The other How to own your power at work as a woman of color

Daniela Pierre-Bravo

Book - 2022

"Women of color and children of immigrants have a different experience when climbing the ladder toward success. Throughout her career, bestselling author and MSNBC producer Daniela Pierre-Bravo was driven to land a good job, achieve the American Dream, and make her family proud. As an undocumented immigrant from Chile, she went through her high school and college years in the shadows, working in the back of kitchens and selling cosmetics door-to-door to help her family make ends meet. When she got called for an internship in New York City, she traveled overnight roundtrip from Ohio to interview in-person to prove her worth and prevent any prejudices or biases about Latinas getting in the way of that opportunity. She moved heaven and ea...rth to be a great employee and not let her undocumented status define her future. Paying close attention to her mostly white and male work environment's cues, she adapted her fashion style and vocabulary, being careful not to mispronounce words, to gain inclusion. Eventually she was able to flourish at her company and rise through the ranks. When she became a DACA recipient, she finally felt that she'd made it. But then she hit a wall. Daniela realized that she'd been living in survival mode and was overcompensating to prove her worth. She associated this as much with growing up undocumented as she did with her identity as a child of immigrants. It was time to make a change, and she wasn't alone in needing to. The unyielding feeling of inadequacy or a sense of not belonging in traditional workplaces for women of color and children of immigrants are what often drives you to follow the unspoken rules of inclusion, to fit in, to adapt, to make yourself "useful", keep your head down, and stay in your lane in order to hold on to the job you worked so hard to attain. Often, once you're in the door, once you've rolled up your sleeves and put in the long hours, and finally carved a space to grow in your field, you are often treated as and feel like "the other," and it starts to get in your way. In THE OTHER, Daniela pushes you to reckon with this feeling and guides you in recognizing your power through your own eyes instead of a traditional white gaze in the workplace. She aims to help you clear your path toward advancement without losing your sense of identity and learn how to embrace your differences with confidence and use them to your advantage. By the end you will become your biggest believer and truly own your multidimensional narrative to take charge of your destiny, create your own box, and achieve your own version of success. This book is a framework for how to take back your power, master how to effectively advocate for yourself, and claim the spaces in your career that are rightfully yours"--

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Published
New York : Legacy Lit 2022.
Language
English
Main Author
Daniela Pierre-Bravo (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xiv, 236 pages ; 24 cm
ISBN
9780306925443
  • Introduction
  • 1. Turn Off Survival Mode
  • 2. Why You Feel This Way
  • 3. When the Other Was Born
  • 4. Take the Damn Risk
  • 5. Duality Is Your Superpower
  • 6. You Are Worthy
  • 7. The Burnout
  • 8. Repeat After Me: "My Why Is My Power"
  • 9. Grab a Seat and Order Coffee Too
  • 10. Go for More!
  • 11. Your Career Needs a Manager
  • 12. The Power of the Other
  • Acknowledgments
Review by Library Journal Review

In The Mamas, Andrews-Dyer--a senior culture writer at the Washington Post and author of Bitch Is the New Black --relates her experiences as a Black mother in a predominantly white mommy group and asks whether Black and white mothers can truly be not just mom mates but real friends. Productivity expert Forte explains that as we deal with all the information swamping us, we can think, work, and live better by Building a Second Brain (75,000-copy first printing). Journalist Mariani draws on personal experience with chronic fatigue syndrome to show how people deal with life disruptions by creating new identities in What Doesn't Kill Us Makes Us. Author of the New York Times best-selling The Impossible First and a multi-record-holding explorer, O'Brady explains how to push beyond self-imposed limits and become a better you in The 12-Hour Walk (125,000-copy first printing). Well connected in both English- and Spanish-language media, MSNBC reporter forMorning Joe Pierre-Bravo can identify with feeling like The Other in business meetings, and she gives women of color and children of immigrants advice on overcoming that head-down feeling (50,000-copy first printing).

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

An undocumented Chilean immigrant uses her personal experiences to advise other marginalized young professionals about their careers. Pierre-Bravo, a reporter for MSNBC's Morning Joe and contributor and producer to NBC's Know Your Value platform, begins with her childhood, which she and her family spent in "survival mode," trying to eke out a living while avoiding deportation. Due to this situation, she was not only constantly working; she lived in constant fear. In one particularly poignant example, she remembers hitting a parked car while working as a delivery person for Mary Kay, a job she took on to help defray the costs of college. Although she desperately needed her summer wages--as an undocumented student, she was ineligible for scholarships or loans--she spent most of her money paying the owner of the damaged car in cash so she could avoid a confrontation with law enforcement, which might have forced her to reveal her immigration status. After this level of childhood trauma, Pierre-Bravo says it took years to stop making decisions from a place of fear. Following these revelations, the author encourages young people to learn from her past hesitancy by rejecting survival mode, setting boundaries, taking risks, embracing vulnerability, and asking directly for things like promotions and raises, among other strategies. The author's conversational tone and hard-won experience lend her voice a compassion and clarity that readers will find both useful and comforting, and her advice is practical and well reasoned. "It's time for you to stop waiting for anyone's permission," she writes. At times, though, Pierre-Bravo's insistence on self-advocacy feels disconnected from the real structural barriers faced by women of color and other minority communities. This leads to analysis that is sometimes overly simplistic and puts an unfair amount of pressure on individuals to single-handedly overturn centuries of oppression. An inspirational professional guidebook for women of color that occasionally misses the bigger picture. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.