What happened to you? Conversations on trauma, resilience, and healing

Bruce D. Perry, 1955-

Book - 2021

Oprah Winfrey, sharing stories from her own past, and a renowned brain development and trauma expert discuss the impact of trauma and adversity and how healing must begin with a shift to asking, "What happened to you?" rather than "What's wrong with you?"

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Published
New York : Flatiron Books 2021.
Language
English
Main Author
Bruce D. Perry, 1955- (author)
Other Authors
Oprah Winfrey (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
301 pages : color illustrations ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 299-301).
ISBN
9781250223180
  • A Note from the Authors
  • Introduction
  • Chapter 1. Making Sense of the World
  • Chapter 2. Seeking Balance
  • Chapter 3. How We Were Loved
  • Chapter 4. The Spectrum of Trauma
  • Chapter 5. Connecting the Dots
  • Chapter 6. From Coping to Healing
  • Chapter 7. Post-Traumatic Wisdom
  • Chapter 8. Our Brains, Our Biases, Our Systems
  • Chapter 9. Relational Hunger In The Modern World
  • Chapter 10. What We Need Now
  • Epilogue
  • Resources
  • Credits And Acknowledgments
Review by Kirkus Book Review

A collaborative look at brain trauma and methods to alleviate the potentially lifelong effects. Child psychiatrist and neuroscientist Perry teams with Winfrey to examine traumatic injury caused by an abusive childhood. The book is formatted in a conversational interview format, with Perry sharing his insights on stress, brain biology, and physiological response, offering new approaches to emotional and psychological pain. Using medical models, Winfrey's personal experience, and Perry's years of research, the authors demonstrate the brain's resilience and ability to adapt to traumatic situations, particularly when paired with psychopharmacological remedies, natural interventions, and behavioral treatments. This process of neural recalibration works wonders in instances of deeply embedded trauma and abuse, allowing people to live better lives through newly invigorated self-worth. Winfrey candidly shares difficult memories of a childhood where regular whippings (as early as age 3) were "accepted practice" and there were expectations of silence and a smile in their aftermath. In addition to this early trauma, she recounts her difficult adult relationship with her mother, which culminates in a powerful scene in a nursing home when Winfrey froze at her mother's bedside, unable to address her. She admits that while collectively these events manifested into her adult relationships and behavior, she eventually processed and embraced the trauma as an opportunity for healing and a way to move forward. With proactive conviction, the authors help readers to recognize their own internalized trauma and encourage the reshaping of personal paths toward wellness and "to excavate the roots that were put down long before we had the words to articulate what was happening to us." Through therapeutic frameworks and the curative power of community, belonging, human connection, and mindfulness, the authors show how renewal of mind and spirit is attainable. Though many of these issues have been addressed before, Perry and Winfrey's partnership is notable, and their book is worthy of attention. A candid guidebook to exorcising mental trauma. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.