Girl crushed

Katie Heaney

Book - 2020

"Before Quinn Ryan was in love with Jamie Rudawski, she loved Jamie Rudawski, who was her best friend. But when Jamie dumps Quinn a month before their senior year, Quinn is suddenly girlfriend-less and best friend-less. Enter a new crush: Ruby Ocampo, the gorgeous and rich lead singer of the popular band Sweets, who's just broken up with her on-again, off-again boyfriend. Quinn's always only wanted to be with Jamie, but if Jamie no longer wants to be with her, why can't Quinn go all in on Ruby? But the closer Quinn grows to Ruby, the more she misses Jamie, and the more (she thinks) Jamie misses her. Who says your first love can't be your second love, too?"

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New York : Alfred A. Knopf, an imprint of Random House Children's Books [2020]
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Katie Heaney (author)
First edition
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"A Borzoi Book."--Title page verso.
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341 pages ; 22 cm
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Review by Booklist Review

Baby butch Quinn Ryan just got dumped by girlfriend Jamie, but the good news is that they aren't the only relationship casualties. Suddenly, Ruby Ocampo, the number-one girl from their "Straight Girls We Wish Weren't" list is available. Although her heart still aches for Jamie, Quinn moves on, only to discover that ex-girlfriends, new girlfriends, bands, favorite hangouts, and soccer scholarships for college may be a lot to handle. She's got Ruby, so why is she bothered that Jamie is moving on, too? This classic high-school lesbian first-love story is told with humor and an insider perspective that will keep it gone from your shelves, as friends pass it to friends, who pass it to other friends. Everything is there: the dramatic "is she, isn't she?" straight-girl dance; the lesbian hangout on the edge of bankruptcy, run by two aging dykes; the gay-straight alliance that never quite got going--and then Heaney adds in more mainstream concerns about athletic scholarships and plans after high school. Better get a few copies, just in case.

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

When rising high school senior Quinn, a soccer player, is dumped by her girlfriend, Jamie, a month before school starts, she's heartbroken and desperately tries to put on a brave front for their mutual friends. As two of the only out queer students at their San Diego school, Quinn and Jamie share a bond that Jamie is afraid of ruining with a relationship that could turn sour. Quinn struggles to recover from heartbreak while navigating her last year of high school (hoping to be named the United Soccer Coaches National Player of the Year or Gatorade Player of the Year), her next steps into the future (at the University of North Carolina), and her place in the adult world (where she wants to be the next Megan Rapinoe). As she grows interested in Ruby, "number one on the list of Straight Girls We Wish Weren't," she also struggles to balance friendship with her former girlfriend and her second look at love. Leisurely paced but quietly powerful, this largely internal first-person narrative by Heaney (Would You Rather?) is dedicated to finding one's self, growing up, and learning to compromise and to reach out for what matters. Ages 12--up. Agent: Allison Hunter, Janklow & Nesbit Assoc. (Apr.)

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Review by School Library Journal Review

Gr 7 Up--Quinn and Jamie are the only two openly gay girls in their school, so it makes sense that the longtime best friends would end up dating. But when Jamie suddenly ends things a month before the beginning of their senior year, Quinn is left without her girlfriend and her best friend. Attempting to move on, Quinn recruits her years-long crush Ruby, the charismatic lead singer of local band Sweets, to play at her favorite struggling coffee shop. As she gets closer to Ruby, it becomes clear that both she and Jamie miss each other, even as they try to mend their friendship. Is it the loss of their friendship or of their relationship that leaves them both feeling so empty? Debut author Heaney crafts a well-developed character in Quinn, who also dreams of playing college soccer and wants to make an impression on her absent father. The single-mindedness with which she goes after her goals affects all her relationships, and her growth will resonate with many teens. This charming romance also addresses the all-too-common practice of discounting or ignoring the queer identity of people in hetero relationships, the complicated road back to friendship after a romantic relationship ends, and the importance of adjusting expectations as you go. VERDICT A solid addition to collections where romance and light realistic fiction are popular. Recommend to readers of Rainbow Rowell and Becky Albertalli.--Erin Downey, Boise School District, ID

