I continued living, which surprised me." The earliest pages feature inchoate thoughts and unfinished questions ("How did she"; "How did we") and inky lines. Over the following months, Leavitt pours out her heartbreak and anger--with occasional glimmers of hope bubbling up ("I've been grateful for the quiet"). Two years on, she moves to contextualize Donimo's death: "Both of us began our solitary journeys to lands neither of us knew about." Leavitt's drawings depict her emotional upheaval with poetic grace, in imagery ranging from abstract black-and-white to warm colors and recognizable figures during moments of serenity and acceptance. This unflinching chronicle offers readers who have experienced loss a sense of catharsis and solace. Agent: Samantha Haywood, Transatlantic. (Sept.)
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Review by Kirkus Book Review
A powerfully intimate graphic memoir of a partner's assisted suicide. "On April 21, 2020, my partner, Donimo, died. She had a medically assisted death beside a rushing river with people she loved holding her tight. She was 54." So begins Leavitt's extraordinary record of loss, with a brief handwritten prologue describing Donimo's character, suffering, and diagnosis with a series of debilitating illnesses. The author labels the art that follows "a collection of comics," but that phrase barely begins to describe Leavitt's formally innovative artwork: freehand panels and full-page images that combine poetic text with illustrations and abstract images and textures, realized in watercolor, ink, and colored pencil. She chronicles the couple's progress toward the decision to end Donimo's life, as well as her own deep resistance and terror, taking us literally to a place beyond words. Along the way, there is dark humor ("The 73rd stage of grief generally coincides with March 31"), anguish, tenderness, engaging storytelling, and philosophy. In the final section, Leavitt writes about when she and Donimo learned about the Jewish concept of Olam Habah, the world to come: "The rabbi said, 'I have learned that there is something--not nothing--out there waiting for us. Something wonderful and loving and peaceful and joyous.'" Leavitt wondered if that could possibly be true, and this incredibly moving and beautiful book documents her journey toward an answer. It is a fitting follow-up to the author's debut, Tangles, a graphic memoir about her family's experience with Alzheimer's, which is being adapted into a film with an all-star cast. "Donimo continues," writes Leavitt, "whether it's in an afterlife where she races through the sky or hovers above me to the left….And I continue also in my alive body. I think it's the continuing that matters." A uniquely gorgeous chronicle. Full box of tissues recommended. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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