Get out of your own way at work-- and help others do the same Conquer self-defeating behavior on the job

Mark Goulston

Book - 2005

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

This follow-up to 1996?s Get Out of Your Own Way diagnoses 40 business situations in which workers exhibit symptoms of self-defeating behavior, from ?Not Being Able to Take No for an Answer? and ?Being Competent but Out of Touch? to ?Not Delegating? and ?Assuming Others Understand You.? Goulston?s focus, however, is not on workplace effectiveness but on ?earning self-esteem?and its twin sister, success.? He devotes a chapter to each workplace issue: first, highlighting a case study that refers to a client from his consulting practice or, tangentially, to one of his hospital patients and, then, explaining how to remedy the behavior. In addition, each chapter is topped off with an aphoristic ?Usable Insight? and a to-do list of ?Action Steps.? People are inclined to commit ?hari-kari at work,? Goulston says, because of ?fearful aggression? and ?fearful avoidance,? two traits that he traces back to humans? ?early-neural, unthinking, animal nature.? While his insights are pedestrian?his advice can be boiled down to ?be more self-aware??the structure of the book makes it easy to cherry pick chapters that may apply to you. (Oct. 6) Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.


Review by Library Journal Review

Do you find yourself getting defensive or not listening? Do you set your expectations too low? Psychiatrist Goulston (Six Secrets of a Lasting Relationship) draws on his counseling experiences to help readers identify 40 common behaviors that hinder their own job performance and careers as well as those of the people they manage. For each behavior, the author outlines the problem with real-world illustrations and offers action steps for changing it. "People pleasing" and "expecting your boss to appreciate you" sound perfectly human. But Goulston shows how these behaviors get folks into trouble in the workplace.; he offers more positive approaches. Recommended for public library business collections. (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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