Dear Dad Growing up with a parent in prison--and how we stayed connected

Jay Jay Patton

Book - 2024

"...Your dad is coming back home." As far back as nine-year-old Jay Jay Patton can remember, her dad, Antoine has been in prison. Growing up in Buffalo, New York with her mom and younger brother, she's only been to visit him twice. Instead, the two have sent each other numerous letters -- Jay Jay's letters can take weeks or months to reach her dad, and some never even get delivered. What's it going to be like having Dad home? This powerful coming-of-age graphic novel memoir tells Jay Jay Patton's life of growing up with a dad in -- and out of -- prison. How she and her dad were able to develop a powerful father/daughter bond and create Photo Patch -- a life-changing application that connects children to incarce...rated parents. Because no child should have to grow up unable to engage with their parents. As Jay Jay says: "It's not a privilege for a kid to be able to talk to their parent. It's a right."

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Subjects
Genres
Graphic novels
Coming-of-age comics
Autobiographical comics
Published
New York : Scholastic 2024.
Language
English
Main Author
Jay Jay Patton (author)
Physical Description
121 pages : color illustrations ; 24 cm
Audience
Ages 8-12.
Grades 3-7.
ISBN
9781338893205
9781546128373
Contents unavailable.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

In this joyful graphic novel memoir with a mission, debut author Patton and Valdez (We Are Groot) give voice to the experience of a child with an incarcerated parent. Without sacrificing her personal portrayal of the difficulties of having an incarcerated parent and how that can negatively affect parent-child relationships ("Do I have a dad?" a five-year-old Patton asks her mother), the author highlights solutions that helped facilitate bonding during her father's imprisonment. She asserts that "it's not a privilege for a kid to talk to their parents. It's a right," and details the many letters she sent and received over the years leading up to her father's release when she is 10. Easy-to-follow, realistically wrought comics panels rendered in saturated jewel tones by Jenai (Prudence Under Suspicion) chronicle the tween's growth, including her aptitude in academics, which she shares with her father, who earned a degree in computer science while he was "locked up." Following his release, the father-daughter duo develops an app that simplifies communication between kids and incarcerated parents. By showcasing the challenges of daily life for a family learning to live together again while making up for lost time, the creators present an uplifting memoir that works to destigmatize incarceration. Ages 8--12. (Sept.)

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Review by School Library Journal Review

Gr 5 Up--Keeping in communication with an incarcerated parent is tough. Jay Jay's mom knew it was important, so as the girl grew, Jay Jay stayed connected with her dad. Upon his release from prison, where he earned a computer degree, father and daughter teamed up to create an app to keep families in touch. Her work and their life are documented in this graphic novel memoir, penned by daughter and dad, along with the help of others. As a title aimed at younger readers, the sparse text is traded for panels that feature the emotional side of reuniting as a family and moving from New York to Florida for a fresh start. Jay Jay's age plays a role since she has to leave her friends and school behind to bond with a father she only knew through pictures and letters. But the lack of text leads to gaps in understanding the totality of his absence. Scenes of Jay Jay in school making new friends or adjusting to her father's presence again at home feel disjointed at times, reading like a series of vignettes. Unanswered questions cast a shadow on the complexity of their relationship and how they collaborated on the app that would eventually be used for other families to stay connected during incarceration. VERDICT For visibility, the book's purpose is clear, and the emotion is palpable, but the issues with narrative clarity keep it just shy of stellar.--Alicia Abdul

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Review by Horn Book Review

In this graphic memoir, brilliant Jay Jay enjoys solving the puzzles and equations her incarcerated father, Antoine, sends her in handwritten letters -- though they take a long time to arrive. Jay Jay is elated when her father is released from prison, but the joy is short lived when she discovers the family will have to move from their beloved Buffalo, New York, to Florida. Life away from friends and extended family is rough, and Jay Jay is unsure how much she can trust her new classmates with information about her father. The adjustment to their new life brings new challenges for both Jay Jay and Antoine, but their shared love of mathematics allows them to find logical solutions to their relationship issues, and more. While in prison, Antoine earned a degree in computer programming; as he teaches her how to code, they work together to develop the Photo Patch app when Jay Jay is just twelve years old. The app will allow families to more easily communicate with their loved ones in prison. Now twenty, Patton recounts her journey with equal parts directness and humor. Panels vary in size and color to create movement, with some illustrations utilizing the entire page and breaking through margins. Interspersed boxes in a standout gold express the author's memories and thoughts. Back matter (some pages unseen) includes information regarding parents in the penal system and about Photo Patch. Eboni NjokuNovember/December 2024 p.118 (c) Copyright The Horn Book, Inc., a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Father-daughter pair Jay Jay and Antoine Patton draw from real life for this work of graphic nonfiction that grapples with the toll incarceration takes on families. Jay Jay, who presents Black, is 5 years old when she learns that her father's been incarcerated for the past two years. Writing letters and making phone calls aren't enough to maintain the sort of connection Jay Jay needs (the art obscures her father's face in many of her memories). While in prison, her father develops his skills as a computer programmer, ultimately earning his degree. He's released when Jay Jay is 10, and he sets out to pursue a career in tech, but it comes at a cost; the whole family--Jay Jay, her parents, and her younger brother--must relocate from Buffalo to Florida. After they adjust to their new life, Jay Jay's dad, inspired by his own experiences, starts developing Photo Patch, an app that helps children share photos and letters with incarcerated parents. It isn't easy, but with help from Jay Jay, a budding programmer herself, the two are ultimately successful. Some of the dialogue feels forced, and the cartoon art is a bit static. Still, the journey is a satisfying one that exudes feelings of love and empathy, and it illuminates a challenge that affects many families but isn't often addressed in literature. Offers many young people much-needed inspiration and solace. (author's note)(Graphic nonfiction. 8-12) Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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