- Subjects
- Published
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San Francisco :
Cleis Press
c2004.
- Language
- English
- Main Author
- Edition
- 2nd ed
- Item Description
- "Revised and expanded second edition"--Cover.
- Physical Description
- xix, 376 p. : ill
- Bibliography
- Includes bibliographical references and index.
- ISBN
- 9781573441995
- Illustrations
- Preface to the Second Edition
- Introduction
- Chapter 1. Welcome
- Chapter 2. Desire and Fantasy
- What's Your Fetish?
- Run Wild
- Make Your Dreams Come True
- Nurture Your Libido
- Sex + Intimacy
- Fantasy
- Lesbian Porn
- Chapter 3. Anatomy and Sexual Response
- Anatomy
- Sexual Response
- Sexual Response over a Lifetime
- Chapter 4. Orgasm
- This Is Taking Too Long
- If You Can't Have an Orgasm
- Does Viagra Work for Women?
- How Do You Come?
- Getting Her Off
- Multiple Orgasms
- Tantra and Extended Orgasms
- Ejaculation
- Chapter 5. The Road to Heaven Leads to You
- A Love/Hate Relationship
- Take a Good Look
- Appreciate Yourself
- Take It In
- Join the Crowd
- Get Into Your Body
- Somatic Healing
- You Are What You Eat
- Get a Pelvic Exam
- Safer Sex, Please
- Be Present
- Life Changes
- Chapter 6. Masturbation
- What Will Masturbation Do for You?
- The Masturbation Workshop Adventure
- Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
- How-To's of Masturbation
- Solo Toys
- Erotica and Fantasy
- How-To's of Orgasm
- Masturbating with a Partner
- Chapter 7. Communication and Finding Sex Partners
- Geography, Not Destiny
- Talk Talk Talk
- Tongue-Tied?
- Who Are You Looking For?
- Making Your Move
- "No, Thank You"
- Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines
- Sex on the Internet
- Play Safe
- Sex Parties
- Sex Talk Guidelines
- Where to Learn More
- Chapter 8. Sex and Partnership
- Erotic Intimacy
- What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway?
- What Kind of Partnership Do You Want?
- You Make It Happen
- What's Holding You Back?
- Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido
- What? No Sex?
- Find Your Passion
- Sexual Community
- Keep It Happening
- Chapter 9. Breast Play
- Sensitivity
- Teach Your Partner
- How-To's of Breast Play
- Nipple Piercings
- Toys for Breast Play
- Chapter 10. Clitoral Play
- The Art of the Hand
- Take a Tour
- What If Your Hand Gets Tired?
- Frottage
- How-To's of Clitoral Stimulation
- Genital Piercings
- Genital Shaving
- How-To's of Genital Shaving
- Toys for Clitoral Play
- Clitoral Play-Safely
- Where to Learn More
- Chapter 11. Oral Sex
- Cunnilingus
- Going Down on Your Girl
- How-To's of Cunnilingus
- Analingus
- How-To's of Analingus
- Positions for Oral Sex
- What a Pain in the Neck!
- (Detachable) Cocksucking
- How to Suck (Detachable) Cock
- Oral Sex-Safely
- So What's a Girl to Do?
- Chapter 12. Vaginal Penetration
- Take a Tour
- Finger-Fucking
- Vaginal Fisting
- Strap-On Dildos
- How-To's of Vaginal Penetration
- Positions for Vaginal Penetration
- Toys for Vaginal Play
- Vaginal Penetration-Safely
- Where to Learn More
- Chapter 13. Anal Penetration
- Take a Tour
- Basic Preparations
- Finger-Fucking
- Anal Fisting
- Strap-On Dildos
- How-To's of Anal Penetration
- Positions for Anal Penetration
- Toys for Anal Penetration
- Anal Penetration-Safely
- Where to Learn More
- Chapter 14. Gender (Not Destiny)
- What Is Gender?
- Intersexuality
- Transgender and Transsexual
- Partners of Transgendered Women and Men
- Sexual Orientation
- Playing with the Boys
- Butch/Femme
- Chapter 15. Play Nice! (...or Else)
- Ouch!!! (Yum...)
- Negotiation
- Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater
- Pushing the Emotional Edges
- Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
- How Do You Know What You Want?
- Toys for BDSM Play
- That Sounds Dangerous!
- BDSM Play-Safely
- Where to Learn More
- Chapter 16. Play Parties and Public Sex
- Commercial Sex
- Play Parties
- How to Have Fun at a Sex Party
- Where to Find Play Parties
- Play Party Etiquette
- How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party
- Chapter 17. Sex Toys and Accoutrements
- How to Choose Sex Toys
- Got Your Lube?
- Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies?
- Does Latex Make You Itch?
- How's Your Budget?
- How to Care for Your Toys
- Chapter 18. Safer Sex and Gynecological Health
- Talking to Your Doctor About Sex
- Gynecological Care
- STDs and Gynecological Concerns
- What If Your Partner Won't Use Barriers?
- What If You Have an STD?
- Chapter 19. Bibliography
- Chapter 20. Resources
- Notes
- Index
- About the Author