Where you go is not who you'll be An antidote to the college admissions mania

Frank Bruni

Book - 2015

"Over the last few decades, Americans have turned college admissions into a terrifying and occasionally devastating process, preceded by test prep, tutors, all sorts of stratagems, all kinds of rankings, and a conviction among too many young people that their futures will be determined and their worth established by which schools say yes and which say no. That belief is wrong. It's cruel. And in WHERE YOU GO IS NOT WHO YOU'LL BE, Frank Bruni explains why, giving students and their parents a new perspective on this brutal, deeply flawed competition and a path out of the anxiety that it provokes. Bruni, a bestselling author and a columnist for the New York Times, shows that the Ivy League has no monopoly on corner offices, gove...rnors' mansions, or the most prestigious academic and scientific grants. Through statistics, surveys, and the stories of hugely successful people who didn't attend the most exclusive schools, he demonstrates that many kinds of colleges-large public universities, tiny hideaways in the hinterlands-serve as ideal springboards. And he illuminates how to make the most of them. What matters in the end are a student's efforts in and out of the classroom, not the gleam of his or her diploma. Where you go isn't who you'll be. Americans need to hear that-and this indispensable manifesto says it with eloquence and respect for the real promise of higher education"--

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Published
New York : Grand Central Publishing 2015.
Language
English
Main Author
Frank Bruni (author)
Item Description
Includes index.
Physical Description
v, 218 pages ; 22 cm
Production Credits
Includes index.
ISBN
9781455532704
9781455532681
  • Introduction
  • Chapter 1. The Unsung Alma Maters
  • Chapter 2. Throwing Darts
  • Chapter 3. Obsessives at the Gate
  • Chapter 4. Rankings and Wrongs
  • Chapter 5. Beyond the Comfort Zone
  • Chapter 6. From Tempe to Waterloo
  • Chapter 7. An Elite Edge?
  • Chapter 8. Strangled with Ivy
  • Chapter 9. Humbled, Hungry and Flourishing
  • Chapter 10. Fire Over Formula
  • Epilogue
Review by New York Times Review

