When you're falling, dive Lessons in the art of living

Mark Matousek

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Published
New York, NY : Bloomsbury : distributed to the trade by Macmillan 2008.
Language
English
Main Author
Mark Matousek (-)
Edition
1st U.S. ed
Physical Description
306 p. ; 22 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9781596913691
  • Magical thinking
  • The roar of freedom
  • The day of laughter
  • Om mani padme hum
  • Dragons at the gate
  • Superman's ghost
  • Home in the world
  • The art of losing
  • A quarter inch from heaven
  • The girl on the rock
  • Going to Tahit (or raising heaven)
  • The net of Indra
  • Reinventing your wife
  • Man thinks, God laughs
  • Praying
  • Demon lovers
  • Questioning (or the sphinx)
  • Je m'en foutisme
  • The terrorists within
  • Earth angel
  • The end of seeking (or Dig in one place)
  • Something else is also true
  • Pain passes, but the beauty remains
  • Hedonics
  • Invisible feast
  • Original blessing
  • Enough
  • Stress matters
  • The wounded healer
  • True confessions
  • Prometheus
  • Found art
  • Through wilderness
  • A splinter of love
  • Nakedness
  • Killing Peter Pan
  • The water or the wave?
  • What time is good for
  • At sea
  • The mother (or Aloha oy)
  • Rope burn
  • What makes the engine go?.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Memoirist and editor Matousek (Sex Death Enlightenment) attempts to dissect the relationship between life's harshest tests and the gift of self-discovery and survival in this absorbing compendium of anecdotes. The author, who has AIDS, interviews many survivors of trauma and loss, including writer Joan Didion, mystic Andrew Harvey, poet Stanley Kunitz and Tibetan nun Nawang Sangdrol, among others, to inquire how deepest crisis forces us to re-examine our lives and move forward. After stating that "Transformation is in our wiring," Matousek concludes that the key to our survival is not cheating death but living as passionately, creatively and courageously as possible. Using scientific data, psychological research and his own life experiences, he uncovers the essentials of enduring against all odds while answering his chief question: "What force flips a falling person back on his feet, reconstitutes him after disaster, helps him prevail in the face of great challenges?" Matousek shows an uncanny skill for merging spirituality, science and common sense into practical answers for surviving our own lives. (July) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved

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Review by Library Journal Review

Journalist and memoirist Matousek follows his 1996 memoir, Sex Death Enlightenment, with an exploration of viriditas, the phenomenon of drawing passion, beauty, and wisdom from unlikely sources. AIDS sets the stage for the author's inquiry into the resiliency some people display when faced with tragedy and trauma. Each chapter is an anecdote, or parable, about a person's survivoring (most of those interviewed are well known, e.g., Joan Didion, Ram Dass, and Stanley Kunitz). The attempt to thread the stories into a cohesive narrative rope is hampered by their sheer emotion, creating an odd offering that may not comfort. The subjects inspire and may teach by example, but there are no easy answers or self-help style checklists here. Matousek's elevated vocabulary and intrusive voice and persona jar. Consider where similar titles are in demand, e.g., Betty Rollin's cancer survivor-themed Here's the Bright Side, Jeanne Elizabeth Sexson's woman-focused Down but Not Out, or David Wolpe's uplifting Making Loss Matter. This title may be useful in an academic setting supporting post-traumatic and grief coursework and would make a good book-discussion selection. An optional purchase for public and academic libraries.--Shawna Thorup, Fayetteville P.L., AR (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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