Cack-handed A memoir

Gina Yashere

Book - 2021

The producer and writer of the CBS hit series "I Heart Abishola" tells the story of growing up as the child of Nigerian immigrants in London and her career as a stand-up comic and eventual Hollywood success.

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Subjects
Genres
Autobiographies
Published
New York : Amistad, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers [2021]
Language
English
Main Author
Gina Yashere (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xii, 305 pages ; 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (page 305).
ISBN
9780062961716
9780008486976
  • Man is like pepper
  • you only know him when you've ground him
  • Languages differ, but coughs are the same
  • A snake can only give birth to long things
  • When the laborer is praised, his cutlass begins to cut more keenly
  • Going to church doesn't make you a holy person any more than going to a garage makes you a mechanic
  • If you are eating with the devil, you must use a long spoon
  • It is not what you are called, but what you answer to
  • If you sleep with an itching anus, you will definitely wake up with your hand smelling
  • Where you fall, you should know that it is God who pushed you
  • Procrastination is the thief of time
  • The same sun that melts wax also hardens clay
  • Success is 10 percent ability and 90 percent sweat
  • However hard a lizard does a push-up, it will never have an alligator's chest
  • Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors
  • It is when there is a stampede that a person with big buttocks knows that he carries a load
  • Warm water never forgets that it was once cold
  • A bird that flies off the earth and lands on an anthill is still on the ground
  • Be a mountain or lean on one
  • A flea can trouble a lion more than a lion can trouble a flea
  • If you are building a house an a nail breaks, do you stop building or do you change the nail?
  • Just because a man is short, it does not make him a child
  • Epilogue.
Review by Library Journal Review

Yashere's engaging and fun memoir chronicles moments from childhood up until her success as a comic, writer, actor, and producer. Starting with her parents' beginnings in Nigeria, their move to the UK, and their separation, Yashere discusses life with her siblings, her mother, and her abusive stepfather. Racism was a constant in Yashere's life in the working-class areas of London where she grew up; at school; and at the Otis Elevator Company, where she was the first woman engineer in the UK branch and where she also confronted sexism. She began performing as a stand-up comedian, then moved to the United States to grow her comedy career. Shedding light on how race, class, gender, and family shaped her, Yashere's storytelling deftly combines humor and melancholy. Her conversational tone will make readers feel like they're talking to an old friend. VERDICT A tremendously funny and touching memoir that readers will want to finish in one sitting, whether they're fans of Yashere or newcomers to her work.--Traci Glass, Lincoln City Libs., NE

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Brazen, emboldening tales of the author's arduous childhood and journey to success as a comedian. Throughout, Yashere, writer and producer of the CBS show Bob Hearts Abishola, is by turns disarmingly funny, inspiring, and disjointed. The meaning of cack-handed, she explains, is "left-handed, which I am, and also clumsy and awkward, which I am. It also represents the unconventional track my life and career have taken--including writing this book myself." Moving chronologically, the author begins with what she's been told about her Nigerian maternal grandmother; Yashere's mother believes she was killed by her husband's other wives. Sent to live in England for protection, the author's mother is the most intriguing character in the book. Overprotective and sometimes mean, she inadvertently inspired Yashere to use humor to defuse stressful and threatening situations. Being subjected to overt racism while working as an elevator engineer made the author want to learn more about Black culture, which led her to meetings of the Pan-African Community Enterprise. After writing and performing her first sketch, by 1995, she writes, "I had become one of the hottest young comics on the circuit." Yashere used to be convinced that White audiences wouldn't connect with Black experiences, yet it wasn't until she began performing authentically in front of all crowds that she really became famous. After seeing her daughter on TV, Yashere's mother stopped pressuring her to get a proper job. The author describes coming out to her mother as a lesbian and her mother's reaction: "My daughter is a gay clown." Yashere replied, "You could say that, yeah." The author also includes memories of her abusive stepfather and her experience, as an adult in Nigeria, meeting her biological father for the first time since he left the U.K. when she was 3. Though Yashere isn't the most appealing stylist on the page, her voice is consistently candid and unique. By virtue of her raw honesty and acerbic wit, Yashere makes it easy to root for her. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.