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A San Diego soccer player struggles with life's uncertainties. Quinn knew exactly what she wanted: to be recruited by the University of North Carolina and to have a happy future with her girlfriend, Jamie. But everything falls apart when Jamie breaks up with her right before senior year. The two are close with Alexis (who's never met a piece of news she didn't want to share) and Ronni (Quinn's fellow soccer star), and the four still eat lunch together daily. Quinn and Jamie, awkwardly trying to make their friendship work, have role models in older lesbian exes who amicably run their favorite queer cafe, Triple Moon. A complication arises in the form of a new possible love interest for Quinn: Ruby, classmate and gorgeous lead singer of a local band, newly separated from her boyfriend--and first on the list Quinn and Jamie once made of "Straight Girls We Wish Weren't." Adding to Quinn's stress, her unreliable father pops up, she hasn't heard from college recruiters, Jamie is cozying up to another girl, and Triple Moon is having financial difficulties. The pacing is spot-on, and the exploration of lesbian relationships--particularly post-breakup--is handled deftly. Quinn is a sympathetic character, and her interactions with Jamie feel true to life. Unfortunately, Ronni is a little too perfect and two-dimensional in the role of Black Best Friend. Ruby's surname cues her as Latinx; all other main characters are white. Fresh and charming. (Fiction. 13-18) Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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One  The way I saw it, I had two options.  One: I could walk into school acting how I felt--i.e., sewage seeping out of a gutter.  Two: I could walk into school acting how I wanted Jamie to think I felt--i.e., happily single, carefree, and one hundred percent over her.  I could pretend it no longer bothered me that she'd dumped me a month before we started our senior year, thus destroying all the elaborate--forgive me--promposals I'd already started thinking up, and the love letter I'd started drafting for her yearbook. Never mind how many hours I'd wasted mapping the perfect road trip course between NYU (where she'd be next fall) and the University of North Carolina (where I'd be), the perfect plan to keep us together even in the face of medium-long distance. Jamie would never have to know I'd begun the initial research on a surprise fall-break trip to Washington, DC, the natural halfway point between our colleges, because Jamie talked about it like it was Disneyland. She wanted to be the third woman president--third, specifically, because it would be pathetic and disgusting if there weren't at least two other women presidents before she was old enough to run herself. Her words.  I looked at the dashboard and realized I'd been gripping the wheel of my parked truck in the student lot for eleven full minutes. And I was still too early. For the first time since I'd gotten my driver's license, Jamie hadn't ridden with me to school. After she dumped me, she texted me to say she thought it would be best if she caught a ride with Alexis for a while instead. I hadn't thought that far ahead yet, hadn't imagined all the things we did together that I'd have to start doing without her. It made me wonder how long she'd been thinking about breaking up with me before she did it.  Fine with me, I'd texted back. You're pretty out of the way.  (Obviously, that was before I'd decided to be cool and mature and happy, honestly, about this whole thing.)  The upside to driving to school alone was that I could listen to any kind of music I wanted, and no one could complain, or ask me to play some horrible new indie band's EP instead. The downside was that, so far, I'd used my newfound freedom to blast my Tragic Lesbian Breakup playlist sixty-four times in a row. A sampling: "One More Hour" by Sleater-Kinney, "Where Does the Good Go?" by Tegan and Sara, "Cliff's Edge" by Hayley Kiyoko, "Give Me One Reason" by Tracy Chapman, "My Heart Will Go On" by Céline Dion. Maybe Céline Dion wasn't gay (allegedly), but whatever. The song broke my heart in exactly the way I wanted my heart to be broken.  I thought about giving it one last listen before I left the truck, but I didn't want to be the girl caught cry-mouthing whereverrrrr you aaaaahhhhh in the parking lot at 7:32 in the morning on the first day of school. Instead I closed my eyes and repeated in my head: I am happy. I am carefree. I am totally over Jamie. We were just going to be friends now, and someday, if not today, I would be completely cool with that, because I had promised her I could be. Of course, being friends was her idea. This was part of her very practical reason for breaking up with me. Jamie had told me that romantic relationships always ended, and most of them ended badly, and if eventually we were going to break up (and we would), we might as well do it early. Damage control, she called it. This way, she said, we could more likely stay in each other's lives indefinitely. As friends.  