Does this church make me look fat? A Mennonite finds faith, meets Mr. Right, and solves her lady problems

Rhoda Janzen

Book - 2012

Rhoda Janzen had reconnected with her family and her roots, though her future felt uncertain. But when she starts dating a churchgoer, the skeptic begins a surprising journey to faith and love. Rhoda doesn't slide back into the dignified simplicity of the Mennonite church. Instead she finds herself hanging with the Pentecostals, who really know how to get down with sparkler pom-poms. Amid the hand waving and hallelujahs, Rhoda finds a faith richly practical for life.

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Published
New York : Grand Central Publishing 2012.
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English
Main Author
Rhoda Janzen (-)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
257 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN
9781455502882
  • 1. Stella's House
  • 2. Lady Problems
  • 3. Lip Balm in Gilead
  • 4. Hot Rock
  • 5. Follow the Wild Goose Flight
  • 6. The Ghost in the Tub
  • 7. 8 Percent Perceptive
  • 8. The Gottman Island Survival Experience
  • 9. Up from the Deep
  • 10. The Poovey Voice
  • 11. Whippersnapper
  • 12. Double Dip
  • Acknowledgments
  • About the Author
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Author of the improbable bestseller Mennonite in a Little Black Dress, Janzen continues her quirky tales of finding faith in unlikely places in this dotty, squeaky-clean postdivorce sequel in which she describes life with a new boyfriend and the courage to battle breast cancer. Having fallen out of her conservative Mennonite community in California-"abgefallen" is how she is referred by her church folk-now an English professor in Holland, Mich., Janzen meets and falls for a Pentecostal born-again "Jesus-nail-necklace-wearing manly man" shortly before she is diagnosed with massive, inoperable breast cancer. With Mitch standing firmly by her, along with her resilient mom and sister, Janzen was determined to face her condition with optimism, and in startlingly breezy prose, considering the gravity of her condition, pokes fun at her professorial distractedness in contrast to Mitch's literal groundedness. She plunges into activities at his Pentecostal church, as wildly improvisational and "kooky" as her Mennonite church had been sober and dignified, with enthusiasm, embracing their particular rituals of healing and even tithing. However, underneath her limpid facetiousness (one inspired simile compares Mitch's gloomy aged father's boredom to "a stretch of wet cement that he protected with cones and tape") run serious concerns about her faith, spiritual growth, and the meaning of prayer and humility. "I had unfinished business with God," Janzen writes, sharing in this vibrant, charming narrative her own "fruits of the spirit." (Oct.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

Continuing her search for spiritual relevance in everyday life, Janzen (Mennonite in a Little Black Dress, 2009) recounts the travails and joys encountered while finding love, embracing her new beau's religion, and surviving breast cancer. Newly single, the author stepped into the dating world and ended up with an unlikely Mr. Wonderful. A huge, goateed rocker with a permit to carry a concealed weapon, he was a reformed alcoholic with a light Southern accent who uttered pronouncements like, "Well, I'll be double-dipped!" Janzen was mesmerized, she repeatedly informs the reader, by his giant pectorals and his Pentecostal church. "He loved the pastor, the people, the worship," she writes. "He loved the teaching, the service programs, the bake sales. It was clear to me that this church was an expression of his core values. If I was to keep dating him, I would need to see what it was all about." The author also covers a lot of other territory in her memoir--life as an English teacher; her breast cancer; the vast differences between Pentecostals and Mennonites, the religion she grew up with; her family relationships; her hot new romance; and her new relationship with God--and her peppy enthusiasm almost bounds off the page. Some readers, however, may grow tired of the author's continuously emphatic tone or her constant attempts to appear slightly naughty by divulging topics good girls would not discuss. Also, she makes entirely too much use of the exclamation point--e.g., "If Lazarus was peacefully rotting there in the tomb and if at the sound of Jesus's voice, he up and trotted out--well, miraculous! He left death and disease behind, yay! Stank hath no hold on him!" A welcome second installment for readers who enjoyed Janzen's first memoir. Others may want to turn elsewhere.]] Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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