Rudy's rules for travel Life lessons from around the globe

Mary K. Jensen

Book - 2018

Circle the twentieth-century globe with risk-taking, frugal Rudy and his spouse Mary, a catastrophic thinker seeking comfort. When this marriage of opposites goes traveling, their engaging stories combine laugh-out-loud humor with poignant lessons from the odyssey of a World War II veteran.

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Genres
Autobiographies
Published
Berkeley, CA : She Writes Press 2018.
Language
English
Main Author
Mary K. Jensen (author)
Physical Description
211 pages : illustrations ; 22 cm
ISBN
9781631523229
  • Chapter 1. Edinburgh, Scotland, 1980
  • Rudy's Rules For Travel
  • Chapter 2. Mexico City, Mexico, 1976
  • Chapter 3. Oaxaca, Mexico, 1979
  • Chapter 4. Puerto Escondido, Mexico, 1979
  • Chapter 5. West Germany, 1980
  • Chapter 6. Italy, 1981
  • Chapter 7. Yugoslavia, 1981
  • Chapter 8. Spain And Portugal, 1982
  • Chapter 9. Czechoslovakia, 1983
  • Chapter 10. Berlin, East Germany, 1983
  • Chapter 11. Hungary, 1983
  • Chapter 12. Russia, 1983
  • Chapter 13. Finland, 1983
  • Chapter 14. Egypt, 1984
  • Chapter 15. New Zealand, 1988
  • Chapter 16. Thailand, 1990
  • Chapter 17. Bali, Indonesia, 1991
  • Chapter 18. Tibenham, Norwich, England, 1992
  • Chapter 19. France, 1994
  • Chapter 20. Cruises Dipping Down Into The Bucket
  • Chapter 21. And Other Transitions
  • Chapter 22. South Dakota, 2013
  • Mary's Rules For Travel
  • Epilogue: Rudy's Rule 14
Review by Booklist Review

Traveling with Rudy was not easy. The school principal and WWII veteran was determined to stretch every dollar to its limit, meet the locals, and get off the beaten tourist path, as his long-suffering wife attests in this fun and tender memoir. His rule on hunting for the best bargains, for example, landed them on an elephant's back for a hair-raising ride down a cliff in Thailand. And his insistence on traveling to dangerous countries before they became inaccessible led to more than one tense encounter with Soviet soldiers. But as often as Rudy's rules caused trouble for his anxiety-riddled wife, they also led to astonishing moments of wonder, especially at the kindness and generosity of strangers. Along the way, Rudy's own remarkable story emerges: born in Germany, he became a U.S. citizen during the war and volunteered for air duty, flying missions as a gunner against his homeland. From exotic destinations like Bali to more personal excursions to uncover family history, Rudy's travels are imbued with his unceasing optimism and boundless enthusiasm, leaving the reader convinced that his rules are well worth following.--Thoreson, Bridget Copyright 2018 Booklist

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Review by Library Journal Review

Jensen's first book describes the often humorous, exasperating, and frustrating (though not in that order) travel adventures of the author and her husband, Rudy, recapping their many journeys taken from 1976 to 1994, in the days before cell phones and Internet maps. They are opposites in almost every aspect. Jensen is cautious and safety-loving, prepared to "expect the worst"; Rudy's rules of the road are much more spontaneous and include advice to "ride with locals, not tourists" and "relax, some kind stranger will appear." Their destinations include East Asia, Eastern Europe, Egypt, England, Mexico, New Zealand, and Russia. The author portrays the frustration, exasperation, and challenging emotions that accompany responses to what she sees as preventable situations, all without admonishing her husband with, "I told you so!" Verdict In the vein of the blog Universal Man by young Turkish adventurer Yigit Kurt, which describes the travel adventures of Kurt and his father, this humorous travelog is a delight. Armchair travelers and their active counterparts, spouses who have traveled or are thinking about traveling together, solo trekkers, women journeyers, and dysfunctional spouses will enjoy this work.-Cheryl Branche, Brooklyn © Copyright 2018. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A set of rules for life, by way of a delightful travel narrative.Jensen (How to Recruit, Select, Induct and Retain the Very Best Teachers, 1987, etc.) and her late husband, World War II veteran Rudy, had diametrically opposite personalities, but their combination makes for excellent stories. Her memoir highlights her husband's list of travel rules, and over the course of their adventures, he taught her how to apply them to all things in life. The tales can be hilarious or heartbreaking, but all highlight "Rule #11": "Relax. Some kind stranger will appear." Throughout, the author highlights Rudy's adventuresome spirit and absolute optimism as they journeyed to Scotland, Mexico, Egypt, Indonesia, and elsewhere. The stories don't necessarily teach readers very much about the places they visited, but rather tell how to live life to the fullest. "We don't travel to have comfort...we can have comfort at home," Jensen writes; traveling, according to Rudy, is for learning about new cultures, and to do that, you must "ride with locals, not tourists." In Oaxaca, for example, the Jensens were swept up in a crowd headed to celebrate Holy Thursday. They would have missed the opportunity to participate in the ceremony if they'd gone to the recommended tourist destinations--and indeed, Jensen looked up "to see tourists in the two restaurants above us…straining to see, to understand what has happened on the streets below. I see what they had missed." Other stories are laugh-out-loud funny, as when the couple decide between two dangerous modes of transportation in Puerto Escondido. When in Egypt, the Jensens faced a heartbreaking experience, yet it was one that also showed the generosity of the people in the community. Not a lot of time is spent at any given location in each section; instead, the author takes readers to many places, briefly but vividly describing each. In this way, the author shows how Rudy's Rules applied to a wide variety of scenarios. A book that will make readers want to pack their bags and catch the first flight to somewhere far away.

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