Review by New York Times Review
AMY POEHLER ADMITS she wrote her new memoir while sleep-deprived. And it shows. But not in an entirely bad way. It helps that Poehler is upfront about her exhaustion, given that she is a 43-year-old sitcom star who shoots 12 hours of television a day while mothering two children under 7. Even when Poehler does sleep, she wakes herself up 20 to 30 times a night (according to a Beverly Hills sleep clinic) and, apparently, snores "like a dragon." She freely allows that "Yes Please" is a "spontaneous overflow in the middle of chaos, not tranquillity," a thing written on subways and planes, "ugly and in pieces." And in the end, no apologies. She finished the job. Perfection is a luxury. As improv's godfather Del Close used to say: "Don't think." "Get out of your head," Poehler writes. "Stop planning and just go." As Poehler's multitasking did not leave time for her to give her book a cultural context, let's offer one (as Seth Meyers, who contributes a short chapter, says, "so that Amy can take a break"). Starting from the 1950s, a quick lineage of women in comedy might include Lucille Ball, Phyllis Diller, Carol Burnett, Joan Rivers, Lily Tomlin, Gilda Radner, Whoopi Goldberg and 1990s stand-ups-turned-sitcom-stars such as Roseanne Barr, Brett Butler and Margaret Cho. The next wave of funny women landed around 2000, when Tina Fey became a head writer for "Saturday Night Live" and the cast featured Rachel Dratch, Ana Gasteyer, Cheri Oteri, Maya Rudolph and Poehler. Beyond "S.N.L.," today's female comedy stars include Ellen DeGeneres, Kathy Griffin, Chelsea Handler, Mindy Kaling and Sarah Silverman-all of whom have written memoirs. There are enough comedian memoirs published, in short, that we can classify them in two genres. The late, great Joan Rivers is Old School. In "I Hate Everyone ... Starting With Me," she mocks celebrities, celebrates bad attitudes and extols plastic surgery. New School is Tina Fey's fearsomely witty and polished "Bossypants," a wry, self-deprecating account of a hugely successful career that offers smart, "Lean In"-worthy advice and glosses over the 30-pound weight loss that was required for her to become a "S.N.L." regular. (Ours is the era of the surprisingly harnisch Lome Michaels.) As one can deduce by its relatively anodyne title (inspired by the "Yes, and..." maxims of improv), "Yes Please" is New School. Even fans of the genre, the enjoyment of which-we can good-naturedly admit-depends more on personality than text, may experience a little disappointment. Poehler fans devastated by her divorce from Will Arnett get no answers-it's addressed in one paragraph. Woe also to those who crave showbiz gossip: From Bono to Prince, "S.N.L." guest stars are depicted as friendly and courteous. The only amusing dish is on Betty White, whose end-of-the-workday regimen is to fix herself "a vodka on the rocks and eat a cold hot dog." But even that grace note is telling, because in the end, Poehler's real interest is in how comedians work, rather than how they don't (think of Brett Butler going broke and moving to a house in Georgia with 15 pets). As such, the detailed anecdotes Poehler does share serve to illuminate a deeply influential era in American comedy and culture. Her early improv group, the Upright Citizens Brigade, began, interestingly, less as a Harvard Lampoon-style comedy factory than as an anarchic performance art troupe. In 1990s Chicago, U.C.B.-ers did everything from consume Thanksgiving dinners on street corners to performing a sketch declaring an end to baseball at the entrance to Wrigley Field. Poehler's subsequent tenure on "S.N.L." began right before 9/11, and reached a political apex in 2008 with Poehler and "comedy wife" Fey's zeitgeist-defining act as Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin. Her chapter on awards, however, may be the most personally revealing. Whenever Poehler is nominated, she'll invite all her female competitors to help her transform an anxious evening into a joyous group prank (e.g., each nominee, upon hearing her name, automatically goes to the stage as though she has won). It's an enlightening look into the emotional character of a craft. Just as the documentary "Twenty Feet From Stardom" depicts backup singers anxious about stepping into the spotlight, sketch improvisers appreciate-even crave-the group. In her next decade, Poehler might have a few extra minutes to further burnish her more personally reflective humor. (When her 6-year-old son asks, "Did you once have a penis and break it?," she contemplates replying with "a joke that would screw him up for life": "Yes, my son. Your mother once had a penis, but it broke because you didn't love her enough.") But that will be then. Where is Poehler now, at "pre-peri-middle-aged"? "I'm at the point in my life now where delivering a B-minus performance on a televised show with some of my comedy heroes doesn't ruin my week." Is that depressing, she wonders? Readers may think not, but no matter, the job, and day, is done. A vodka and cold hot dog beckon. Snoring like a dragon, until tomorrow's 5 a.m. call at least, Poehler deserves a good night's sleep. Poehler's real interest is in how comedians work, rather than how they don't. SANDRA TSING LOH is the author of "The Madwoman in the Volvo: My Year of Raging Hormones."
