An American marriage The untold story of Abraham Lincoln and Mary Todd

Michael Burlingame, 1941-

Book - 2021

Explores the tumultuous marriage between Abraham Lincoln and Mary Todd, including an examination of her illicit business dealings, alleged physical abuse, and their disagreements about values.

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Genres
Biographies
Published
New York : Pegasus Books 2021.
Language
English
Main Author
Michael Burlingame, 1941- (author)
Edition
First Pegasus books cloth edition
Physical Description
xii, 302 pages, [8] pages of plates : illustrations (some color), portraits (some color) ; 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN
9781643137346
  • Introduction
  • Part I. The Courtship, 1839-1842
  • 1. Girl Meets Boy, 1839-1840
  • 2. Girl Loses Boy, 1840-1841
  • 3. Girl Gets Boy, 1842
  • Part II. The Springfield Years, 1842-1861
  • 4. A Rocky Stan In Temporary Quarters, 1842-1844
  • 5. Settling In At Eighth and Jackson Streets, 1844-1849
  • 6. Political Pause, 1849-1854
  • 7. Political Success at Last, 1855-1861
  • Part III. The White House Years, 1861-1865
  • 8. The "Female President" Sticks Her Finger in the Government Pie
  • 9. Honest Abe, Dishonest Mary: "A Natural Born Thief"
  • 10. Lonely First Lady: Her Coterie, Shopping, and Debts
  • 11. Unpopular First Lady
  • 12. The First Lady and African Americans
  • 13. The First Lady Humiliates Lincoln
  • Conclusion
  • Appendix: An Appraisal of the Literature on the Lincolns' Marriage
  • Acknowledgments
  • Index
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Historian Burlingame (Abraham Lincoln: A Life) delivers a detailed and highly unflattering portrait of Abraham Lincoln's "woe-filled" marriage to Mary Todd. Though he acknowledges that Lincoln was "depressive, emotionally reserved and uncommunicative," and that Todd had "much to bear," including a difficult childhood, debilitating migraine headaches, and the deaths of three of her four children before they reached adulthood, Burlingame treats the First Lady rather harshly. He suggests that their 1842 nuptials may have been a shotgun wedding (their son Robert was born "slightly less than nine months" later), and alleges that Todd physically abused her husband (in one instance attacking him with a piece of firewood) and whipped her children. Their domestic battles continued during Lincoln's presidency, according to Burlingame, who also documents public disapproval of Todd's lavish redecoration of the White House during the Civil War, and allegations that she had extramarital affairs and accepted bribes in order to pay off her debts to dressmakers. Unfortunately, Burlingame fails to distinguish between hard evidence and rumor, and doesn't fully reckon with how sexism may have shaped contemporaneous views of Todd's behavior. This one-sided takedown won't persuade Mary Todd's defenders. (June)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A portrait of "the sad story of the Lincolns' domestic life," which "has long been glossed over." Although neither of the couple's stories is untold, Lincoln scholar Burlingame's intense focus on their marriage may raise hackles despite generous documentation, citations, and footnotes. Few historians would argue that Mary Todd Lincoln was a gentle soul. All agree that she vigorously encouraged her husband's political ambitions and treated his enemies as her own, but none deny that she was difficult, prone to "henpecking" and unpredictable behavior. Throughout her life, she exhibited mood swings that ranged from fierce rages to deep depression to bizarre public outbursts that have persuaded some scholars, Burlingame included, that she suffered from bipolar disorder. In her defense, many point out that the premature deaths of three of four sons devastated her, and she was at Lincoln's side holding his hand when he was shot. Readers will be informed and disheartened as they read page after page of dismal reports from Lincoln's Springfield neighbors and colleagues about Mary's tantrums, which often drove him to spend the night in his office. One of Mary's chronic complaints was her husband's long absences, which were excessive, Burlingame explains, because he preferred to stay away. For years, he and other lawyers "rode the circuit" of central Illinois on business. All returned home during the weekends except Lincoln. Few scholars defend Mary's behavior after Lincoln won the presidency, when she accepted bribes from corrupt office seekers and then forced an often reluctant Lincoln to appoint them. Burlingame implies that her unpopularity may have contributed to the death of her husband. Ulysses Grant was invited to Ford's Theater, but his wife vetoed it because she did not want to sit in a theater box with Mary. Deploring Mary was the rule until two generations of diligent feminist scholarship corrected traditional male prejudices. As a result, she now receives more sympathetic treatment, so Burlingame's portrait may strike readers as a throwback. An entertaining though entirely unflattering biography that will certainly provoke debate. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.