Intimacy after infidelity : how to rebuild and affair-proof your marriage

Intimacy after infidelity How to rebuild and affair-proof your marriage

Steven D. Solomon

Book - 2006

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Subjects
Adultery.
Marriage.
Man-woman relationships.
Non-consensual non-monogamy.
Non-monogamy.
Published
Oakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications 2006.
Language
English
Main Author
Steven D. Solomon (-)
Other Authors
Lorie J. Teagno (-)
Physical Description
x, 191 pages ; 23 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (page [191]).
ISBN
9781572244610
  • Acknowledgments
  • Introduction: The shock of discovery
  • Chapter 1. Now what do I do?
  • Chapter 2. Companions on this journey: couples who have been there
  • Chapter 3. The stages of love: why he betrayed you when he did
  • Chapter 4. The three intimacies: the building blocks of a relationship
  • Chapter 5. Self-intimacy: the bedrock of the relationship
  • Chapter 6. Conflict intimacy: the cornerstone of relationship resiliency
  • Chapter 7. Affection intimacy: the foundation of your relationship
  • Chapter 8. The three infidelities: understanding what made your partner stray
  • Chapter 9. Infidelity of fear: running away from old pain
  • Chapter 10. Infidelity of loneliness: running toward a sense of awakening
  • Chapter 11. Infidelity of anger: running for revenge
  • Chapter 12. Healing your relationship: instructions for both of you
  • Chapter 13. Loving with security: making your relationship infidelity-safe
  • Appendix a. The emotional self-awareness (esa) exercise
  • Appendix b. The initiator-inquirer (I-to-I) exercise guidelines
  • Appendix c. The I-to-I maturity goals handout
  • Appendix d. A brief list of emotions
  • Resources
  • References
Review by Library Journal Review

This much-needed book by two licensed clinical psychologists empathetically guides readers through a partner's infidelity. Using case studies and sound psychological concepts, Solomon and Teagno detail the reasons why long-term love relationships (LTLR) succeed or fail, what causes infidelity, and how to build a true LTLR, should that be in everyone's best interest. The authors describe the three intimacies necessary in an LTLRAself-intimacy, conflict intimacy, and affection intimacyAas well as the three emotions that cause infidelityAfear, loneliness, and anger. Appendixes contain exercises to facilitate emotional self-awareness and communication. Invaluable to those suffering from betrayal and wondering where to turn; highly recommended for all public libraries. (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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