Trash talk The only book about destroying your rivals that isn't total garbage

Rafi Kohan

Book - 2023

"In the age of hot takes and trolling, this expansive and funny study of the art and science of trash talk reveals something essential about public life--and even human nature. In the modern economy and culture, fame and virality have become increasingly difficult to separate from success. From athletes to comedians to politicians to big-ticket CEOs, everyone seemingly has to manage their brand. Saying the wrong thing is often more profitable than saying the right one. We are all, it seems, engaged in a giant insult comedy roast, even when we don't want to be. The tradition of talking trash goes back to ancient Greece, and is not always innocent fun. Who gets to do it to whom, how, and when? In this energetic and wide-ranging book..., Rafi Kohan takes the measure of this sneakily important practice. Talking to historians, athletes, comedians, and more, he describes what they do and why they do it, and also asks why it's so central to the human experience. From military stress tests at Fort Bragg to the basketball court to the Jeff Ross Roast Battle, he writes about what's funny and what's mean, where the line is, and the consequences--sometimes severe--of crossing it. Trash Talk is full of good jokes and bad jokes, name-calling and moralizing. But it's also belonging, freedom, and how to live with other people"--

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Published
New York : PublicAffairs 2023.
Language
English
Main Author
Rafi Kohan (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xxiii, 310 pages ; 25 cm
ISBN
9781541788916
  • Preface
  • Section I: In the beginning, there was smack. Look who's talking ; The business of trash talk ; A good heel is hard to find
  • Section II: The art and science of talking shit. Are you a kangaroo? ; The most critical dimension ; The last 10 percent
  • Section III: The answer to trash talk. How to respond (or not respond) ; The makings of mental toughness
  • Section IV: The problem with the line. It's not compliment battle ; When to blow the whistle ; A legit societal conversation.
Review by Booklist Review

In this thoroughly reported, example-laden look at "trash talk," Kohan (The Arena, 2017) makes a compelling case for the power of words. "Sportsmanship is overrated," says former NFL player Malcolm Jenkins. Indeed, Ultimate Fighting Championship star Conor McGregor wins, in part, by cruelly toying with adversaries, belittling and baiting them. Of course, using threats in combative situations is nothing new. In the Bible, Kohan reminds us, David told Goliath, "I will strike you down and cut off your head." Kohan shares many more examples from sports, the military, and entertainment. Radio comedians Jack Benny and Fred Allen conducted a famous (and fake) feud to draw in an audience. But smack talk is very real and integral to competition. Mean words can hurt opponents and psychologically help the person who says them. Should victims, whether they're on a playing field or in military training, respond to verbal abuse and humiliation? No, says Kohan. Instead, when buttons are pushed, we should try to control our emotions, stay rational, and prove the meanies wrong. Good advice for anyone under any circumstances.

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

In this rollicking survey, sports writer Kohan (The Arena) examines how trash talk, which he calls "a specific form of incivility" that "allows people to communicate when they're going head-to-head," functions in sports, the military, stand-up comedy, and politics. Though athletes usually trash-talk their opponents "in hopes of interfering with their concentration or otherwise diminishing their performance," Kohan notes that L.A. Lakers star Kobe Bryant "used verbal and physical challenges to feel out guys in his own locker room," believing he could rely on those who bantered back to give their all on the court. Studying incivility in politics, Kohan contends that the insults Donald Trump throws at his political adversaries create an us-versus-them dynamic that strengthens his base's identification with him. Elsewhere, Kohan discusses how the U.S. Army prepares soldiers for possible capture with drills that involve shouting personalized invective at them and how comedians negotiate going "too far" when roasting each other. Kohan's nuanced inquiry highlights trash talk's surprisingly diverse applications, and he's never less than entertaining ("To call it dark humor would be a disservice to Pantone charts everywhere," Kohan writes of the withering insults at a comedy roast). This is a blast. (Dec.)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

An entertaining study of the taunts and insults that pervade sports and the larger culture. Consider the dozens, "a ritualized insult game endemic to Black communities" that is both playful and (sometimes literally) deadly serious, always designed to get inside your opponent's head. Take it up a few notches, and you have Muhammad Ali, "the veritable godfather of modern trash talk." Though an ascended master of trash talk, Ali was no pioneer. Kohan, the author of The Arena, traces it a couple of centuries back, locating incivility in American politics as well as sports and popular culture. The author opens with modern professional wrestling and MMA competitions, where bigmouth putdowns are the currency of the realm. He effectively links this nasty (if often staged) streak to what he calls the "Trump disinhibition effect" of the present, where Ali would seem the most diffident of interlocutors against the blustering ex-president, who promulgated an ethos ranging "from general rudeness to outright dickishness, in politics and well beyond." In this light, Kohan cites instances where insult comics backed off, recognizing that their poking fun was crossing the line into verbal abuse. The author deeply examines the psychology of trash talk, connecting it to the more positive quality of empathy--for, as primatologist Frans de Waal tells him, "In order to be cruel, you need to know what is hurtful to someone." Kohan is also enough of a connoisseur of trash talk to distinguish the effective but relatively harmless slapdown from racist, misogynist, homophobic, or downright mean slurs--again a product of that disinhibition effect, which seems to be the current state of what should instead be a fine art of genteel character assassination. A treat for students of language, as well as would-be Don Rickles heirs looking to hone their craft. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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