Weird The power of being an outsider in an insider world

Olga Khazan, 1986-

Book - 2020

Explores why it is that we crave conformity, how that affects people who are different, and what they can do about it. Dives into the history of social norms and why some people hew to them more strictly than others, explores the causes behind-and the consequences of-social rejection, reveals the hidden upsides to being "weird," as well as the strategies that people who are different might use in order to achieve success in a society that values normalcy, and follows the trajectories of unique individuals who either decided to be among others just like them; to stay weird; or to dwell somewhere in between.

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Subjects
Genres
Self-help publications
Published
New York, NY : Hachette Go, an imprint of Hachette Books 2020.
Language
English
Main Author
Olga Khazan, 1986- (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
viii, 308 pages ; 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references ([265]-292) and index.
ISBN
9780316418485
9780306874314
  • Part one: Being weird. Weird ; The realization ; The exclusion ; The sting
  • Part two: The weird advantage. Creativity ; Truth
  • Part three: How to be different. Getting support ; Comfort with discomfort ; Better than the best ; The big picture ; Change yourself
  • Part four: To stay different, or to find your own kind? Staying ; Leaving ; In between.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Journalist Khazan debuts with a series of sharp, empathetic portraits of individuals who identify as weird and who faced obstacles yet found success. Khazan casts a wide net on who is considered weird, including those who go against expectations, those who are transgender or live outside of gender norms, and those with physical differences not considered "normal," such as dwarfism. Khazan taps into weirdness through stories of her upbringing as a Russian-Jewish immigrant in Bible Belt Texas and via interviews with people who are comfortable being different from their peers, writing with an eye toward sharing what her subjects can teach others, namely: "Being different from other people around you confers hidden advantages that can help you in life and work"--such as providing novel perspectives and allowing outside-the-box innovation. She profiles race car driver Julia Landauer (whose outsider status as a woman proves both a hindrance and help) over the course of a season , sociology professor Beverly Stiles ("the liberal one" at a conservative university), and formerly Amish Emma Gingerich to exhibit how being an outsider can contribute to success. In a particularly memorable case, Khazan profiles Michele Roberts, a black woman who, in law school, was motivated by the prejudice of her professors to study harder than her peers to become a top litigator. These stories of people who revel in their weirdness provide a winning demonstration of the value of difference. Agent: Howard Yoon, The Ross Yoon Agency. (Apr.)

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