Review by Kirkus Book Review
A comprehensive analysis of gender identity and the debates it continues to provoke. Few topics have fueled the culture wars during the past decade like gender. "Hardly a day goes by across media outlets without reference to a gender-related issue, usually about children and adolescents," write clinical psychologists Ehrensaft, author of The Gender Creative Child, and Jurkiewicz. Gender creativity is the idea that children should be able to explore their own genders in ways that make sense to them. "Human minds are creative and complex, so binary thinking is not the only way," write the authors, who declare their allegiance to gender-diverse youth and their families while also rigorously educating readers on the bigger picture. As psychologists, they lead their discussion with a preponderance of data. "The misinformation presented in the media," they write, "creates an unnecessary and added burden to those already carrying so much." The authors thoughtfully examine how and why gender has become a pressing concern for today's youth; why so much anxiety surrounds the topic ("People don't understand what is going on as they experience…seismic shifts in gender, and the unknown feels threatening"); the lifesaving consequences of the gender-affirming model; the claims that a disproportionate number of children designated female at birth are transgender or genderqueer; and how parents can raise their children in a gender-healthy manner. Ehrensaft and Jurkiewicz also parse the controversies of gender in sports, education, and medicine, and they urge readers to engage in self-reflection to confront their own prejudices about the issue, noting how it's a "lifelong" process to attain literacy. "We shouldn't be aspiring to gender neutrality, but rather gender inclusivity," they write. "It's not 'down with gender,' but rather down with constricting gender rules and regulations." A thorough, evenhanded illumination of a contentious topic imbued with compassion and cleareyed data. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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