Mama bear One black mother's fight for her child's life and her own

Shirley Smith

Book - 2021

The wife of NBA Champion and All-Star J.R. Smith shares the story of giving birth to one of the youngest premature babies to survive, shining a spotlight on the dangers Black women face during pregnancy and paying tribute to black women's resilience.

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Subjects
Genres
Autobiographies
Published
New York, NY : Harper, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers [2021]
Language
English
Main Author
Shirley Smith (author)
Other Authors
Zelda Lockhart (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xvii, 238 pages ; 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 235-236).
ISBN
9780063010789
  • Introduction
  • Part I. Maternal Instincts When Nothing Else Makes Sense
  • 1. Kota Bear
  • 2. Binge
  • 3. A Baby Story
  • Dropping Jewels: Repairing Maternal Instincts Interrupted by Disease, Drugs, and Poverty
  • Part II. Community as the Fish and the Loaves of Bread
  • 4. Liquid Gold
  • 5. Reaching Out to My Othermothers
  • 6. Creating Community Through Social Media
  • Dropping Jewels: Advice for Families Who are Feeling Alone
  • Part III. My God, My Faith
  • 7. A Family That Prays Together
  • 8. Custom-Fitting Faith for My Young Adult Years
  • Dropping Jewels: Keeping the Faith Through the Valley of Shadows
  • Part IV. Therapy to Heal My Energizer Bunny
  • 9. One Year, Two Babies
  • 10. Doing What You Have to Do
  • 11. Postpartum Times Two
  • Dropping Jewels: How to Turn Off the Energizer Bunny and Get Help
  • Part V. Peeling Back the Layers
  • 12. Girl Meets Boy
  • 13. Seeking My Missing Father
  • 14. Paternity Crossroads
  • 15. True Father
  • Dropping Jewels: Create Tour Own Mold of a Good Father
  • Part VI. A Retreat to Reconnect My Womb to My Body
  • 16. Finding Myself and Mom in Red Rock
  • 17. Closing the Gap
  • 18. Dakota's Voice
  • 19. My Voice and My Mother's Voice
  • Dropping Jewels: Reconnect to Heal from Loss
  • Acknowledgments
  • Resources
  • References
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

In this affecting debut, Smith, an advocate for families with premature infants and wife of NBA all-star J.R. Smith, tells the tumultuous story of her own daughter's early birth, the lasting effects of intergenerational trauma, and the burden Black women carry to survive in a society inhospitable to them. As she writes, "Being in survival mode... can make anybody feel like they can do anything as long as it takes, with undying endurance. But that's a myth, Black women aren't machines." With vulnerability and compassion, Smith celebrates the resilience of the Black women in her life while pointing out the ways in which they have been failed, particularly concerning maternal and infant mortality caused in part by "experiencing extreme and moderate racism on a regular basis." To this end, she weaves together recollections of her own tragic childhood--which was overshadowed by poverty, neglect, and her mother's drug addiction--with the ordeal of witnessing her daughter, "the youngest preemie ever to survive," fight for her life at 21 weeks old. While the visceral emotion is gripping, the book's momentum is sometimes stalled when Smith turns to aspects of her husband's life--such as his infidelity, court proceedings, and brief prison stay. Nevertheless, this is a captivating, important work. Agent: Rica Allannic, David Black Literary. (Sept.)

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