No visible bruises What we don't know about domestic violence can kill us

Rachel Louise Snyder

Book - 2019

"[The author] explores America's epidemic of domestic violence and how it has been misunderstood, sharing insights into what domestic violence portends about other types of violence and what countermeasures are needed today."

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Published
New York, NY : Bloomsbury Publishing Inc 2019.
Language
English
Main Author
Rachel Louise Snyder (author)
Physical Description
viii, 307 pages ; 25 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 285-297) and index.
ISBN
9781635570977
  • Preface
  • Part I. The End
  • Little Lunatics
  • Barnacle Siblings
  • Whatever He's Holding Inside
  • Daddy Always Lives
  • A Bear Is Coming at You
  • This Person You Love Will Take Your Life
  • And Then They'll Pray
  • I Can't Live Here Anymore
  • Systems, Accidents, Incidents
  • And What Happens Next
  • Part II. The Beginning
  • Penance
  • Watching Violence in a Fishbowl
  • The Fatal Peril Club
  • Clustered at the Top
  • The Haunting Presence of the Inexplicable
  • A Superhero's Kneecaps
  • In the Season of Unmitigated Discovery
  • Those Who Break
  • Part III. The Middle
  • In the Cracks
  • Shelter in Place
  • In the Fire
  • Grace Under Pressure
  • Chambering a Round
  • Free Free
  • Shadow Bodies
  • Author's Note
  • Acknowledgments
  • Notes
  • Index
Review by Choice Review

Also author of the well-received Fugitive Denim: A Moving Story of People and Pants in the Borderless World of Global Trade (2008), Snyder (literature, American Univ.) has written an invaluable study of domestic violence. Even those who are familiar with the topic will learn a great deal from this book. What makes Snyder's book unique is her approach: she begins with a domestic violence homicide-suicide and works her way backward, through engaging interviews with family members and friends on both sides, to uncover the red flags and missed opportunities for intervention. Rich with both up-to-date statistics and the words of the survivors themselves, including the parents of the victim, this is both a critical resource and a page turner. This book could save lives. Summing Up: Highly recommended. All readers. --Angela J. Hattery, George Mason University

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Review by New York Times Review

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Review by Booklist Review

Although domestic violence is a difficult subject, this sympathetic look at victims, perpetrators, and intervention efforts by law enforcement and social agencies makes for compelling reading. Journalist Snyder takes readers beyond headlines and mind-numbing statistics, sharing specific cases brought to life through her thorough research, perceptive observations, and in-depth interviews. Snyder profiles victims, surviving families and friends, perpetrators caught up in cycles of abuse, detectives, prosecutors, and others who see the evidence of domestic abuse all too often. This is not a series of individual commentaries but rather honest, ongoing conversations, with multiple instances of horror, fear, guilt, bravado, remorse, forgiveness, and frustration. Along the way, readers learn about experimental programs and policies designed to diminish the stigma associated with being abused, disrupt inbred violent behaviors spawned by generations of abuse, and provide protection and justice for victims, along with their varying levels of effectiveness. Snyder's chilling body of evidence shows that domestic abuse is a pervasive epidemic that can and does happen everywhere and that there are no easy solutions in sight.--Kathleen McBroom Copyright 2019 Booklist

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

In this powerful investigation into intimate partner abuse, journalist and professor Snyder (Fugitive Denim) makes the case that "domestic violence, rather than being a private problem, is a most urgent matter of public health." She humanizes the price tag-victims in the U.S. collectively miss more than eight million days of work per year, and health-care costs borne by taxpayers exceed $8 billion annually-with closely observed, compassionate portraits of victims, advocates, abusers, and police. She also examines the interplay of culture, circumstance, and shame that keeps women with abusive partners, displaying a thorough understanding of systemic problems, including the lethal combination of common contributing factors, among them poverty, addiction, narcissism, and easy access to guns (in the U.S., 50 women a month are shot and killed by their partners). Balancing the gut-wrenching stories are hopeful explorations of resources that could prevent domestic homicides, including the Danger Assessment instrument used by medical professionals to assess an abuse partner's risk; programs that try to rehabilitate offenders; and comprehensive approaches to victim protection, such as that of DASH in Washington, D.C., which offers shelter to victims without disrupting their access to their homes, jobs, or communities. Penetrating and wise, and written in sometimes novelistic prose, Synder's sobering analysis will reward readers' attention. Agent: Susan Ramer, Don Congdon and Associates. (May) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by Library Journal Review

It pains to read this latest work from American University professor and novelist Snyder (Fugitive Denim). Descriptions of violence against victims can trigger unease and sadness, especially in those who have experienced relational trauma firsthand. And while graphic, this book is not gratuitous; rather, it illuminates the realities of domestic violence, working off the premise that instead of only targeting survivor recovery, our concern must be eradicating the behaviors of those who commit abuse. Alongside heartbreaking victim accounts, Synder uncommonly interviews abusers, finding a pattern of boxed-in masculinity (while abusers can be either sex, most are men), in which individuals are locked into expressing their emotions and experiencing their masculinity as dominance over another (or rarely, from failing to uphold masculine stereotypes). While new initiatives such as domestic violence forensic analysis, which provides an NTSB-like critique of domestic violence murders, help close loopholes that have cost lives, Synder reaches into optimism by profiling programs designed to help men healthily display emotions and shatter traditional gender roles of power. VERDICT A compelling treatise on how domestic violence correlates with larger societal problems detracting from the quality of life for all genders.-Jennifer M. Schlau, Elgin Community Coll., IL © Copyright 2019. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A powerful exploration of the sinister, insidious nature of domestic violence in America.As an international reporter for more than two decades, Snyder (Literature/American Univ.; What We've Lost Is Nothing, 2014, etc.) encountered regular acts of violence against women adjacent to the issues she covered. The grim statistics about and the prevalence of unreported incidents both startled and motivated her to begin chronicling the universality of an issue that "is too often hidden." Through a graphically portrayed series of in-depth profiles, the author discusses how domestic violence has reached epidemic levels while efforts to curb the trend have been historically underfunded and ineffective. She elucidates this point in stories spotlighting both victims and assailants alongside the investigators and family members who've become all-consumed with sleuthing the crimes that have torn their relationships apart. She also tackles the complex conundrum facing victims of familial violence who choose to remain in abusive households. Intriguingly, Snyder probes the chilling territory of the perpetrators, sketching them from the inside out. Especially memorable is the author's incisive coverage of the communities responsible for creating change through victim advocacy, rehabilitative jail programs, batterer intervention groups, and transitional housing. In one scene, Snyder describes a state prison's group therapy session in which former abusers discuss "their own incidents of violence, times theydenied any wrongdoing, moments they manipulated or verbally threatened partners [and] instances of trivializing their own violent events. They begin to see, some of them for the first time ever, the effect their violence may have had on their victims." As these stories and perspectives evolve and deepen, the author contributes her own profound introspection on the nature of empathy and relatability, weaving in themes of enduring emotional trauma, the resilience of "deep stereotypes," and the many manifestations of physical and emotional violence.Bracing and gut-wrenching, with slivers of hope throughout, this is exemplary, moving reportage on an important subject that often remains in the dark due to shame and/or fear. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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