IF YOU HAVE sat through a high school commencement ceremony in the past 25 years, you may have endured an earnest recitation of the last book written by Dr. Seuss, "Oh, the Places You'll Go!" The book is a popular gift to graduates from grown-ups who have forgotten how late adolescents feel about condescension. Here are two deeply felt, intentionally provocative alternatives for college applicants worried about getting into their first choice and parents worried about paying for it: Frank Bruni's exhortation to go elsewhere and Kevin Carey's invitation to go online. Bruni argues that the first place some of us go - not to college generally but to a particular college - has less impact on identity, success and happiness than many suppose. What he calls the "industrialization of the college admission process" in recent decades amounts to a speedup abetted by expensive personal coaches, proliferating online applications and the inevitable U.S. News & World Report rankings. He admits to "bashing" the last of these familiar and easy targets. "I'll proceed to bash," he explains, "because I believe passionately that the college experience can't be reduced in this fashion." Passion has been one of Bruni's trademarks on the New York Times Op-Ed page since 2011, particularly for this subject. "I've used my column," he writes in the book, "to argue that education is so much more than brand." Regular readers may recognize bits of those columns that reappear here - such as the Yale applicant whose essay recalled being so enrapt by her teachers that she once urinated on herself rather than interrupt. Parents who always want the best for their brightest may not seek to be talked out of that impulse, but Bruni tries to re-educate readers about what best really means. Arguing that motivated kids can get a good education almost anywhere, he lists Fortune 500 executives, Pulitzer Prize winners and MacArthur Foundation fellows who attended what he gingerly refers to as "public universities and schools without major reputations." Of course, it's one thing to learn that unranked College X graduated a genius and quite another to gamble on its doing as well by your child, however far above average. Candid interviews with the likes of New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie (who went to the University of Delaware but sent his son to Princeton), Condoleezza Rice (a self-described "failed piano major" at the University of Denver) and the CNN correspondent Christiane Amanpour (a thwarted doctor who got her journalism degree from the University of Rhode Island) raise similar quibbles. Can you imagine any of those three being put at a disadvantage by their choice of college? This is actually Bruni's point: that the best education is less a matter of getting into the best school than of making the best of wherever you go. His most vivid examples and insights emerge from sensitive conversations with parents, applicants, guidance counselors, admissions officers - and especially recent graduates, thriving 20-somethings who now feel lucky to have been rejected by their preferred schools. Some who ended up far afield, geographically or demographically, discovered the educational and personal value of exceeding their comfort zones. Such was the case for Bruni himself, who, after growing up in the suburbs of Connecticut and New York, turned down his dream school, Yale, to accept a scholarship to the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. Reflecting on "the stories of many of the people happiest with the way things had turned out for them," Bruni pulls from them a few common threads, including "an openness to serendipity" and "a nimbleness in adapting to change, a willingness to shoot off in a new direction." KEVIN CAREY URGES nearly identical advice not on parents and students but on colleges and universities, which he believes have actively resisted transformation by information technology in order to maximize profit and preserve centuries-old privileges. An education wonk at the New America Foundation, with degrees (Bruni would want you to know) from Binghamton and Ohio State, Carey elegantly blends policy analysis, reportage and (briefly) memoir into a hard-charging indictment of the eggheads and ivory towers many Americans love to hate. While Bruni extols all the other places you could go, Carey believes that the time is nearly at hand when students won't need to go anywhere to learn every where. Part alternative history and part road trip, the book is a tour guide to higher education from Bologna, Italy, where the first modern university was founded in the late 11th century, to what the author rather breathlessly calls "new digital learning environments" of the early 21st. Carey traces our present dilemma (frenzied competition for scarce berths at vastly overpriced institutions) to the 19th century, when a new trinity of "practical training, research and liberal arts education" combined to form a "strange hybrid university." Over the past hundred years, he argues, efficient and economical education has been sacrificed to professorial autonomy in research and teaching and to high but elusive ideals of curricular breadth. Carey blames what he calls "the hybrid university administrative class" - a vast, left-brained conspiracy of bureaucrats who have turned American higher education into "a government-backed, culturally reinforced monopoly on the sale of increasingly valuable credentials." In other words, elite universities are fully accredited racketeers that employ intellectual and economic muscle to frighten parents into either paying protection money or risking something bad happening to their children. You have to admit he's got something there. He's also got a great sense of irony. Beyond noting that research conducted at "the best hybrid universities" contributed greatly to the "information technology revolution" that might be hastening their demise, Carey delves into brain and learning science to point out that many of the same schools "made phenomenal contributions to the understanding of human cognition even as they steadfastly refused to apply those insights to their own philosophies and practices of teaching." Seeking out exceptional institutions, he spends time at a few where "learning scientists and computer engineers," as well as entrepreneurs and venture capitalists, have been collaborating at "the cutting edge of learning technology." These include Stanford and especially Carnegie Mellon University. (Disclosure: I am on faculty at Carnegie Mellon, albeit teaching analog American history and relying on my degrees from the University of Iowa and Rutgers, the State University of New Jersey.) When the new science of learning, new online business models and new kinds of verifiable, digital credentials converge, Carey concludes, "the cornerstone of the hybrid university economy will begin to crumble, and the University of Everywhere will take its place." The subtitle is perhaps the least clever thing about this readable and thoughtful book. From the start, Carey adopts a utopian or ominous (depending on your end of the tuition bill) tone that leads him to follow intriguing claims - "At the University of Everywhere, educational resources that have been scarce and expensive for centuries will be abundant and free" - with silly ones: "The University of Everywhere will span the earth." Hyperbole sometimes distracts from his gift for finding fascinating characters and explaining complex ideas clearly. Ultimately, these are both utopian books. Perhaps Bruni speaks for both authors when he writes that "college has the potential to confront and challenge some of the most troubling political and social aspects of contemporary life; to muster a pre-emptive strike against them; to be a staging ground for behaving in a different, healthier way." But he looks backward with nostalgia at what may be lost if Carey's futuristic vision materializes: the transformative experiences of different people learning in a room together. SCOTT A. SANDAGE, a cultural historian, is the author of "Born Losers: A History of Failure in America."

