Review by Booklist Review
Already a prestigious best-seller in Korea, Kim's impassioned novel about the meaning of family--by blood, by choice--marks her English-language debut, seamlessly translated by National Book Award longlister Chang. A mother is desperate to help her thirtysomething daughter, an itinerant college lecturer who can't seem to make ends meet. All she has left to offer is her home, and so daughter Green and her partner Lane move in. The woman has been "a good person" all her life, but she can't accept Green and Lane's lesbian relationship, even though it's already seven years strong. Although she's "past seventy," the woman must still work, currently as a caregiver to Jen, a once internationally renowned activist suffering from dementia who is now completely alone and discarded. That lonely fate, the woman fears, might be her own. Sandwiched between tormented maternity and looming mortality, Kim's protagonist must find a way to make peace with her debilitating guilt and shame. In an unintended reminder of change, progress, and hope, translator Chang's bio, appearing at the book's close, states "She lives in Korea with her wife and dog." Kim's confessional first-person narration expresses the sense of urgency to unburden one's most vulnerable thoughts and longings and readers willing to become intimate witnesses will be rewarded with a resonating and empathic tale.
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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Kim excavates the complexities of a mother and daughter's relationship in her excellent debut. The unnamed narrator, a widow who works at a nursing home in South Korea, expresses a strong affinity for an elderly dementia patient named Jen. In contrast, the narrator feels only anger and resentment toward her own daughter, Green, who has recently moved back in with her, along with Green's apparent lover, Lane, despite never asking permission to bring him along. Underlying the narrator's anxiety is a sense of invisibility or smallness, which comes through in her stream-of-consciousness inner monologue as she deals with the pain caused by missteps and miscommunications between her and Green, who rejects her hope for her to have a husband and children. "Ma, Lane is my family," Green says. Later, while working with Jen, her mother thinks, "What's the use of family? We all end up the same way." Kim skillfully depicts the vulnerability and fear underlying her protagonist's anxiety and anger, laying bare the ways in which family dynamics are fluid and full of paradoxes. As the narrator reflects, "The child who sprang from my own flesh and blood is perhaps the creature I'm most distant from." Kim's compassionate portrayal of the narrator's contradictions and ever-changing feelings makes her project captivating and moving. Readers will be grateful to discover this new author. Agent: Marina Penalvin, Casanovas & Lynch. (Sept.)
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Review by Kirkus Book Review
A Korean elder-care worker navigates a troubled relationship with her gay daughter and the expectations of her workplace in this challenging novella. "I was born and raised in this culture where the polite thing to do is to turn a blind eye and keep your mouth shut, and now I've grown old in it," explains the unnamed protagonist of Kim's English-language debut. A widow in her early 70s, the narrator earns a modest income by caring for a dementia patient named Jen, a journalist and activist who never married or had children and has no relatives to care for her in her old age. Despite the pressure from her boss to cut corners and the suspicion that her co-workers are able to successfully "leave all sentiment and anything like it at home," she is deeply troubled by the societal belief that the elderly--especially those who are alone--are disposable. She is less successful at challenging the societal beliefs that affect her own child. Green, a college lecturer in her 30s, has become involved in a labor dispute at the local university and is struggling to pay her bills. When Green and her longtime girlfriend, Lane, accept the narrator's invitation to come live with her for a while, the narrator is forced to confront her self-imposed ignorance about her daughter's sexuality. Kim is unsparing in her depictions of the indignities of old age, the corrosiveness of homophobia, and the piercing loneliness that comes from living in a culture of silence. A heavy but tentatively hopeful look at the struggle for intergenerational understanding through one mother's eyes. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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