We're all in this together . . So make some room

Brief essays on the art of being human. In his third book, Papa offers more humorous, sympathetic, and humane personal anecdotes to show that survival in a world of changing institutions, challenged human rights, and digital isolation comes down to understanding one's humanity and finding "new ways to connect" with others. Like most people, the author grew up wanting only to "blend in and be normal." However, in the words of his grandmother, "there's no such thing as normal. Everybody's a mess." That quirkiness, notes the author, combined with "a certain amount of rude self-interest," is very much at the heart of everyday problems people face whenever they encounter other humans. With tongue firmly in cheek, Papa writes, the "same people who make life intolerable for everyone at home actually go out into the world, work in office buildings, run for office and drive around in police cars." Even after a deadly global pandemic, though, human behavior seems not to have changed: People--like the woman Papa watched "sneezing into her hands and wiping it on her stretchy jeans" in an airport--are just as lacking in manners and consideration as they ever were. One thing that redeems the messiness of life is laughing at human foibles, which in turn sparks "joy and connection" with others. The other is an awareness of the regrets that accumulate over past mistakes. For Papa, regrets are actually a sign of health and an indicator that "you have evolved into a person who knows better" and can connect with others in more positive ways. Papa's latest book is sure to appeal to his fans as well as anyone who appreciates understated humor that probes the nature of the human condition. Chapter titles include "Cats--Ancient Menace," "There's No Cure for a Hangover," and "Regrets? I Have a Bunch." Papa delivers another relatably witty collection. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.