Uncomfortable conversations with a black man

Emmanuel Acho

Book - 2020

"In Uncomfortable Conversations With a Black Man, Acho takes on all the questions, large and small, insensitive and taboo, many white Americans are afraid to ask--yet which all Americans need the answers to, now more than ever. With the same open-hearted generosity that has made his video series a phenomenon, Acho explains the vital core of such fraught concepts as white privilege, cultural appropriation, and "reverse racism." In his own words, he provides a space of compassion and understanding in a discussion that can lack both. He asks only for the reader's curiosity--but along the way, he will galvanize all of us to join the antiracist fight." -- Provided by publisher.

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Published
New York : Flatiron Books 2020.
Language
English
Main Author
Emmanuel Acho (author)
Edition
First edition
Item Description
"An Oprah book"--Title page.
Physical Description
viii, 244 pages ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9781250800466
  • Part I: You and me
  • The name game: Black or African American?
  • What do you see when you see me?: implicit bias
  • The false start: white privilege
  • Cite your sources or drop the class: cultural appropriation
  • The mythical me: angry black men
  • Nooooope!: the n-word
  • Part II: Us and them
  • The house always wins: systemic racism
  • Shifting the narrative: reverse racism
  • The fix: who's governing the government
  • Thug life: justice for some
  • Picking up the pieces: the Black family struggle
  • Part III: We
  • Love wins: the interracial family
  • Good trouble: fighting for change
  • Your presence is requested: how to be an ally
  • Breaking the huddle: how to end racism.
Review by Kirkus Book Review

A former NFL player casts his gimlet eye on American race relations. In his first book, Acho, an analyst for Fox Sports who grew up in Dallas as the son of Nigerian immigrants, addresses White readers who have sent him questions about Black history and culture. "My childhood," he writes, "was one big study abroad in white culture--followed by studying abroad in black culture during college and then during my years in the NFL, which I spent on teams with 80-90 percent black players, each of whom had his own experience of being a person of color in America. Now, I'm fluent in both cultures: black and white." While the author avoids condescending to readers who already acknowledge their White privilege or understand why it's unacceptable to use the N-word, he's also attuned to the sensitive nature of the topic. As such, he has created "a place where questions you may have been afraid to ask get answered." Acho has a deft touch and a historian's knack for marshaling facts. He packs a lot into his concise narrative, from an incisive historical breakdown of American racial unrest and violence to the ways of cultural appropriation: Your friend respecting and appreciating Black arts and culture? OK. Kim Kardashian showing off her braids and attributing her sense of style to Bo Derek? Not so much. Within larger chapters, the text, which originated with the author's online video series with the same title, is neatly organized under helpful headings: "Let's rewind," "Let's get uncomfortable," "Talk it, walk it." Acho can be funny, but that's not his goal--nor is he pedaling gotcha zingers or pleas for headlines. The author delivers exactly what he promises in the title, tackling difficult topics with the depth of an engaged cultural thinker and the style of an experienced wordsmith. Throughout, Acho is a friendly guide, seeking to sow understanding even if it means risking just a little discord. This guide to Black culture for White people is accessible but rarely easy. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.