Been there, done that A rousing history of sex

Rachel Feltman

Book - 2022

"With curiosity and irreverent insight, science writer Rachel Feltman breaks down the long, weird, illustrious history of sex. She guides readers through the kaleidoscopic archives of centuries-old porn and erotica, as well as the bizarre history of treatments for erectile dysfunction, including radium suppositories and goat testicle transplants. Feltman provides the history of huge scientific questions-e.g., How are babies made?-and considers the ancient from a modern perspective: What was it like to have herpes several millennia ago? Even from unlikely sources like Hildegard von Bingen's treatise on the female orgasm, there's a lot we can learn about our modern-day sexual proclivities and practices from the historical recor...d. And these figures from the past, from gay cowboys to polyamorous Vikings, prove that when it comes to how we have sex and who we do it with, there's no such thing as normal"--

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Published
New York : Bold Type Books 2022.
Language
English
Main Author
Rachel Feltman (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
vi, 328 pages : illustration ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9781645037163
  • Introduction
  • Everything Weird Is Normal-Everything Normal Is Weird
  • 1. What the Heck Is Sex?
  • 2. How Normal Is Heteronormativity?
  • 3. Just How Many Sexes Are There?
  • 4. How Do We Do It?
  • 5. What's the Deal with Masturbation?
  • 6. Why Are We So Scared of STIs?
  • 7. How Is Baby Formed?
  • 8. Have We Always Used Birth Control?
  • 9. Why Don't Our Bodies Always Cooperate with Our Horny Hearts?
  • 10. What Is Porn, Exactly?
  • 11. Why Do So Many of Us Like Sex That Isn't "Normal"?
  • Conclusion: Everything Is Fine if Nothing Hurts
  • Acknowledgments
  • Further Reading
  • Notes
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Popular Science editor Feltman debuts with a playful, myth-busting survey of human sexuality and the history of reproductive science. Tackling the subject from a queer, feminist perspective, she explains the mechanics of conception, traces the evolution of birth control methods, and documents the many techniques, such as "poach goat testes in milk and consum them with sesame seeds and porpoise fat," that have been used to treat erectile dysfunction since the eighth century BCE. Elsewhere, Feltman delves into the science of AIDS transmissibility, debunks historical legends (Cleopatra did not have a vibrator made of bees; Catherine the Great did not have sex with a horse), and discusses recent research into the sexual behaviors of transgender and nonbinary people. Turning to fetishism and the "concept of deviance," Feltman discusses how the Bible story of Sodom and Gomorrah came to be interpreted as a prohibition against homosexuality and notes that Richard von Krafft-Ebing added more technical jargon and Latin passages to later editions of Psychopathia Sexualis (first published in 1886) in order to keep people from "devouring his academic treatise like porn." Enlivened by Feltman's keen sense of humor and affirmational tone, this is an entertaining and informative catalog of "sexual expression and queer existence and horny exuberance through history." (May)

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Review by Library Journal Review

Like many taboo subjects, discussions of human sexuality are often clouded by hearsay, urban legends, and secrecy. In this informative and delightful history of sex and sex-adjacent topics, science writer Feltman brings sex out of the bedroom and into clear view. She organizes her book by topic rather than time period, allowing the listener the opportunity to take a historical deep dive into a variety of topics related to sex and sexuality, from masturbation to birth control to pornography. She strikes a careful balance between fact and humor and is careful to not accept popular urban legends as historical truth. Feltman's engaging and spirited narration fits the overall tone of her book--bawdy, funny, and surprisingly informational--and it's obvious that she sees the humor in the subject matter. There are times where it sounds like she's leaning in to share a dirty secret, and times when it sounds like a particularly entertaining lecture. Listeners will emerge with a new understanding of human sexuality--and some surprising anecdotes to share with others. VERDICT This well-researched, uproariously funny audiobook is ideal for listeners who enjoyed Strange Bedfellows by Ina Park or Bonk by Mary Roach, both of which cover similar territory.--Nanette Donohue

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A snarky romp through the "elastic, adaptable, catch-as-catch-can, DIY-friendly, totally open-source method of reproduction and social connection that keeps the world as we know it spinning." Popular Science executive editor Feltman could talk your ear off about koala chlamydia, and while she understands that her topic won't appeal to everyone, this raucous book is sure to have something to fascinate most readers--even those who think they're experts on all things sex-related. Rather than an in-depth examination of one or two specific elements, she offers "a smattering, a taste, a mere assortment of amuse-bouches of sexual expression and queer existence and horny exuberance through history." Beginning with the introduction, "Everything Weird Is Normal--Everything Normal Is Weird," the author demonstrates that she is equally confident discussing bacterial reproduction techniques, the history of heterosexual mating rituals, and contemporary human identities and politics, and there are numerous moments of laugh-out-loud amazement and eyebrow-raising surprise. The chapter on human reproduction is especially well detailed, taking the standard "sperm-meets-egg" story and complicating it almost to the point of absurdity, and Feltman's exploration of animal biology and reproductive habits is similarly eye-opening. Many of the author's choices are affirming and diverse--e.g., referring to "people with uteruses" and consistently including nonbinary people. Some of the humor is grating or overworked, including certain sections that will confuse older, less-internet-savvy readers, or will quickly become outdated, as in passages of meme-ready language. Feltman's jokey tone works well for shorter pieces but becomes exhausting over a full-length book. Consequently, many readers will choose to read a chapter or two at a time. On the whole, though, the book is entertaining and educational. Before presenting a helpful section of further reading, the author notes, "this book is meant to merely be a humorous primer, a lighthearted introduction, a romp through the basics." It's an apt description. A deep dive for sex nerds and informative fun for everyone else. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.