Imagine being told the reason your girlfriend can't date you anymore is that she likes you too much. It's very confusing. I asked and I asked but she could never explain it in a way I understood. So eventually I had to stop asking.  And of course, a part of me had wanted to refuse, to tell her through tears that I don't know how to be just friends with you anymore, because maybe if I could borrow a line from a TV show it would feel like a TV show instead of my actual life. After she'd left my house I'd paced around the living room, working up the nerve to call her and tell her. But every time I tried to imagine not talking to her, I couldn't. It was like my brain didn't have the right files. Does not compute. And anyway, it didn't really feel like a choice. If I admitted I couldn't be friends with her, I lost, even more than I already had. I'd have to be the one to sit somewhere else at lunch. I'd be the one who had to stay home when Jamie and our other friends hung out. I'd lost my girlfriend, and that was already more than I could take.  So we would be friends, and it would be fine. One day I wouldn't dread walking into the class I knew we had together--a now-unwanted miracle, really, since Jamie was always in AP everything and I was not. One day I'd be able to sit down to lunch with her and Ronni and Alexis without worrying exactly where I sat, because the spot next to her wasn't safe, and neither was the one directly across from her. One day I'd again be happy instead of furious that our lockers, thanks to the goddamn alphabet, were separated only by the locker assigned to Alex Ruiz, who, historically, didn't seem to make much use of it. He was popular, and the popular boys never seemed to carry books or folders or anything, really, around school with them. It was like they were here for something else altogether. I once asked my straight friends (Ronni and Alexis) to look into this issue for me, but they shrugged it off. Alexis said, "Who knows why they do anything the way they do?" They being boys, in general.  At home, and in the safety of my truck, I still ached when I thought about that last conversation with Jamie. I still held back tears multiple times a day. But I knew I couldn't be that version of me in school if I wanted to make it through the year. It was bad enough knowing in my bones that everyone at school had already heard that the only out queer couple in Westville's incoming senior class had broken up, and worse, that I was the dumpee--Alexis had surely been briefed by Jamie, which meant it was only a matter of time until people three school districts away found out. If I started my senior year as the tragic spinster lesbian, that would be how everyone remembered me. At our ten-year reunion, instead of asking me what it was like playing for the U.S. women's national soccer team, or how many free shoes I got as a result of my Adidas sponsorship, or if they could go for a ride in my Aston Martin, my former classmates would ask me if I still kept in touch with Jamie (who would be too busy in the Senate to attend), and from their expressions I would know they were really asking if I'd ever gotten over her.  I couldn't let that happen. Everything I felt had to stay here, in the truck, with Céline. I slung my backpack and soccer bag over my shoulders, and by the time I'd crossed the parking lot I really did feel like a new person, almost.   I thought I saw Jamie about a dozen times before I actually did. In the hallways, between classes, I kept seeing girls with dark hair, and my throat would go hot with panic. Then I'd get another look and realize they didn't look like Jamie at all. It was embarrassing, and draining, and by lunch I was almost eager to see her, just to get it over with. Our first post-breakup encounter had to happen sometime; this way, at least, I was prepared for it.  I spotted Ronni sitting at our usual table, alone so far and completely unembarrassed by it. Even though I'd seen her last weekend, at the last club tournament of the year, I rushed toward her like it had been months. When Ronni saw me, she cupped a hand around her mouth and yelled "RYAN!" at the same time as I yelled "DAVIS!"  Ronni Davis was my first real best friend, long before I ever met Jamie. We met in sixth grade, when I finally made the Surf Club's premier soccer team after spending two years stuck on the Triple-A team. Ronni had made the premier team from the start, way back in fourth grade, and when I moved up, she was the only girl who said hi to me on the first day of practice. Everyone else ignored me, laughing too loud at their dumb, private middle school jokes, throwing me and my floppy boy's bowl cut the occasional skeptical glare. After a week or two I was one of them, having proved I was good enough to be there, but at the time, it felt like earning their approval took years. If it hadn't been for Ronni, I might have quit, or begged to be put back on my old team, where at least I was the very best player on the medium-good team. We were inseparable, until I met Jamie. Jamie eclipsed everyone and everything, for me.  