Attempting normal

Marc Maron

Book - 2013

The stand-up comedian and popular podcaster tells the story of his winding, potholed road from madness and obsession and failure to something like normal, while still trying hard to do better without making a bigger mess.

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Published
New York : Spiegel & Grau [2013]
Language
English
Main Author
Marc Maron (-)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xx, 210 pages ; 22 cm
ISBN
9780812992878
  • Introduction: The Garage
  • Part I. Attempting
  • Chapter 1. The Situation in My Head
  • Chapter 2. Twenty-Six
  • Chapter 3. The First Marriage
  • Chapter 4. Two Prostitutes
  • Chapter 5. Mother's Day Card from Dad
  • Chapter 6. My Grandfathers Mouth
  • Chapter 7. Cats
  • Chapter 8. Petty Lifting
  • Chapter 9. Guitar
  • Chapter 10. Lorne Michaels and Gorillas, 1994
  • Chapter 11. The Clown and the Chair
  • Part II. Normal
  • Chapter 12. Babies
  • Chapter 13. Viagra Diaries
  • Chapter 14. I'm a Good Person
  • Chapter 15. Hummingbirds and the Killer of Mice
  • Chapter 16. Dunk the Clown
  • Chapter 17. I Want to Understand Opera
  • Chapter 18. I Almost Died #1: Cleveland
  • Chapter 19. I Almost Died #2: "Mouth Cancer"
  • Chapter 20. Whole Foods
  • Chapter 21. I Almost Died #3: Prince's Chicken
  • Chapter 22. Xenophobia, Autoerotic Asphyxiation, and the History of Irish Poetry
  • Chapter 23. Googleheimers
  • Chapter 24. Cooking at Thanksgiving
  • Chapter 25. The Montreal Just for Laughs Comedy Festival Keynote Address
  • Epilogue: Boomer Lives!
  • Acknowledgments
Review by Kirkus Book Review

