What my mother gave me Thirty-one women on the gifts that mattered most

Elizabeth Benedict

Book - 2013

Essays by women of gifts from their mothers that has touched her to the bone and served as a model, a metaphor, or a touchstone in her own life. Individually, the stories get to the heart of their mother-daughter relationship. Collectively, the pieces have a force that feels as elemental as the tides.

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Published
Chapel Hill, NC : Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill 2013.
Edition
1st ed
Language
English
Physical Description
xii, 289 p. ; 21 cm
ISBN
9781616201357
1616201355
Other Authors
Elizabeth Benedict (-)
  • Heart's desire / Roxana Robinson
  • The missing photograph / Caroline Leavitt
  • Mess up your mind / Maud Newton
  • My disquieting muse / Jean Hanff Korelitz
  • The unicorn princess / Katha Pollitt
  • White Christmas / Ann Hood
  • My mother's armor / Margo Jefferson
  • Three-hour tour / Emma Straub
  • The circle line / Mary Gordon
  • The gift twice given / Judith Hillman Paterson
  • The last happy day of her life / Cheryl Pearl Sucher
  • Never too late / Abigail Pogrebin
  • The broken vase / Reverend Lillian Daniel
  • The wok / Cecilia Muńoz
  • How they do it in France / Elissa Shappell
  • White gloves and party manners / Karen Karbo
  • Her favorite neutral / Charlotte Silver
  • Right at my fingertips / Rita Dove
  • Midnight typing / Luanne Rice
  • Julia's child / Elinor Lipman
  • The deal / Martha McPhee
  • The plant whisperer / Dahlia Lithwick
  • Wait till you see what I found for you / Mameve Medwed
  • Truths in a ring / Susan Stamberg
  • Quilts / Joyce Carol Oates
  • Finding the love child / Sheila Kohler
  • Betrayal / Marge Piercy
  • The silver in the salt air / Eleanor Clift
  • She gave me the world / Mary Morris
  • A thousand words a day and one charming note / Lisa See
  • Then there must be a story / Elizabeth Benedict.
Review by Publishers Weekly Reviews

In this moving collection edited by novelist Benedict (Almost), 31 notable women, including award-winning poets and novelists, examine their relationships with their mothers. Some celebrate the relationship, as with Cecilia Munoz in "The Wok." Others seek to understand why their experience was not the stuff of fairy tales, as with Sheila Kohler's "Love Child." Others celebrate the quirkiness of their mothers, as with Elinor Lipman's charming essay, "Julia's Child," about her mother's extreme dislike of condiments. Lisa See writes movingly of following in her mother's footsteps as a writer in "A Thousand Words a Day and One Charming Note," while Charlotte Silver revels in her exuberant mother's ability to use fashion as personal expression in "Her Favorite Neutral." And sadly, others seek to overcome the pain of loss, as in Judith Hillman Paterson's "The Gift Twice Given," Joyce Carol Oates's "Quilts," and Karen Karbo's "White Gloves and Party Manners." Each essay is beautifully crafted, and editor Benedict provides the perfect balance of emotions. For anyone trying to understand mother-daughter relationships, this collection provides the answer. Agent: Gail Hochman, Brandt & Hochman. (Apr.) [Page ]. Copyright 2012 PWxyz LLC

Review by Publisher Summary 1

Presents a collection of essays in which daughters remember their relationships with their mothers and the complicated bonds they shared with them, symbolized by gifts or memories of emotional encounters.

Review by Publisher Summary 2

In What My Mother Gave Me, women look at the relationships between mothers and daughters through a new lens: a daughter's story of a gift from her mother that has touched her to the bone and served as a model, a metaphor, or a touchstone in her own life. The contributors of these thirty-one original pieces include Pulitzer Prize winners, perennial bestselling novelists, and celebrated broadcast journalists.Whether a gift was meant to keep a daughter warm, put a roof over her head, instruct her in the ways of womanhood, encourage her talents, or just remind her of a mother's love, each story gets to the heart of a relationship. Rita Dove remembers the box of nail polish that inspired her to paint her nails in the wild stripes and polka dots she wears to this day. Lisa See writes about the gift of writing from her mother, Carolyn See. Cecilia Muñoz remembers both the wok her mother gave her and a lifetime of home-cooked family meals. Judith Hillman Paterson revisits the year of sobriety her mother bequeathed to her when Paterson was nine, the year before her mother died of alcoholism. Abigail Pogrebin writes about her middle-aged bat mitzvah, for which her mother provided flowers after a lifetime of guilt for skipping her daughter's religious education. Margo Jefferson writes about her mother's gold dress from the posh department store where they could finally shop as black women. Collectively, the pieces have a force that feels as elemental as the tides: outpourings of lightness and darkness; joy and grief; mother love and daughter love; mother love and daughter rage. In these stirring words we find that every gift, ?no matter how modest, tells the story of a powerful bond. As Elizabeth Benedict points out in her introduction, 'whether we are mothers, daughters, aunts, sisters, or cherished friends, we may not know for quite some time which presents will matter the most."