Weightless Making space for my resilient body and soul

Evette Dionne

Book - 2022

"In this insightful, funny, and whip-smart book, acclaimed writer Evette Dionne explores the minefields fat Black women are forced to navigate in the course of everyday life. From her early experiences of harassment to adolescent self-discovery in internet chatrooms to a diagnosis of heart failure at age twenty- nine, Dionne tracks her relationship with friends, sex, motherhood, agoraphobia, health, pop culture, and self-image. Along the way, she lifts the curtain to reveal the subtle, insidious forms of surveillance and control levied at fat women: At the doctor's office, where any health ailment is treated with a directive to lose weight. On dating sites, where larger bodies are either rejected or fetishized. On TV, where fat c...haracters are asexual comedic relief. But Dionne's unflinching account of our deeply held prejudices is matched by her fierce belief in the power of self-love. An unmissable portrait of a woman on a journey toward understanding our society and herself, Weightless holds up a mirror to the world we live in and asks us to imagine the future we deserve"--Dust jacket flap.

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  • Introduction
  • No Country for Fat Kids
  • Doctors, Get Your Shit Together
  • In the Land of Princesses, All We Do Is Catfish
  • I Want a Love Like Khadijah James
  • All Hail the Queens of Not Giving Two Fucks
  • Turn Off the Lights
  • The Skinny Boyfriend Trope
  • Yes, Mothers Can Be Monstrous
  • The Impermanent Prototype
  • Celebrities, Weight Loss, and Us
  • Our 600 lb. Obsession
  • Your Life Is Disposable
  • Back to the Fat Future
  • Acknowledgments
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Journalist Dionne (Lifting as We Climb) examines fatphobia in America in these sharp essays. From detailing early experiences with bullying to unpacking personal relationships and destructive beliefs, Dionne confronts the systemic prejudice against fat bodies. In "No Country for Fat Kids," Dionne considers Weight Watchers programs for teens and Michelle Obama's initiatives to fight childhood obesity, arguing that these well-intentioned programs ignored "how difficult it would be to help fat children gain and maintain ownership over their bodies." In "Doctors, Get Your Shit Together," Dionne recalls her deteriorating health as medical practitioners dismissed her symptoms of heart failure and instead prescribed weight loss as a cure-all. Later, Dionne recounts watching the 1990s sitcom Living Single and being transfixed by Queen Latifah, who played a plus-size Black magazine editor who prioritized her own desires: "Khadija was the first character I'd seen who told me I didn't have to just accept what was offered." Dionne also dissects her complicated fascination with the reality series My 600-lb Life, which fosters feelings of superiority: "I'm able to create distance between the fat body I inhabit and their fat bodies." Crackling with conviction, this is an urgent call for change. Agent: Sarah Phair, Sanford J. Greenburger Assoc. (Dec.)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A feminist culture writer examines the challenges plus-size Black women must overcome on a daily basis. Dionne, author of Lifting as We Climb, began writing these essays in order to raise consciousness about "fatphobic culture that's bolstered by a billion-dollar dieting industry." By the time the book was completed, she had been diagnosed with heart failure and pulmonary hypertension, conditions caused by doctors' inability to see beyond her "fatness." Drawing on personal experience and popular culture, Dionne shows how "fat people" are mistreated by being "dismissed, willfully misinterpreted and sidelined." The problem begins in childhood when boys and girls are taught "to associate thinness with discipline [and] fatness [with] laziness" and made the objects of weight-bullying when they do not fit size expectations. The medical establishment has its own fat prejudices that only compound the issue. Dionne writes about how doctors routinely lectured her about her weight in young adulthood and focused on adjusting her diet. When she exhibited problematic symptoms like "swollen ankles, unrelenting lower-back pain, hot flashes and uncontrollable weight gain," they immediately blamed her fatness. Even the excessive bleeding from which she also suffered wasn't enough to convince Dionne's gynecologist that fibroids had caused the problem. "Three in four Black people with uteruses will develop fibroids in their lifetime," she writes. Later, decisions doctors made on how to treat her pulmonary hypertension robbed her of the ability to have children via vaginal birth. The author argues persuasively that the media plays a huge role in promulgating negative fat-girl stereotypes. The few positive images it has offered--e.g., Queen Latifah's sexy, confident character Khadijah James on the 1990s sitcom Living Single--provide plus-size Black women life-changing visions of a positive lifestyle. Vibrant, intimate, and intelligent, this book lays down the unapologetic demand that women of size finally be allowed "to be fat in plain sight." A provocatively necessary collection. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.