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Review by Booklist Review

*Starred Review* In Bruni's March 2014 New York Times op-ed column, Our Crazy College Crossroads, the outspoken journalist (and author of Ambling into History: The Unlikely Odyssey of George W. Bush, 2002) declared that his nerve-hitting piece was intended less as a balm for the rejected than as a reality check for a society gone nuts over the whole overheated process of college admissions. Bruni's ardent new book has been expertly timed for a March release, the annual period when many outstanding college applicants and their parents are desperately awaiting the arrival of a scarce and coveted Ivy League ticket. Here he expands expertly on the same subject matter, aiming to debunk the alarming belief that access to higher education is a brutal, Hunger Games-style competition, where winning acceptance into a top-tier school is the only guarantee for future success. Through numerous examples, statistics, and insightful interviews, Bruni proves that some of today's most prominent individuals did not get where they are by attending Harvard or Yale, and that the path to adulthood can be just as fulfilling when reached by one of the many meaningful roads less traveled. HIGH-DEMAND BACKSTORY: Memories of the charm and honesty of the author's 2009 memoir, Born Round, will draw readers to his new book.--Keech, Chris Copyright 2015 Booklist

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

With great energy and enthusiasm, New York Times columnist Bruni takes a pin to "our society's warped obsession with elite colleges" and provides a commonsense check to the yearly "admissions mania" of students competing for coveted slots at top schools. In taking apart the "largely subjective" and "fatally flawed" rankings of U.S. News & World Report and reviewing the dearth of class diversity and "lack of imagination" at the pinnacle of higher education, Bruni tosses a rock through the undeserved "veneration of elite schools" and celebrates the democratic insistence that a "good student can get a good education just about anywhere." He fills the book with profiles of successful CEOs, politicians, entrepreneurs, and other known names to illustrate how self-starters turned their default school into a stepladder to success. Bruni's quick wit and slick style nimbly glosses over the systemic problems with American higher education and instead reassures floundering young adults and hand-wringing parents that college is and is not the most crucial years of a person's life, and that the true measure of success-"great careers and lives that matter"-is not bought with a diploma but built with "a robust and lasting energy for hard work." While Bruni's heartfelt argument ignores somewhat blissfully the deeper problems facing higher education, his insistence on an ideal liberal, humanistic college as a playground for the mind is a nostalgic and valuable contribution to the larger conversation. (Mar.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by Library Journal Review

College acceptance letters begin arriving in late March and culminate in National College Decision Day, May 1. However, for some students and their families, getting into the right university has become a frenzied process beginning in preschool with the express intent of an Ivy League acceptance letter. Bruni, a New York Times op-ed columnist and author (Born Round; Ambling into History), here looks at the entire admissions process and the increased cultural desire for an elitist education. To that end, he profiles successful Americans who did not attend elite institutions. He also talks with counselors who parse the admissions process and the true meaning of the college ratings scales. Bruni looks at what fuels the increased demand for a top educational experience as well as studies, the results of which defy the notion that success in life is dependent on where you attend classes. VERDICT Bruni's investigative reporting skills serve his audience (parents and students) well. His accessible narrative challenges the cultural fixation on elite educations while illuminating the commonalities of college experiences that have resulted in professional success and lives well lived. A worthy addition to college admissions literature. [See Prepub Alert, 9/29/14.]-Jane Scott, Clark Lib., Univ. of Portland, OR (c) Copyright 2015. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

New York Times op-ed columnist Bruni (Born Round: The Secret History of a Full-time Eater, 2009, etc.) shows why rejection by an Ivy League college need not be a disaster and may even be a blessing. The author attributes the frenzy attached to college admission to the emphasis on branding and privilege, which increasingly characterize our society as the income gap widens. All too often, admission to a top college becomes a goal in itself while the quality of a well-rounded education takes second place. There are many hurdles to be overcome, beginning as early as preschool. Prowess in sports, community service and other extracurricular activities are items for the student's resume along with high grades and test scores. Only after winning a place in an elite institution can the student afford to relax. "The sale is more important than the product," writes Bruni, who presents several cases, including his own experience, to show how being rejected by the top rung may be a blessing in disguise. Getting an education off the charted path can be a life-changing experience. Forced out of their comfort zones, students may become more self-reliant, more flexible and able to succeed, and they may get a better education to boot. The author takes the University of Arizona as an example. It offers a high-quality education with a faculty that includes two Nobel laureates, five Pulitzer Prize winners and more. Written in a lively style but carrying a wallop, this is a book that family and educators cannot afford to overlook as they try to navigate the treacherous waters of college admissions. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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