So when are you having kids? The definitive guide for those who aren't sure if, when, or how they want to become parents

Those searching for information on parenthood will find many guides to pregnancy, childbirth, and raising children; but for those who are thinking about whether or not to become parents, or how and when to do it, there is very little information. Health journalist Davidson fills that need with this comprehensive guide addressing just about every concern a prospective parent might have. She pairs exhaustive research and expert opinions with dozens of personal stories from a wide variety of parents. Discussions include the demands and rewards of parenthood, financial considerations, concerns about genetic diseases and disorders, and the risks of pregnancy and childbirth. Fertility and the grief of infertility are discussed, along with alternative paths to parenthood, including opting for a child-free life.The book is notable for its inclusivity--women, men, and nonbinary people; same-sex couples and single parents will all see themselves and their experiences reflected here. This practical, authoritative guide will be welcomed by the many people who need support as they navigate one of the most important decisions of their lives.

Davidson's (cofounder, Endo Warriors) book is not about having or raising children, but a look at whether one should or should not have them. Davidson narrates her own work, delving deep into the reasons why and how people choose to have children by drawing on substantial information gleaned through interviews with straight, cis white men and women, as well as people of color and trans, nonbinary, and other queer individuals. Societal and familial pressure, and climate, economic, and political concerns are all weighed equally. Listeners will get a crash course on human reproduction, including detailed information on the differences between IVF and other ways in which one can conceive, including donors and surrogates. Davidson also explores the complexities of adoption, including transracial, international, and second-parent adoptions. In the section on childfree individuals, Davidson sensitively notes that the decision to not have children is entirely valid, pointing out that one does not have to be a parent to be part of a child's life. VERDICT This is a much-needed book on how to decide to become a parent. Davidson handles the diversity of individuals and situations with tact and care.--Elyssa Everling