It's ok Being kind to yourself when things feel hard

Wendy O'Leary

Book - 2023

"Sometimes days are hard. We can feel angry, sad, or even worried. Big feelings happen to everyone. When you notice difficult feelings, you can be kind to yourself. Just like a good friend, being kind to yourself can help you feel better even when things are the hardest! Children can practice along with this story that teaches them how to be self-compassionate with proven skills to support resiliency and emotional wellbeing. The key elements of Mindful Self Compassion (a program created by Dr. Kristen Neff and Dr. Christopher Germer) include mindfulness, common humanity and kindness. Self compassion supports increased happiness and the ability to bounce back from difficulties. As with self-compassion for adults, this sweet story encour...ages children to be kind to themselves simply because they are hurting. Imagine the ongoing benefits of teaching children to be their own best friend! Afterword by leading self-compassion expert Dr. Christopher Germer, co-founder the Mindful Self Compassion Program and author of best-selling books The Mindful Path of Self-Compassion and The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook. Additional exercises for parents or educators to teach children to explore ways to be kind to themselves are also included"--

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Subjects
Genres
Picture books
Published
Boulder, Colorado : Shambhala [2023]
Language
English
Main Author
Wendy O'Leary (author)
Other Authors
Sandra Eide (illustrator)
Physical Description
1 volume (unpaged) : color illustrations ; 26 cm
Audience
Ages 3-7
Grades K-1
ISBN
9781645470953
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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Instructions on cultivating mindfulness and meeting challenges. "Sometimes things don't go the way I want. I feel sad, and it is hard." A brown-skinned soccer player who has obviously had a tough game soon remembers that everyone feels this way sometimes. The child puts their hand on their heart and says, "It's OK--I love you. I'm with you today." On another page, a Black-presenting child playing with a dog knocks over a plant and feels upset but is reminded that "everyone feels bad sometimes" and performs the same ritual. A light-skinned child throws a tantrum over the idea of cleaning their room, an Asian-presenting child feels left out when a new sibling is born, the child who knocked over the plant reappears and feels scared of the ocean…but they, and other diverse children, help themselves feel better by repeating the refrain mindfully. O'Leary's text is fine as bibliotherapeutic mindfulness instruction, but it is Eide's illustrations that save this offering from being too didactic by presenting concrete, recognizable situations. Children will readily identify with the scenarios depicted and will feel reassured by this lesson in self-love. Exercises to help kids develop self-kindness and an afterword by Christopher Germer, a lecturer on psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, round out the package. (This book was reviewed digitally.) Will set youngsters on the path to fostering self-acceptance and -forgiveness. (Picture book. 4-9) Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.