Freedom from anger Understanding it, overcoming it, and finding joy

Alubomulle Sumanasara

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Published
Boston : Wisdom Publications [2015]
Language
English
Main Author
Alubomulle Sumanasara (author)
Physical Description
viii, 125 pages ; 21 cm
ISBN
9781614292241
  • I. Understanding Anger
  • Don't Flatter Anger
  • The Urge to Get Angry Is Innate
  • Life Is Governed by Anger and Love
  • Different Forms of Anger
  • Anger and Love Come from Within
  • You Make Cockroaches Ugly
  • A Bug Is a Treat to a Bird
  • Perception
  • You Have the Power to Be Happy
  • We Get Angry Because We Think We Are Right
  • The "I Am Right" Attitude Is Concealed
  • You Won't Get Angry If You Know That You Might Be Wrong
  • Words Are Imperfect
  • Even the Kind May Be Disliked
  • Hard Work Does Not Guarantee Results
  • How Angry People Think
  • Abuse Leads to Anger
  • Harm Leads to Anger
  • Defeat Leads to Anger
  • Theft Leads to Anger
  • Adults Brood on Negatives and Aggravate Situations
  • The Ego Engenders Anger
  • Ego → Ignorance → Corruption → Anger
  • Anger Is Habit-Forming
  • II. Anger Destroys Happiness
  • When Rejection Grows Too Strong
  • Is Anger Unavoidable?
  • Anger Eliminates the Happiness of Living
  • People Cannot Live without Happiness
  • There Is No Such Thing as Justifiable Anger
  • Killing Can Never Be Right
  • Forgive Everything
  • Anger Is a Consuming Fire
  • Anger Is Insidious in Its Harm
  • Angry People Can Be Slow to Recover from Sickness
  • Angry People Are Thieves of Joy
  • Anger Is Infectious
  • It's Dangerous for One Person to Be in Control of Others
  • A Winner Doesn't Actually Win
  • Becoming Angry Is Foolish
  • Stay Angry, and You Will Become Anger
  • Don't Throw Away Your Humanity
  • III. Those Who Don't Get Angry
  • Responding to Angry People
  • The Driver Who Troubled the Buddha
  • Brahma Danda, the Buddha's Discipline
  • The Importance of Self-Reflection
  • Coming to Understand Your Wrongs
  • If Someone Strikes You...
  • Great People Are Humble
  • Self-Image Is Ugliness
  • Einstein's Humility
  • Shed Anger Like an Old Skin
  • Only Those Who Do Not Become Angry Prevail
  • Become Like a Cracked Bell
  • Anyone Can Seem Great if They Have No Cause of Anger
  • Remain Peaceful, No Matter How You're Treated
  • Make Your Heart Unmovable
  • IV. The Solution to Anger
  • Recognize the Anger within Yourself
  • Do Not Repress or Tolerate
  • Anger Disappears When It's Watched
  • Anger Is a Losing Reaction
  • Angry Parents Aren't Effective
  • Not Becoming Angry with a Child Is Not the Same as Spoiling Him
  • Love and Confidence Are Well Regarded
  • Never Get Angry, No Matter What Happens
  • Understand True Equality
  • Don't Get Hung Up on "Reasons to Live"
  • The Ego Is the Shackle of the Self
  • Let Go of Self-importance
  • Let Go of Self-Loathing
  • Let Go of Competitiveness
  • Doing Your Best Is Enough
  • Don't Let Setbacks Make You Angry
  • Focus on Understanding, Not Anger
  • Defeat Anger with Wisdom
  • Become Like a Crystal Ball
  • Stern Lessons Are Not the Same as Anger
  • Show the Selfishly Willful a Mirror
  • Laugh, and Anger Disappears
  • The Wiser You Are, the More You Laugh
  • Wisdom and Understanding Lead to Laughter and Happiness
  • Wise Laughter, Foolish Laughter
  • Don't Make Laughter Your Goal
  • Learn to Laugh, and the World Is a Funnier Place
  • Funny Things Are Everywhere
  • Use Understanding Rather Than Anger
  • Dealing with Angry People
  • Don't Ingest Someone Else's Anger
  • Lose Anger, Find Miracles
  • Peace Is the Language of the Strong
  • Anyone Can Be Happy
  • About the Author
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Anger is a powerful emotion, expressing itself in righteous indignation and sometimes in destructiveness. Sumanasara, a Theravada Buddhist monk, offers advice for understanding and taming anger. For him, this emotion is fundamental in human activity; it manifests in numerous ways, including boredom, malice, envy, and remorse. Because anger protects the ego, giving into it is hard to resist. Sumanasara emphasizes, however, that becoming angry is a choice, and to make that choice is to be a "failure" and a "loser." Sumanasara allows no room for anger as a natural or instinctive emotion, because such a concession is an avoidance of the work needed to overcome it. Readers used to gentler teachings from writers in other Buddhist traditions may be caught off-guard by his sharp tone. While Sumanasara is clearly trying to emphasize that choosing anger is a serious danger to oneself and others, readers may feel like they have been lightly scolded by a disappointed parent. Nevertheless, Sumanasara's guidance is a firm but gentle paternal hand, offering thoughtful meditations on anger and the choice between destructive rage and happiness. (June) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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