What's the big secret? Talking about sex with girls and boys

Laurene Krasny Brown

Book - 1997

Answers some of the most common questions about sex and development.

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Published
Boston : Lttle, Brown and Co 1997.
Language
English
Main Author
Laurene Krasny Brown (-)
Other Authors
Marc Tolon Brown (-)
Edition
1st ed
Physical Description
32 p. : ill
ISBN
9780316109154
  • How Do Boys and Girls Differ?
  • Names
  • Clothes
  • Hair
  • Playing
  • Feelings
  • Bodies: A Little Anatomy Lesson
  • Using the Toilet
  • More About Girls' and Boys' Bodies
  • Talking
  • Looking
  • Touching
  • Being Touched
  • Why Boys and Girls Differ A Little Lesson in Reproduction
  • Starting a Baby
  • Growing a Baby
  • Awaiting a Baby
  • Having a Birth Day! (or Belly Button Day!)
  • What Now?
Review by Booklist Review

Gr. 2^-4. The husband and wife creators of Dinosaurs Divorce (1986) and last year's When Dinosaurs Die tackle yet another potentially thorny issue that parents and children need to deal with together. Here the picture book's subject is sex and sexuality: not simply physical differences but also gender roles, the issue of privacy, and reproduction. The fact that this book covers so much is both a strength and a weakness. Most of these subjects have been treated individually elsewhere and in more detail: Joanna Cole's How You Were Born (1993) and Lennart Nilsson's How Was I Born? (1994), both illustrated with photographs, are fine introductions to childbirth and pregnancy for this age group, and Cornelia Spelman's recent Your Body Belongs to You [BKL S 1 97] is a solid discussion of issues related to abuse. But the Browns do an outstanding and very responsible job of introducing a wide variety of terms (everything from the expected, umbilical cord, to the unexpected, masturbation, which is handled with honesty but restraint), synthesizing a great deal of information kids want to know at this age, and presenting facts in a nonthreatening but forthright context. They even manage a good deal of humor along the way. As in other books by this team, the words and illustrations work extremely well together, with the busy, bright cartoon art and balloon dialogue conveying as much of the information as the text. For example, facing pages present an "anatomy lesson," clearly labeling the penis and the breasts on children's bodies. On another page, a naked, pregnant woman is shown, with a labeled cutaway view of the child she carries. But what really distinguishes this book the most is its candor and the genuine feeling of warmth it conveys. The telling feels natural, and in the Browns' able hands, the subject doesn't come across as a "big secret" at all. --Stephanie Zvirin

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Using straight text as well as cartoons including dialogue balloons, this "chatty yet frank" book, according to PW, "will put young readers--and their parents--totally at ease." Ages 4-8. (Apr.) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved

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Review by School Library Journal Review

PreS-Gr 3‘How can you tell a boy from a girl? What are the proper terms for genitalia? How do you make a baby? Where does a belly button come from? The Browns answer these and similar questions in an honest, but superficial way that will satisfy some youngsters, but leave others with many questions unanswered. Overly detailed for younger children and too incomplete for those nearing puberty, this information will be most useful as a bridge between books meant for preschoolers describing birth and those that tackle the process of maturation, sexuality, and the responsibilities and choices that come with growing up. The illustrations are excellent: colorful and cartoonlike, yet clear in their representation of human anatomy in both internal and external views. The layout and cover design will attract youngsters and their familiarity with this author/illustrator team will also add to its appeal. The greatest value of this work, however, will be in promoting dialogue between caregivers and children, especially if they read it together, but adults should be prepared to field many ancillary questions not covered in the text.‘Melissa Gross, Beverly Hills Public Library, CA (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Horn Book Review

(Younger) A folklike story set in China tells of Mi Fei, an artist who skillfully paints the stories of gods and heroes on paper scrolls while living simply in his village, surrounded by loving neighbors. When alarming news comes that a great dragon has awakened from its hundred-years' sleep and is destroying the countryside, Mi Fei, at the villagers' behest, takes his scrolls and paints and journeys to the dragon's mountain. There, he encounters the fiery breath and lashing tail of the terrifying creature and learns that before the dragon can return to his slumber, someone must perform three tasks, or be devoured. Mi Fei is frightened, but clever, and he uses his beloved scrolls and his love for the people of his village to successfully complete the tasks. In the end, the gigantic dragon fades away until all that remains is a small paper version of himself. In an extraordinary feat of artistry, Sabuda uses the triple-page gate-fold illustrations both to relate the story in the style of Chinese scrolls and to capture the drama of the confrontation between the gentle artist and the awe-inspiring dragon. Each picture is cut from painted tissue paper created by Sabuda and placed on a background of handmade Japanese paper. The combination of the ever-increasing size of the dragon (climaxing in a picture of his teeth framing an entire spread) and the cleverness of Mi Fei creates a strong tale with plenty of action for the story-hour audience. h.b.z. Bob Graham Queenie, One of the Family; illus. by the author (Preschool, Younger) This warm family story begins on the opening endpapers as a bantam hen stands at the edge of a soft blue lake. Baby Caitlin and her mom and dad, walking in the countryside, soon spot the hen floundering in the lake, and Dad leaps in for a daring rescue. They warm the hen and bring her home, and "that might have been the end of the story...but it wasn't!" The hen, dubbed Queenie, soon becomes one of the family, taking over the dog's basket and witnessing Caitlin's first steps. But Caitlin's mom knows Queenie has another home, so the whole family sets off to return her to a nearby farm. "That might have been the end of the story...but it wasn't." Queenie returns each morning to lay a perfect brown egg in Bruno's basket, just right for Caitlin's breakfast or for baking a birthday cake. When a new baby arrives and Caitlin forgets to collect the eggs, Bruno hatches a litter of chicks. The immensely appealing animals and people are depicted in gentle watercolors with loose, comfortable lines. Th (c) Copyright 2010. The Horn Book, Inc., a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A well-intentioned but less than satisfactory picture book on sex education for primary-grade children, from the team behind Dinosaurs Die (1996), and other guides. In simple words and drawings, the book covers anatomical differences (both external and internal) between boys and girls; rudimentary facts about sexual behavior (including masturbation), pregnancy, and birth; and information about ``good'' touching and ``bad'' touching. Set on a nearly impossible course, the book errs by providing both too much information and too little. Certain structures (e.g., clitoris, seminal vesicles, foreskin) are mentioned in the text or shown in diagrams with no further explanation. Intercourse is defined as ``when a man and woman fit his penis into her vagina,'' but the diagrams of the male and female organs make such a ``fit'' inconceivable. That sperm and egg meet during intercourse is clear, but ejaculation and the motility of sperm are not mentioned, possibly giving rise to some alarming speculations about the mechanics of coitus. In the section about ``bad touch'' the child is advised to ``speak up and tell him or her to stop. If that doesn't work, tell your mom or dad or another grown-up.'' A responsible adult should be informed of any inappropriate touching. The laudable ambition--to make it easier for parents to talk with their children--is only partially realized. (Picture book/nonfiction. 5-8)

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