So when are you having kids? The definitive guide for those who aren't sure if, when, or how they want to become parents

Those searching for information on parenthood will find many guides to pregnancy, childbirth, and raising children; but for those who are thinking about whether or not to become parents, or how and when to do it, there is very little information. Health journalist Davidson fills that need with this comprehensive guide addressing just about every concern a prospective parent might have. She pairs exhaustive research and expert opinions with dozens of personal stories from a wide variety of parents. Discussions include the demands and rewards of parenthood, financial considerations, concerns about genetic diseases and disorders, and the risks of pregnancy and childbirth. Fertility and the grief of infertility are discussed, along with alternative paths to parenthood, including opting for a child-free life.The book is notable for its inclusivity--women, men, and nonbinary people; same-sex couples and single parents will all see themselves and their experiences reflected here. This practical, authoritative guide will be welcomed by the many people who need support as they navigate one of the most important decisions of their lives.

Davidson (founder, Endo Warriors) fills a gap for readers who are struggling to decide whether to ever become parents. At age 24, the author was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. Along with her thousands of dollars in student loan debt, it prompted her to ponder whether she could have children, as she struggled with depression, made dietary changes, and visited a therapist and a fertility specialist. Here she addresses her own concerns about parenthood and those of people she calls "Delayers," "Debaters," and "Decliners"--concerns like mental illness, health conditions, and even climate change--and offers extensive guidance on deciding whether to have children. Davidson pays particular attention to the obstacles to parenthood faced by queer people, like high costs to conceive and heteronormative parenting ideals). She also notes that Black prospective parents often must deal with particular racist discrimination, especially if they become parents at a young age or are single parents. VERDICT An exhaustive resource to fill a void of books about parenthood decisions.