Oh God, I thought. Keep it together, Ryan.  As I reached our lunch table, I dipped into a subservient bow before Ronni. "My liege."  Ronni shook her head. "You are so corny."  At the end of our junior year, Ronni had been elected captain of our high school team over me, and I was devastated. I'd expected her to be chosen as club captain, which she also was, but I'd hoped somehow that I could be captain at school. Being captain didn't mean much of anything as far as college recruiters cared, but I wanted it anyway. I had never been the head of anything. I wanted the word captain printed below my name in the yearbook as a matter of public record: I meant something.  Now all my short-term hopes and dreams rested on being named the United Soccer Coaches National Player of the Year, or Gatorade Player of the Year, like Ashlyn Harris, UNC alum and butch style icon, who earned both when she was in high school.   In the end, of course, I wanted to be Megan Rapinoe: World Cup champion, Golden Boot and Golden Ball winner, the best and most beloved player in the world. I wanted my name on jerseys and my face on girls' walls. There was still time.  In any case, I got over the lost election after a week or so. For one thing, it quickly became obvious that Ronni would be a better captain than I ever could have been. Unlike me, she wasn't afraid of our coach, even though Coach was objectively terrifying. At our last few school-season games as juniors, when she was captain-elect if not yet captain in practice, she stood next to Coach on the sidelines on the rare occasion she wasn't playing, and together they assessed the rest of us with their arms crossed. Ronni looked so grown-up and official, exactly in the right place. Besides, the captain couldn't be everyone's best friend, just like a boss could never be real friends with her employees. Free of the responsibility to critique my teammates when they messed up a play, I could instead be the one who cheered them up after.  I unwrapped my sandwich and took a bite, hoping food would soothe the anxiety humming in my chest. Now that I was sitting down, I felt trapped--and paranoid. I couldn't keep my eyes off the cafeteria doors. Ronni smacked a hand on the table.  "I thought we agreed: no liverwurst!"  "It's the first day of school!" I protested. "It's a special occasion!"  Ronni made a face. "Fine, but I don't want to smell that smell again before your birthday."  "What about your birthday?" I countered, and it was at that moment that I saw Jamie out of the corner of my eye. She'd just walked in with Alexis. I swallowed fast, too fast, and tried to obscure my small coughing fit in the crook of my elbow.  "You okay?" said Jamie.  How dare you, I thought. Ronni clapped me on the back, which only made me cough more. So far, this was going extremely well.  "Do you need the Heimlich? I'm still certified from my Red Cross babysitter training . . . ," offered Alexis.  "Someone who actually needs the Heimlich isn't gonna be like, 'Yes, thanks, that would be great,' " said Jamie.  "I'm fine," I rasped.  "You sure?" asked Jamie.  It was clear from the way she asked that Jamie wasn't just wondering whether or not I was done choking in front of her. Maybe she was trying to be nice, but as far as I was concerned, she could pluck those pity eyes right out of her head. I couldn't make her un-break up with me, but I could certainly deny her the pleasure of knowing how much it still hurt. I could be friendly, but she couldn't rush me right into unloaded friendship, either. I nodded quickly and changed the subject.  "Alexis," I said, "give us the goods. What have you heard so far?"  Alexis was our school's own Us Weekly. If anyone in our class hooked up with anyone, or got in a fight with anyone, or got detention, or got wasted over the weekend, Alexis knew about it, and she would relay the episode to us in more detail than anyone needed, and often more than anyone wanted. She had sources in every social group. People told her things because she had a small mouth and huge, understanding blue eyes, but also because she told them things in return. People only pretended to care when their secrets got out. We all knew that to get the best gossip you also had to give it. And there was no day better for the very best gossip than the first day back after summer break.  "Well," said Alexis, eyes gleaming. She leaned over the table conspiratorially, and I breathed in relief. For as long as Alexis talked, I would be safe: I wouldn't have to look at Jamie, or think of what to say to her, or notice Ronni and Alexis watching us interact, trying to judge whether or not we were "okay" yet. What would that look like, anyway? We weren't together anymore, but we were both here. I wasn't yelling and I wasn't crying. If they expected more from me than that, I'd go sit somewhere else. No--they could sit somewhere else. No, wait--that would leave just me and Jamie. Ugh. Excerpted from Girl Crushed by Katie Heaney All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.