All things are too small Essays in praise of excess

Becca Rothfeld

Book - 2024

"A glorious call to throw off restraint and balance in favor of excess, abandon, and disproportion, in essays ranging from such topics as mindfulness, decluttering, David Cronenberg, and consent. In her debut essay collection, "brilliant and stylish" (The Washington Post) critic Becca Rothfeld takes on one of the most sacred cows of our time: the demand that we apply the virtues of equality and democracy to culture and aesthetics. The result is a culture that is flattened and sanitized, purged of ugliness, excess, and provocation. Our embrace of minimalism has left us spiritually impoverished. We see it in our homes, where we bring in Marie Kondo to rid them of their idiosyncrasies and darknesses. We take up mindfulness to do... the same thing to our heads, emptying them of the musings, thoughts, and obsessions that make us who we are. In the bedroom, a new wave of puritanism has drained sex of its unpredictability and therefore true eroticism. In our fictions, the quest for balance has given us protagonists who aspire only to excise their appetites. We have flipped our values, Rothfeld argues: while the gap between rich and poor yawns hideously wide, we strive to compensate with egalitarianism in art, erotics, and taste, where it does not belong and where it quashes wild experiments and exuberance. Lush, provocative, and bitingly funny, All Things Are Too Small is a subversive soul cry to restore imbalance, obsession, gluttony, and ravishment to all domains of our lives"--Dust jacket flap.

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Subjects
Genres
Essays
Published
New York : Metropolitan Books, Henry Holt and Company 2024.
Language
English
Main Author
Becca Rothfeld (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
285 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN
9781250849915
  • 1. All Things Are Too Small
  • 2. More Is More
  • 3. Ladies in Waiting
  • 4. The Flesh, It Makes You Crazy
  • 5. Murder on the Installment Plan
  • 6. Wherever You Go, You Could Leave
  • 7. Other People's Loves
  • 8. Having a Cake and Eating It, Too
  • 9. Only Mercy: Sex After Consent
  • 10. Normal Novels
  • 11. Two Lives, Simultaneous and Perfect
  • 12. Our True Entertainment Was Arguing
  • Acknowledgments
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Washington Post book critic Rothfeld's erudite debut collection muses on the merits of indulgence. In "More Is More," Rothfeld likens the spare storytelling in "fragment novels" by such authors as Kate Zambreno and Jenny Offill to the decluttering ethos espoused by Marie Kondo, critiquing both for prioritizing utility over sentimentality. Individuality, she suggests, is achieved through the accumulation of things (friends, fears, and phobias, for instance) one doesn't need. "Wherever You Go, You Could Leave" derides the recent mindfulness vogue and contends that though some people might find the mental exercises soothing, the movement's emphasis on tranquility and acceptance serves to divert attention from the material inequalities and unjust labor conditions that stress people out in the first place. Elsewhere, the author pushes back against a recent spate of books decrying the "rough, casual, and extramarital sex that the sexual revolution legitimated" and posits that the ostensibly restrained films of French director Éric Rohmer "trade in unfamiliar forms of exaltation," brimming with tenderness rather than overt sexuality. Rothfeld has a knack for aphorism ("There is nothing more foreign to justice than love"), and it's an absolute pleasure to watch her idiosyncratic arguments unfold. This is a triumph. (Apr.)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Essays on the desirability of excess in life and in art. Rothfeld, a philosopher, essayist, and nonfiction book critic for the Washington Post, reflects on how film, novels, and other art forms, as well as moral endeavors such as sexual consent, decluttering, and mindfulness ("the decluttered mind"), constrain desire. Of particular concern is the singular quest for economic and political equality. Justice is only the start of a journey "into the more exciting territory of want, glut, and extravagance." As the author writes, "Where justice seeks proportion…the erotic seeks abundance." Rothfeld argues that the "fragment novel" (one example is Jenny Offill's Dept. of Speculation), "which is divested of all extravagance, is therefore an artwork from which the art has been removed, a body drained of all its blood and carnality." A similar argument is made with the risk-free novels of Sally Rooney, which simulate normalcy and wallow in "claustrophobic romantic entanglements." In her strongest essay, Rothfeld questions the viability of sexual consent and the resilience of patriarchal norms of femininity, while lamenting its blindness to the erotic and the shock of sensuality. Comedies of re-marriage--e.g., the "1940 masterwork of romantic comedy," His Girl Friday--lead the author to the possibility of endless talk. Love requires "faith in the inexhaustibility of another person." Among other themes that Rothfeld investigates are the excess in filmmaker Éric Rohmer's cycle Six Moral Tales; the way women wait for men (to love is to live "in a state of painful expectation"), as Penelope did in the Odyssey; and eating as a metaphor for fully absorbing the sensual world. Rothfeld's essays are themselves excessive, with layers of fertile ideas and sharp observations at times obscuring her central thread. The writing is crisp, reflecting a curious mind and a yearning body. Intellectual fare to complement the healthy pursuit of erotic transcendence. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.