A comedian's life is no laughing matter in this memoir of short chapters that examine the author's source of material as a series of open wounds. Rarely has an entertainer's account of his life been so lacking in self-glorification. "There really is no business like show business," he told a group of his peers as the keynote speaker for the 2011 Just for Laughs Comedy Festival in Montreal. "Except maybe prostitution. There's a bit of overlap there." The speech provides the penultimate chapter of Maron's first book and shows why he enjoyed the respect of so many better-known comedians even before he resurrected his career by shifting it from the comedy club to his garage with his popular podcast WTF with Marc Maron. In his introduction, he explains the development of the cyberseries, which appeared to be a last-ditch effortand which went viral through the host's interviews with guests such as Conan O'Brien. Though he'd appeared on O'Brien's show more than 40 times, he treats that exposure like an afterthought, as he explains the secret of success that O'Brien shared with him and which he now believes explains his own: " Get yourself in a situation where you have no choice.' And that's what I'm doing, because I had no choice. I was broke and broken and lost when I started WTF." If such desperation pushed the comedian beyond his comfort level (presuming he had one), his book might do the same for readers, as Maron recounts his dysfunctional childhood, his two failed marriages (and his part in each split), his addictions, recovery and sobriety, and his ambivalence toward pornography (which he both likes a lot and really doesn't). In that same speech, he says, "we comics are out there on the front lines of our sanity. We risk all sense of security and the possibility of living stable lives to do comedy." In a blood sport littered with casualties, this is an account of an unlikely survivor.]] Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Chapter 1 The Situation in My Head I had a bad run-­in with myself on a plane recently. I had just flown from Dublin to Chicago and hadn't slept much. I was strung out. Tired. Tweaky. I changed planes in Chicago to fly to Los Angeles. Things were vibrating and I was edgy. I was in the exhaustion zone, feeling the kind of tired you can't sleep off because you can't sleep, because your blood is pumping caffeinated dread and loathing. I was seated at the front of coach in an aisle seat, directly behind the first-­class dividing wall and the flight attendant service area. It's my favorite seat on a plane. I like watching people get on the plane so I can judge them. I like judging. I didn't see any real problems among the passengers who awkwardly clumped onto the plane, but I definitely felt like I was in a better place than some of them, which helped take the edge off my mood. Judging works. We took off. The flight attendants were strapped in almost directly in front of me, facing me. I always scan their faces for fear. I rarely see it. When I do see something dark flicker across their faces, it usually seems like it has nothing to do with the job. More likely something personal that followed them onto the plane. But then again, what do I know. I project. Then I judge. The crew seemed pleasant. One woman in particular seemed genuinely nice: blond hair, about fifty, pretty in the classic California way. I always wonder when I see older flight attendants if they've been at it since the seventies, when things were crazy. Did she ever have sex in a cockpit? Did she survive a crash? Get tied up in a hijacking? Did she ever have sex in a bathroom with a passenger? With the pilot? I like to give my flight attendants a bit of backstory. I decided she was an out-­of-­control instigator of major in-­flight mayhem back in the day. She got through it disease-­free and didn't end up in rehab. She started a family, her husband had a drug problem he couldn't kick and left her, but she did all right. The husband had a lot of money, so she's good. Humble and wise. She lives in Topanga with a few big dogs. Her kids are in college. Only a few people know her from her old life and one of them is the pilot on the flight I am on. That's who I made the flight attendant up to be. Once we were up in the air I was crawling out of my skin. I couldn't sleep and had definitely had enough of flying. I needed to walk around and judge. I walked down the aisle toward the back of the plane in hopes of going to the bathroom. I didn't really have to go but sometimes it's just nice to lock yourself in the bathroom of a plane and take a few minutes to look in the mirror. I reached the door of the bathroom and the little lock indicator said Vacant, but there was a man standing in front of the door. Hanging out, I guess. He was a Middle Eastern-­looking man, olive-­skinned with Semitic features--­a dubious shade of brown. I looked at him and gave him a raised-­eyebrow grunt, asking if he was waiting. He looked me right in the eye but didn't speak for a moment. Then he shook his head no. It was a simple gesture, but seemed ominous and cryptic. I couldn't understand why he was standing there. In retrospect he was probably just doing what I was doing. Stretching, moving around. But in that moment, when I looked into his eyes, fear shot through me. I was sure that this guy was up to something. He had that look in his eye. Scheming, driven, full of will and sacrifice. He was clearly Palestinian or Saudi and we were all in trouble. The worst of it was that I was sure I was the only one on the plane who knew that something truly awful was about to happen. I knew and he knew I knew. I could see it in that quick glance he shot me letting me know that he wasn't going into the bathroom. No, he was going into the cockpit. It was that kind of look. I didn't go into the bathroom. I lingered around in the rear flight attendant station thinking, watching, figuring out what had to be done. The suspicious-­looking, dubious-­shade-­of-­brown man started making his way down the aisle. I decided to follow him. I found out very quickly that it's hard to discreetly follow someone on an aircraft. I gave him about ten steps, then I started pacing behind him down the aisle toward the front of the plane. He walked right through the division between the classes, from coach into business. I stopped in the service area, afraid to cross the class line, and watched him disappear behind the curtain. I was completely panicked. I knew he was heading for the cockpit. I hadn't figured out what his plan was but I knew we were all in trouble and no else knew. I had to save us. I pulled the curtain back and focused intently on the man moving toward the front of the plane. I can only imagine what my face looked like or what kind of panic vibrations were peeling off me as I stood there trying to figure out a plan, my brain working the angles. "Is everything okay, sir?" It was the flight attendant, the one who'd been through some shit and come out on the other side. I turned. She looked concerned. Some part of me knew I couldn't spill everything, that she wouldn't understand if I just babbled out everything I knew. So this came out of my mouth: "Uh, well, there's . . . a situation. In my head." "Maybe you should sit down, sir," she said, concerned, like I was the one with a problem. "Um. I think we . . . okay. Yeah, okay," I said, letting go of my horrible knowledge and the impending crisis for a moment. "I'll sit down. But . . . okay." I sat down in my seat, my brain still feverishly running scenarios. I knew what was happening. I saw it in my mind. The dubious-­shaded-­brown man was already in the cockpit. He had on a pair of rubber gloves that had been soaked in an ancient toxin that he had achieved immunity to by exposing himself to it in small doses over the last year. He had already touched the neck of the pilot and copilot, who were in full cardiac arrest with a pinkish white foam coming out of their mouths as they gasped and writhed in their final throes. The man was moments away from taking control of the plane, plummeting us to a lower altitude, and putting us on a flight path into the target of his choice. I don't make pretty pictures. Sometimes I wish my imagination were fueled by something other than panic and dread. But I don't have control over my gift. It has control over me and I am dragged by it more often than not, away from the idyllic land of normal and onto the jagged shores of self-­destruction. Imagining the worst has always been a great comfort to me. If there is turbulence there is an imminent crash. If she doesn't pick up the phone, she is fucking someone. If there is a lump it is a tumor. By thinking like this I protect myself from disappointment. And if anything other than the worst-­case scenario unfolds, what a pleasant surprise! The problem is that I am always walking around preparing for and reacting to the horrors of what my brain is making up, living as if every potential terror and every defeat were already happening--­because in my mind, it always is. I think if I could just create a series of characters to enact all the heinous possibilities my brain manufactures to insulate me from joy, then I would be using my creativity in a safer way. I see maybe an animated series or perhaps several epic paintings, large canvases. I'm talking the whole wall of the gallery big. I don't like animation and I'm not a painter. All I can do is imagine these horrors and share them with you. I sat in my seat powerless, waiting for the plunge. I was squinting hard and clutching the armrests when I felt a tap on my shoulder. I opened my eyes to see the entire flight crew standing over me. The one who seemed to be the leader, a hard-­looking woman, asked, "Are you all right, sir? Do you need medical attention?" The kind flight attendant had betrayed me and now stood behind the monster in an apron who was interrogating me. I wondered how I became the problem. If they only knew what was about to happen they would be thanking me for being the one person perceptive enough to see it. I was actually hoping that we'd lurch into a sudden descent at that moment. I was hoping that they would all go flying toward the back of the plane, screaming and thumping along the ceiling. Then they'd know I was right. Excerpted from Attempting Normal by Marc Maron All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.