Highly sensitive people : in an insensitive world : how to create a happy life

Highly sensitive people In an insensitive world : how to create a happy life

Ilse Sand

Book - 2016

Written for highly sensitive people, this book explains the characterisitcs of being highly sensitive and how to overcome common difficulties, such as low self-esteem and the exhausting effects of socialising.

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Subjects
Self-acceptance.
Published
London ; Philadelphia : Jessica Kingsley Publishers 2016.
Language
English
Danish
Main Author
Ilse Sand (author)
Physical Description
160 pages ; 20 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages 153-155).
ISBN
9781785920660
  • Preface
  • Introduction
  • 1. The Characteristics of Being Highly Sensitive
  • Two types within the same species
  • We receive more inputs and think deeply about them
  • Sensitive to sensory inputs
  • Easily affected by the moods of other people
  • Conscientious
  • A rich inner life
  • A natural spiritual curiosity
  • A different strategy
  • Slow and judicious
  • Sensation-seeking sensitive people
  • Introvert or extrovert
  • Pros and cons of typology
  • 2. High Standards and Low Self-Esteem
  • Personal maxims
  • High standards
  • Self-esteem or self-confidence
  • Why highly sensitive people often lack faith in their own worth
  • How low self-esteem and high standards maintain each other
  • When lowering your standards proves difficult
  • The fear of abandonment
  • Seize the opportunity
  • 3. How to Organise Your Life According to Your Type
  • Creating space
  • Setting boundaries
  • When guests linger
  • When you have to say no to something you like
  • Good advice and ideas for dealing with being overwhelmed
  • Some advice about sleep
  • The beneficial effects of water, exercise and physical contact
  • Expressing yourself prevents over-stimulation
  • When you are stimulated from within
  • Telling other people about your sensitivity
  • 4. How to Benefit from Your Ability to Relate to Others and Be Present
  • Highly sensitive people prefer high-quality interactions
  • Take breaks
  • Make sure you are part of a dialogue rather than a monologue
  • Figure out what kind of responses you want to give or receive
  • How to deepen a conversation - and lighten it again
  • Interacting on four levels
  • 5. How to Face Anger: Your Own and Others'
  • Highly sensitive people have a different strategy when dealing with anger
  • Make use of your abilities to empathise and reflect
  • When it is unwise to be empathic when facing anger
  • When you are not letting others know what you dislike
  • When anger protects us from powerlessness and grief
  • Avoid moralising
  • From 'should' to 'wish' - from anger to sorrow
  • 6. Guilt and Shame
  • Relevant guilt
  • Excessive guilt feelings
  • Working with guilt feelings
  • Feelings of shame
  • If you are ashamed of your sensitivity
  • 7. Situations in Life
  • Difficulties in relationships
  • To be a highly sensitive parent
  • 8. Mental Health Problems
  • Vulnerability to anxiety and depression
  • Exhaustion and depression
  • Feelings and thoughts are closely related - the cognitive model
  • Sometimes it is wise to prepare for the worst
  • The highly sensitive trait may look like anxiety disorder to outsiders
  • Other problems may contribute to a sensitized nervous system
  • 9. Developing and Growing
  • Highly sensitive people and psychotherapy
  • Loving yourself - supporting yourself
  • Being compassionate towards yourself
  • Reconciliation
  • The joy of becoming yourself
  • 10. Researching the Highly Sensitive Trait
  • Strong reactions to sensory inputs
  • A new articulation
  • Nature and nurture
  • Test results
  • Epilogue: A Gift for the Highly Sensitive
  • Ideas For Highly Sensitive People
  • Inspiring activities
  • Outgoing activities
  • Activities for when you are over-stimulated
  • Test Yourself: How Sensitive are you?
  • Bibliography
  • Acknowledgements
  • About the Author and Translator
Review by Library Journal Review

Mental health trainer Sand has developed a number of psychotherapeutic approaches to mental health in Denmark and now turns her attention to the introverted "delicate soul." Her research finds that highly sensitive people often feel overstimulated, have a rich inner life, are easily affected by the moods of others, and are so conscientious that they tend to feel responsible for the actions of those around them. Sand not only helps these individuals deal with the guilt and anger they often feel but also encourages them to appreciate the gifts (e.g., aptitude of depth, intensity, and presence) that they bring to social interaction. VERDICT This work offers affirmation and support for those with acutely impressionable personalities. © Copyright 2016. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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