Surrounded by idiots The four types of human behavior and how to effectively communicate with each in business (and in life)

Thomas Erikson, 1965-

Book - 2019

Erikson explains that there are four key behavior types that define how we interact with and perceive the people around us. Reds are dominant and commanding, Yellows are social and optimistic, Greens are laid back and friendly, and Blues are analytical and precise. Understanding someone's pattern of behavior is the key to successful communication. Erikson provides practical advice for interacting with people based on their color profiles. -- adapted from jacket

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Subjects
Published
New York : St. Martin's Essentials 2019.
Language
English
Swedish
Main Author
Thomas Erikson, 1965- (author)
Other Authors
Martin Pender (translator), Rod Bradbury
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xv, 282 pages : illustrations ; 25 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN
9781250179944
  • Foreword / by David Bonnstetter
  • Introduction: The man who was surrounded by idiots
  • Communication happens on the listener's terms
  • Why are we the way we are?
  • An introduction to the system
  • Red behavior: how to recognize a real alpha and avoid getting in his way
  • Yellow behavior: how to recognize someone whose head is in the clouds and get him back to reality again
  • Green behavior: why change is so difficult and how to get around it
  • Blue behavior: in pursuit of perfection
  • No one is completely perfect: strengths and weaknesses
  • Learning new things: how to use what you've learned
  • Body language: why how you move matters: how do you really look?
  • A real-life example: the company party-- how to understand everyone you meet
  • Adaptation: how to handle idiots (i.e., everyone who isn't like you)
  • How to deliver really bad news: the challenge of speaking your mind
  • Who gets along and why it works: group dynamics at their finest
  • Written communication: how to evaluate someone when you can't meet in person
  • What makes us as mad as hell?: temperament can reveal everything about a person
  • Stress factors and energy thieves: what is stress?
  • A short reflection through history: people have always been like this
  • Voices from real life
  • A quick little quiz to see what you've learned
  • A final example from everyday life: perhaps the most enlightening team project in the history of the world.
Review by Booklist Review

Humans are complex creatures and behave that way. Author and communications expert Erikson peels back the layers to help us understand why we feel that we are right and others are wrong thus making us feel like we are surrounded by idiots. He bases his theories on the Dominance, Inducement, Submission, and Compliance (DISC) method. This method is associated with a color system, which Erikson takes to a new level by assigning general personality types to the four groups: red (bold, ambitious, driven), yellow (talkative, entertaining, optimistic), green (tolerant, balanced, calm), and blue (reserved, analytical, detail-oriented). He helps readers understand each type and how to relate and communicate with them and delves into type overlap, noting that 80 percent of people are a combination of colors. Readers will be delighted to find numerous other topics, including how to handle idiots, how to manage written communication based on type, real-life examples, a knowledge quiz, and much more. Most everyone can benefit from this book, especially those in the workplace. In addition, parents, educators, and students will find these insights valuable.--Jennifer Adams Copyright 2019 Booklist

From Booklist, Copyright (c) American Library Association. Used with permission.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

A basic but useful guide to communicating with the uncommunicable arrives from executive trainer Erikson. He begins with a story of interviewing a self-made entrepreneur who declared himself "surrounded by idiots" at his company. Though Erikson's follow-up question-"Who hired all these idiots?"-saw him thrown out of the office, he credits the experience with sparking his interest in why people do or don't work well together, and in the tendency to view those one consistently disagrees with or misunderstands as "idiots." To help readers put the kibosh on judgment and strive more to understand others, he lays out a color-coded personality trait matrix -Red (dominant), Blue (analytical) Yellow (inspiring), and Green (stable)-then explains how to adapt and tailor one's written communications and in-person behavior for the best collaborative results with other personality types. Though a simplified model, it provides a helpful way of framing intent vs. impact. Marred only by an ill-judged decision to use only masculine pronouns when referring to hypothetical situations, this book-already a bestseller in Sweden-is clearly, dynamically presented and easy to grasp. Agent: Maria Enberg, Enberg Literary. (July) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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