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Review by Booklist Review
*Starred Review* This book is heavy. Literally heavy, as in surprisingly hard to carry around. Perhaps that's because it's so firmly packed with wit and insight. And all that insight makes it figuratively heavy as well, though you might not notice because of all the wit. Fans of Poehler and her offbeat characters expect her to be outrageous (I'm looking at you, Amber, one-legged, gassy reality star), and there's some of that here, but mostly this is a sweet, funny memoir and a thoughtful look at what it takes to be a woman, a woman in comedy, a divorced woman with children, and, peering into the future, a 90-year-old woman who has plenty of advice to offer middle-aged Amy. In fact, there's lots of advice given here, and it's smart, the kind of stuff your favorite aunt would tell you, albeit, an aunt who once shot a moose on the Weekend Update set while rapping alongside Sarah Palin. She addresses how to treat your career (like a bad boyfriend); how not to torture other women about their life choices; ways to shut people up about your newly single status (Hey, lady, I don't want to fuck your husband). With so much to enjoy and absorb, you may even want to carry this book around, reread it, and underline pertinent-to-your-own-life sentences, which would be perfectly reasonable, except for the fact that it's so darn heavy.--Cooper, Ilene Copyright 2010 Booklist
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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Poehler, the sharp and self-deprecating Emmy-winning star of TV's Parks and Recreation, takes a stab here at autobiography mixed with advice on sex, babies, and even divorce. She mines her 20s, back in the 1990s, when she cut her teeth in theater at ImprovOlympic in Chicago, and with the Upright Citizens Brigade in New York. Poehler struggled for many years in part-time gigs-including doing bits on Late Night with Conan O'Brien-and her humility and good work ethic shine through: for example, in the chapter "Don't Forget to Tip Your Waitress" (which was excerpted last year in the New Yorker), she recounts rather poignantly her various early jobs, such as working as a junior secretary in a podiatrist's office at age 16 and doing waitressing stints in Chicago and New York. Poehler gives ample credit to current and former colleagues, such as Matt Besser of UCB, Seth Meyers at SNL, and the cast of Parks and Recreation; elsewhere she offers some wonderful advice on apologies-both receiving and giving. Her memoir is as bewitching and chameleonlike as Poehler herself is when she appears onstage and on-screen. (Oct.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
Review by Kirkus Book Review
The star of Parks and Recreation shares stories from her adolescence, her star-making tenure at Saturday Night Live and her abiding love of improvisation.In her debut book, comedian Poehler credits her approach to work to Carol Burnett, who was "funny and versatile and up for anything" and "a benevolent captain" on her eponymous variety show. The author's successful career proves that collaboration, good manners and gratitude are assets in both business and life. She has written a happy, angst-free memoir with stories told without regret or shame; rather, Poehler provides a series of lessons learned about achieving success through ambition and a resolute spirit. She affectionately recounts her perfect-seeming childhood and adolescence, including making lifelong friends, waiting tables, and living and working in the rough, pre-gentrified Greenwich Village. Poehler is especially grateful to her proud, comical parents and shares their wisdom with readers: "Make sure he's grateful to be with you," "Ask for what you want" and "Always overtip." With benevolent humor, she shares "Obligatory Drug Stories, or Lessons I Learned on Mushrooms" ("I've tried most drugs but avoided the BIG BAD ONES") and explores why ambivalence is an important component of success in a chapter titled "Treat Your Career Like a Bad Boyfriend." Along with Meredith Walker and Amy Miles, Poehler has created a Web series, "Smart Girls at the Party," to empower and celebrate women and girls who "chang[e] the world by being themselves." The author conveys the ethos of this project in pithy statements and reassurances sprinkled throughout the book in large typee.g., "If It's Not Funny, You Don't Have To Laugh" and "Everybody Is Scared Most Of The Time." This is not a treacly self-help book or spiritual guide but rather motivation from a hilarious and kindhearted champion. A wise and winningand politememoir and manifesto. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
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