Review by Booklist Review
For years, Scheer and his cohosts have examined bad movies that don't really make sense at any stage, from idea to execution, on his podcast, How Did This Get Made? With his new book, no such questions come to mind. Scheer, who has a long list of comedic-acting credits over the past two decades, would seem an ideal candidate to produce a book of entertaining essays. And there is plenty of comedy: tales of awkward celebrity run-ins and stories about coming up in the New York sketch-comedy scene of the early 2000s, complete with a failed Saturday Night Live audition. But there's also real gravity shown throughout the essays that deal with his Long Island childhood, including the difficulty of living with an abusive stepfather. For a slim volume, Scheer is able to pack in the laughs that fans of his irreverent comedy will expect as well as showcase a uniquely intimate writing voice that successfully tackles topics as wide ranging as an adult ADHD diagnosis and his own love story with fellow comedian June Diane Raphael. Scheer's recollections add up to something entirely substantial that fans of comedy and confessional-memoir writing will appreciate.
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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Comedian and The League actor Scheer's debut memoir-in-essays has all the thrills and pitfalls of an improv comedy set. After his parents divorced when he was seven, Scheer grew up on 1980s Long Island with his mother and abusive stepfather, who once choked him during a tense game of Monopoly. Seeking an escape from his volatile home life, Scheer made short films and cultivated a hunger to perform in front of an audience. In high school, he landed a spot with the New York City--based comedy troupe Chicago City Limits, and became fascinated by long-form improv after watching Amy Poehler perform with the Upright Citizens Brigade, a group he eventually also joined. He dots the narrative's main arcs-- about his career in comedy and courtship of fellow comedian June Diane Raphael, whom he eventually married--with amusing celebrity anecdotes, including the gruff dismissal he received from Alan Alda when he sought an autograph as a child ("No, kid. I bet you don't even know who I am"). At another point, Scheer recounts the platonic lunch date he went on with a "beautiful young woman" while working accounts payable at a branding firm, whom he later learned was Britney Spears. While the results are a bit scattershot--Scheer's funny, but there's a lot of froth--they go down easy. This should satisfy comedy fans. Agents: David Kuhn and Nate Muscato, Aevitas Creative Management. (May)
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Review by Library Journal Review
Award-winning actor/comedian/podcaster Scheer's charming, disarming, candid, and warm collection of essays will appeal to readers who like their humor best when it's bittersweet. He aims to wear his former feelings of shame with pride, whether it's describing abuse at the hands of his stepfather or listing cringeworthy celebrity encounters so embarrassing that he had to leave the scene. He acknowledges the times in his life that those who loved him most, including himself, failed him. Laying bare how traumatic events can become so routine they may not register as trauma, he conveys his humility and humanity with humor and authenticity. In the chapters "Ode to a Minivan" and "Scheer Humiliation," readers see the silly side of him in his roles as an actor, a comedian, a husband, and a father. Readers will find the sincerest form of self-acceptance through hard lessons learned in the chapters "When I Grow Up" and "Becoming Dad." VERDICT Scheer's memoir addresses somber truths of adolescence and abuse while never losing a sense of hope and humor along the way. Recommend this beautiful book to fans of Sam Neill, Casey Wilson, and Samantha Irby.--Alana R. Quarles
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Review by Kirkus Book Review
The comedian and actor wasn't kidding around when he titled his memoir. Scheer, best known for his work on The League, Black Monday, and Veep, begins with some harrowing tales of abuse from his stepfather that he balances by recognizing how they helped make him the successful father, husband, and entertainer he is today. "All the chaos and abuse were so normalized that only in the retelling do I realize just how abnormal they were," he writes, adding that there were moments when he felt victorious, "like the time I outran a pitchfork he threw at my back." It's these triumphs, cut with his self-deprecating humor, that makes Scheer's memoir so charming and uplifting, despite the often difficult subject matter of his childhood on Long Island. Given his storytelling experience as an actor and a podcaster on How Did This Get Made?--which he co-hosts with his wife, June Diane Raphael, and fellow League actor Jason Mantzoukas--the author manages to make it all entertaining. Even his story about learning that he was lactose intolerant after a serious health scare at Disney World becomes hilarious in retrospect. Scheer also writes about his love of improv, especially with the Upright Citizens Brigade; the auditioning process; and his enjoyment of movies and working at Blockbuster Video. However, the author treats his higher-profile jobs, like his regular gig on VH1's Best Week Ever, as asides to his life with his wife and family. It's part of the serious point Scheer wants to make, despite the humor. He chronicles his journey through abuse and into the life he dreamed of to show how he did it: through therapy, self-acceptance, and prioritizing his family. An endearing underdog story that will have readers cheering for the author from a troubled beginning to a sweet, happy end. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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