The whole lesbian sex book A passionate guide for all of us

Felice Newman

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Subjects
Published
San Francisco : Cleis Press c2004.
Language
English
Main Author
Felice Newman (-)
Edition
2nd ed
Item Description
"Revised and expanded second edition"--Cover.
Physical Description
xix, 376 p. : ill
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN
9781573441995
  • Illustrations
  • Preface to the Second Edition
  • Introduction
  • Chapter 1. Welcome
  • Chapter 2. Desire and Fantasy
  • What's Your Fetish?
  • Run Wild
  • Make Your Dreams Come True
  • Nurture Your Libido
  • Sex + Intimacy
  • Fantasy
  • Lesbian Porn
  • Chapter 3. Anatomy and Sexual Response
  • Anatomy
  • Sexual Response
  • Sexual Response over a Lifetime
  • Chapter 4. Orgasm
  • This Is Taking Too Long
  • If You Can't Have an Orgasm
  • Does Viagra Work for Women?
  • How Do You Come?
  • Getting Her Off
  • Multiple Orgasms
  • Tantra and Extended Orgasms
  • Ejaculation
  • Chapter 5. The Road to Heaven Leads to You
  • A Love/Hate Relationship
  • Take a Good Look
  • Appreciate Yourself
  • Take It In
  • Join the Crowd
  • Get Into Your Body
  • Somatic Healing
  • You Are What You Eat
  • Get a Pelvic Exam
  • Safer Sex, Please
  • Be Present
  • Life Changes
  • Chapter 6. Masturbation
  • What Will Masturbation Do for You?
  • The Masturbation Workshop Adventure
  • Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
  • How-To's of Masturbation
  • Solo Toys
  • Erotica and Fantasy
  • How-To's of Orgasm
  • Masturbating with a Partner
  • Chapter 7. Communication and Finding Sex Partners
  • Geography, Not Destiny
  • Talk Talk Talk
  • Tongue-Tied?
  • Who Are You Looking For?
  • Making Your Move
  • "No, Thank You"
  • Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines
  • Sex on the Internet
  • Play Safe
  • Sex Parties
  • Sex Talk Guidelines
  • Where to Learn More
  • Chapter 8. Sex and Partnership
  • Erotic Intimacy
  • What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway?
  • What Kind of Partnership Do You Want?
  • You Make It Happen
  • What's Holding You Back?
  • Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido
  • What? No Sex?
  • Find Your Passion
  • Sexual Community
  • Keep It Happening
  • Chapter 9. Breast Play
  • Sensitivity
  • Teach Your Partner
  • How-To's of Breast Play
  • Nipple Piercings
  • Toys for Breast Play
  • Chapter 10. Clitoral Play
  • The Art of the Hand
  • Take a Tour
  • What If Your Hand Gets Tired?
  • Frottage
  • How-To's of Clitoral Stimulation
  • Genital Piercings
  • Genital Shaving
  • How-To's of Genital Shaving
  • Toys for Clitoral Play
  • Clitoral Play-Safely
  • Where to Learn More
  • Chapter 11. Oral Sex
  • Cunnilingus
  • Going Down on Your Girl
  • How-To's of Cunnilingus
  • Analingus
  • How-To's of Analingus
  • Positions for Oral Sex
  • What a Pain in the Neck!
  • (Detachable) Cocksucking
  • How to Suck (Detachable) Cock
  • Oral Sex-Safely
  • So What's a Girl to Do?
  • Chapter 12. Vaginal Penetration
  • Take a Tour
  • Finger-Fucking
  • Vaginal Fisting
  • Strap-On Dildos
  • How-To's of Vaginal Penetration
  • Positions for Vaginal Penetration
  • Toys for Vaginal Play
  • Vaginal Penetration-Safely
  • Where to Learn More
  • Chapter 13. Anal Penetration
  • Take a Tour
  • Basic Preparations
  • Finger-Fucking
  • Anal Fisting
  • Strap-On Dildos
  • How-To's of Anal Penetration
  • Positions for Anal Penetration
  • Toys for Anal Penetration
  • Anal Penetration-Safely
  • Where to Learn More
  • Chapter 14. Gender (Not Destiny)
  • What Is Gender?
  • Intersexuality
  • Transgender and Transsexual
  • Partners of Transgendered Women and Men
  • Sexual Orientation
  • Playing with the Boys
  • Butch/Femme
  • Chapter 15. Play Nice! (...or Else)
  • Ouch!!! (Yum...)
  • Negotiation
  • Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater
  • Pushing the Emotional Edges
  • Teach Yourself Some New Tricks
  • How Do You Know What You Want?
  • Toys for BDSM Play
  • That Sounds Dangerous!
  • BDSM Play-Safely
  • Where to Learn More
  • Chapter 16. Play Parties and Public Sex
  • Commercial Sex
  • Play Parties
  • How to Have Fun at a Sex Party
  • Where to Find Play Parties
  • Play Party Etiquette
  • How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party
  • Chapter 17. Sex Toys and Accoutrements
  • How to Choose Sex Toys
  • Got Your Lube?
  • Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies?
  • Does Latex Make You Itch?
  • How's Your Budget?
  • How to Care for Your Toys
  • Chapter 18. Safer Sex and Gynecological Health
  • Talking to Your Doctor About Sex
  • Gynecological Care
  • STDs and Gynecological Concerns
  • What If Your Partner Won't Use Barriers?
  • What If You Have an STD?
  • Chapter 19. Bibliography
  • Chapter 20. Resources
  • Notes
  • Index
  • About the Author
Review by Library Journal Review

In this second edition of her lesbian sex manual (the first was released in 2000), Newman, founding publisher of Cleis Press, covers oral, manual, anal, and insertive-vaginal techniques with loving care. She includes a whole chapter on breast play, addresses safety in each section as well as in a separate chapter, and even discusses transgender and bisexuality issues, masturbation, S/M, sex parties, and sex toys while giving equal attention to monogamous and polyamorous sex styles. The text expands the orgasm section to a full chapter, includes an additional chapter on sex and partnership, and updates other sections, especially those on health (including how to talk to your physician), sexual response, sex toys, and communicating about sex. The excellent bibliography and resources sections have also been updated; detailed source notes and an index complete the package. This comprehensive and superbly competent manual sets a standard for which all popular sex writers should aim. Not just for lesbians-heterosexual women could learn a great deal about themselves, as could the men who aspire to please them-this is highly recommended for all collections.-Martha Cornog, Philadelphia (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

(c) Copyright Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.