The user's guide to the human mind Why our brains make us unhappy, anxious, and neurotic and what we can do about it
Book - 2011
"The User's Guide to the Human Mind is a road map to the puzzling inner workings of the human mind, replete with exercises for overriding the mind's natural impulses toward worry, self-criticism, and fear, and helpful tips for acting in the service of your values and emotional well-being--even when your mind has other plans."--P. [4] of cover.
- Subjects
- Published
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Oakland, CA :
New Harbinger Publications
[2011]
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Physical Description
- vii, 201 pages ; 21 cm
- Bibliography
- Includes bibliographical references.
- ISBN
- 9781608820528
- Acknowledgments
- Introduction
- What This Book Is About
- Part 1. The Worry Machine
- 1. Protection at a Price
- Luke's Struggle
- My Mind, My Bodyguard
- The Argument Trap
- The Paradox of Thought Suppression
- 2. A Day in the Life of a Mind
- What Is the Mind?
- Why the Mind Worries
- How the Mind Speaks
- Anxiety and Depression: Ancient Tools for Modern Times
- The Mind Is Always Rational, from a Certain Point of View
- 3. Letting the Mind Do Its Job
- From the Mind's Point of View, Survival Matters Most
- Thoughts Are Not Facts
- Observing Your Thoughts
- Observing Your Emotions
- Part 2.
- Happiness Is Not Your Mind's Job
- 4. How the Mind Uses History
- How Penelope Lost Track of Her Values
- The Past Is Not the Problem
- The Mind's False Dilemmas
- 5. The Mind's Skewed View and Biased Memories
- What the Mind Fears and How It Responds
- The Survival Value of Biased Recall
- How the Mind Makes Rules to Keep Us Safe
- 6. Values and Action
- Training the Mind to Tolerate the Pursuit of Values
- The Higher Mind
- Finding Your Values
- Control Your Life, Not Your Mind
- The Trap of Waiting for Thoughts and Feelings to Change
- Take Your Mind with You on the Road to Valued Living
- Part 3. Four Ways Our Minds Coerce Us-and What We Can Do About Them
- 7. That Was Then and This Is Then
- What Meg Doesn't Know About Andy
- Why Our Minds Rely on History
- 8. Trump Cards and Double Standards
- Trump Cards
- Responding to Trump Cards
- Double Standards
- Staying Observant and Maintaining Distance
- 9. Pessimistic Thinking
- It Isn't Pessimism-It's Error Management
- Pessimism: The Ancient Cure for Modern Times
- Living with a Pessimistic Mind
- 10. Quick Fixes
- How the Mind Competes with Itself
- Breaking the Quick-Fix Habit
- Managing the Drive for Quick Fixes
- Part 4. Mood, Lifestyle, and Psychological Flexibility
- 11. Welcome to Your State of Mind
- Mallory's Mood
- Don't Trust Every Mood You Meet
- My Mind Might Be Wrong
- Opposite Action: Moving Toward Values
- To Medicate or Not to Medicate?
- 12. Mind the Basics
- How Healthy Habits Insulate Us from the Mind
- One Final Exercise: Increasing Psychological Flexibility for a Lifetime
- References