We don't talk anymore Healing after parents and their adult children become estranged

Kathy McCoy, 1945-

Book - 2017

Estrangement or partial estrangement between adult sons or daughters and their parents can mean angry silences and the pain of missing the relationship they once shared. McCoy provides new exploration of estrangement, with practical insights focused on what both parents and adult children can do to take those first steps toward healing.

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2nd Floor 306.874/McCoy Due May 13, 2024
Subjects
Published
Naperville, Illinois : Sourcebooks, Inc [2017]
Language
English
Main Author
Kathy McCoy, 1945- (author)
Physical Description
xxiv, 343 pages ; 21 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN
9781492651130
  • Preface: The silent epidemic ; What's going on? Exploring the mystery of estrangement
  • What can we do? Developmental divides and clashing expectations ; Life paths taken or not taken ; Cultural clashes ; Parents, adult children, and money issues ; Marriage: yours and theirs ; Divorce: early or late ; Divergent memories ; Mental illness ; Echoes of the past ; Stopping the blame ; Learning to live with differences ; Breaking the silence through better communication
  • What can I do? Living with rejection ; Perfectly imperfect: living with what is and creating a life of your own.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Centered on the idea that the only person whose "perceptions, attitudes, and behaviors" you can change are your own, this practical guidebook goes through the most common conflicts between older parents and their adult children and offers the perspective of each side. Family therapist McCoy (The Teenage Body Book) goes through top stressors-such as culture clashes, "gray" (late in life) divorce, money, and sexuality-that cause breaks in familial relationships and explains the usual thought processes behind each side's responses to these stressors, all in a format that will make it easy for readers to turn right to what they need most. McCoy condemns entitled behaviors that cause intergenerational anger and estrangement, such as millennials moving home without showing they intend to pursue their goals, with gentle firmness. She provides clear steps for both parents and children to stop cycles of blame, take responsibility, and learn to live with difference. This book is a great starting place for readers hoping to let go of long-term resentments and improve communication with estranged family members. Agent: Stephany Evans, Ayesha Pande Literary. (Oct.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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