Reimagining death Stories and practical wisdom for home funerals and green burials

Lucinda Herring

Book - 2019

"For all those seeking to reclaim their innate and legal right to care for their own dead, create home funeral vigils, and choose greener after-death care options that are less toxic and more sustainable for the earth More natural after-death care options are transforming the paradigm of the existing funeral industry, helping families and communities recover their instinctive capacity to care for a loved one after death and do so in creative, nourishing, and healing ways. In reclaiming these practices and creating new, innovative options, we are greening the gateway of death and returning home to ourselves, our bodies, and the earth. Lucinda Herring reminds us of the sacredness of death itself; her compelling stories, poetry, and guida...nce come from years of experience as a home funeral/green burial consultant and licensed funeral director dedicated to more natural and healing death practices. In Reimagining Death she shares with readers her experience caring for her own mother after death. Through storytelling and resources Herring also reveals to families the gifts of partnering with nature, home funeral vigils, sacred care at death, conscious dying (through the story of a Death with Dignity with accompanying photos of one man's planned death and after-death care), bringing laughter and a greater lightness of being to death, natural burials, and emerging eco-conscious dispositions. A valuable resource in planning for all deaths in all circumstances (with a chapter on what to do when a death occurs outside of the home), this book also guides readers on how to create an advance after-death care directive"--

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Published
Berkeley : North Atlantic Books 2019.
Language
English
Main Author
Lucinda Herring (author)
Physical Description
xix, 272 pages ; 23 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN
9781623172923
  • Illustrations
  • Foreword
  • Prologue: The Calling
  • Practical Wisdom: Home Funerals Lost and Found
  • Chapter 1. Return to the Mother
  • Practical Wisdom: Discerning if a Home Funeral Vigil Is Right for You
  • Chapter 2. Greening the Gateway of Death
  • Practical Wisdom: Choosing a Home Funeral: What You Need to Know
  • Chapter 3. Partnering with Nature When We Die
  • Practical Wisdom: Co-Creating with Nature: An Exploration
  • Chapter 4. "Bury Me Naturally": Stones and Guidance for Green Burials
  • Practical Wisdom: Natural and Unnatural Burial Practices
  • Chapter 5. "You're Dead. Now What?" Humor and Laughter at the Threshold
  • Practical Wisdom: Helpful Field Notes
  • Chapter 6. Sacred Care of the Dead
  • Practical Wisdom: Discovering Your Own Way
  • Chapter 7. When We Die in the Hospital: Field Notes for Finding Our Way Home
  • Practical Wisdom: Navigating Hospital Policies
  • Chapter 8. Conscious Dying: A Death with Dignity
  • Practical Wisdom: Making the Choice: What You Need to Know
  • Chapter 9. Reimagmmg the Future in Ecological After-Death Care
  • Practical Wisdom: The Environmental Cost of Cremation
  • Chapter 10. Be Prepared: Creating a Plan with Family and Friends
  • Practical Wisdom: Advance After-Death Care Directives
  • Epilogue
  • Resources
  • Appendix A. The Three Stages of Death's Threshold
  • Appendix B. Being a Home Funeral Vigil Case Manager
  • Index
  • Acknowledgments
  • About the Author
  • Contributors
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Funeral consultant Herring urges readers to shun the impersonal, environmentally taxing approach of modern death in her stimulating debut. She draws from a highly syncretic new age approach to highlight the positive impact of vigils, caring for one's own dead, and green burial practices. Opening the book with the death of her own mother, Herring writes of having to coax her resistant father and siblings to have a funeral service in their home. She shares stories of clients and friends who have buried loved ones without using traditional funeral arrangements, including a Tibetan Buddhist with exacting preparation requirements. Herring also includes an affecting story of a home vigil for a young woman who died in a car crash. The range of traditions, approaches, and styles Herring describes attests to the versatility of home funerals, and the practical information at the end of each chapter guides readers through, for instance, the legalities of transporting bodies, the least environmentally harmful body disposal methods, and how one can prepare for the end of life. With clear advice and reasoning, Herring helpfully nudges readers toward less clinical, more personal, and more active planning for the deaths of their loved ones and themselves. (Jan.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by Library Journal Review

Interfaith minister and licensed funeral director Herring has become a champion of ecological ways to care for the dead. Here she presents stories, photographs, and plans for home vigils and natural burials that affirm contributions to a healthier, more harmonious life. Beyond discussing the practicalities of a funeral/burial, Herring asks readers to consider envisioning the time between death and cremation/burial and how they would like their own bodies and souls to be treated. The chapter on conducting home vigils is particularly thought provoking. VERDICT Recommended for all readers but especially those whose loved ones are facing death in the near future. © Copyright 2018. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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