Work jerks How to cope with difficult bosses and colleagues

Louise Carnachan

Book - 2022

Louise Carnachan has helped thousands of people thrive at work by improving relationships with their colleagues; here, she provides concrete, actionable steps to deal with an array of problematic coworkers.

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Self-help publications
Published
Berkeley, CA : She Writes Press 2022.
Language
English
Main Author
Louise Carnachan (author)
Physical Description
x, 261 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN
9781647423698
  • Preface
  • Chapter 1. How to Use This Book
  • Where to Start
  • About Jerks
  • The Assumptions
  • Is It You?
  • A Warning
  • About the Case Examples
  • In the End
  • Chapter 2. The Narcissistic Jerk
  • The Narcissistic Leader
  • The Gang Leader
  • The Dramatics and Non-Stop Talkers
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Narcissistic Jerk
  • Chapter 3. The Know-It-All Jerk
  • The Know-It-All with Guru Tendencies
  • The Lone Wolf Team Member
  • The Insufferable
  • The Meddlesome Manager
  • The Gotcha
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Know-It-All Jerk
  • Chapter 4. The Incompetent Jerk
  • The Square Peg in a Round Hole Incompetent
  • The Unknowing, Unskilled, and Left-to-Languish
  • The Infuriatingly Incompetent Boss
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Incompetent Jerk
  • Chapter 5. The Runaway-Train Jerk
  • The High-Speed Train
  • The Funeral Train
  • The Hazardous Materials Train
  • The Milk-Run Tram
  • The Stop-at-All-Crossings Train
  • The Circuitous Train
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Runaway-Train Jerk
  • Chapter 6. The Fight-or-Flee Jerk
  • The Chip-on-the-Shoulder the Size of an Elephant
  • The Smart-as-a-Whip and Hugely Defensive
  • The Pot Stirrer
  • The Disappearing Act
  • The Let's Make a Deal
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Fight-or-Flee Jerk
  • Chapter 7. The Poor He Jerk
  • The Quaking-in-Their-Boots
  • The Why Me?
  • The Take Care of Me
  • The Complainers-Are They Justified?
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Poor Me Jerk
  • Chapter 8. The Jokester Jerk
  • The Punster Amongst Us
  • The Tone-Deaf Humorist
  • The Just Kidding
  • The I'm Going to Get Under Your Skin Teasing
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Jokester Jerk
  • Chapter 9. The We Are Family Jerk
  • The Family Ties
  • The Looking for Love
  • The Best Friends Forever-Until We're Not!
  • The Teeny-Tiny Gene Pool
  • Summary for Dealing with Any We Are Family Jerk
  • Chapter 10. The Habitually Annoying Jerk
  • The Scent-sational (and Cultural Differences Therein)
  • The Presumptuous About Me and You!
  • The Things We Don't Need to Know or See
  • The Suspicious Sounds
  • The Stretching the Truth
  • The Rude
  • The Tell Me Something-Vocal Volume Hurdles
  • Summary for Dealing with Any Habitually Annoying Jerk
  • Chapter 11. Men the Jerk Is a Toxic Work Culture
  • Turf Wars
  • People as Commodities
  • Go Along to Get Along (and Keep Your Job)
  • What If I'm in One of These Cultures or an Equally Bad One?
  • Chapter 12. To See Results, Take Action
  • Give Yourself an Advantage
  • Is There Ever a Place for Documentation?
  • What If Nothing Seems to Be Working?
  • Make It Intentional
  • Finally
  • Additional Resources
  • Acknowledgments
  • About the Author
Review by Library Journal Review

Anyone who's ever been employed has likely experienced the misfortune of having a bad boss or coworker. This guide by consultant and blogger Carnachan breaks down the "jerktypes" commonly encountered in the workplace, and how to identify them. Throughout each chapter, Carnachan shares profiles from different employees she's coached in her decades of consulting, and what was helpful (or futile) in their case. She provides advice on everything from minor annoyances (the loud chewer) to truly toxic situations (sexual harassment). Rather than pointing fingers, Carnachan suggests it's also an opportunity for exploring our own biases and invites the reader to complete a brief worksheet in each chapter to identify which harmful traits they might also exhibit that could be corrected. Finally, Carnachan tackles the difficulties that come from a pervasive toxic work culture where there's no readily identifiable solution, and provides recommendations for how those can be addressed. Readers will easily relate to the dozens of profiles presented. Additionally, the recommendations are transferable to many different work environments. VERDICT A smart, concise guide to dealing with difficult coworkers that can be useful to managers and employees alike.--Jen Clifton

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

An organizational consultant highlights unsavory characters found in the workplace. Carnachan's well-organized, exhaustive study of "Jerketypes" is simultaneously unsettling and reassuring. The fact that she can identify so many jerks in the workplace may be disturbing, but her reasoned counsel for how to cope with them should have a calming effect on most readers. The author applies her decades of experience as both an employee and a coach/consultant to identify nine broad types of jerks, breaking them down into subsets. Some of them, such as "The Narcissistic Jerk," seem more dangerous than others, like "The Jokester Jerk," but all of them are worthy of exploration. In each chapter, Carnachan identifies the characteristics of one type of jerk and offers detailed suggestions for dealing with the culprit. The author covers interactions with difficult or exasperating individuals who may be bosses, co-workers, or subordinates. Carnachan includes richly described anecdotes that appropriately illustrate the behavior of each Jerketype. Several of these vignettes are drawn from the author's coaching experience. For example, in discussing the "Gang Leader," one form of Narcissistic Jerk, the author relates the story of Samantha, a skilled worker who "was an absolute misery for her manager, Ashley, because of her sarcastic and critical comments about management." Carnachan explains how she worked with Ashley to create a "performance improvement plan" for Samantha, who, it turns out, eventually resigned. "Lesson learned," writes the author. "Ashley appointed a new lead from her existing staff who had excellent interpersonal skills and good technical skills." These illustrative tales enrich the book and make for engaging reading. There is also an opportunity for self-reflection using worksheets included by Carnachan and designed to identify if readers might be Jerketypes. A chapter called "When the Jerk Is a Toxic Work Culture" discusses workplaces more broadly, defining several typical dysfunctional cultures and potential actions to take. A closing chapter reinforces a key overarching theme: "Remember that the only person you can change is you and what you say and do really does affect others." Eye-opening, insightful, and filled with practical advice about office jerks. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.