Review by Publisher's Weekly Review
Brimming with references to Star Trek, Firefly, and Pokemon, this dating guide by popular blogger Smith is aimed at an ever-growing population of self-described male "geeks" . Smith, who addresses the reader as "Player One," provides tips on how to "hack" online dating profiles, the proper etiquette for approaching women on Facebook and Twitter, and the best locations for meeting like-minded women in real life. He walks readers through a first date simulation, outlining effective conversation strategies and topics to avoid. Smith does a great service for both sexes by disabusing men of the concepts of the Manic Pixie Dream Girl and "the friendzone," while also discouraging "idiosyncratic 'trademark' wardrobe items" such as fedoras. He does, however, explain how you can achieve Han Solo's "roguish but classy" style without attracting "unwanted attention in a cantina." Smith further contends that the Cylons of Battlestar Galactica make good dating role models and that a Magic: The Gathering deck is a perfect metaphor for compromise in a relationship. He also covers moving in together, meeting her family, and proper break-up techniques, with Futurama's Bender providing an example of what not to do. With Smith stressing understanding and respect for women, this is a welcome alternative to the "pick-up artist" phenomenon courting this same demographic. (Dec.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.
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Review by Library Journal Review
Smith (cofounder, Geekadelphia blog) has penned a pocket-size primer on courtship for those who fly their geek flag proudly. This portable little volume is attractively designed, with eight-bit video game-style illustrations throughout. The pop culture-savvy author crams in tons of film and video game references and addresses current tropes such as the Friend Zone (the challenge of being viewed as a mere friend by a romantic prospect). However, strip away the nods to Star Trek, and this guide is basically Dating 101: obvious and commonsense advice on relationships for those with little to no experience. Despite a few clumsy efforts to indicate that female geeks, too, can benefit from this book, this manual is clearly aimed at heterosexual males with fairly traditional expectations (for example, taking the lead on asking a woman out or on planning a date). Though a few suggestions fall flat, overall the information is well intentioned; the author is keenly aware that his average reader may need a few gentle reminders when it comes to social skills, and he emphasizes respect for women. Verdict While not for everyone, this title will appeal to men looking for a quirky slant on basic dating tips.-Mahnaz Dar, Library Journal (c) Copyright 2013. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
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