Empty the pews Stories of leaving the church

Book - 2019

This anthology collects original and previously published pieces about leaving Christianity. Examining the intersections of queerness, spiritual abuse, loss of faith, and the courage needed to leave one's religious community, these two social critics use a diverse collection of personal essays by apostates and survivors of religious trauma to boldly address the individual experiences and systemic dysfunction so common in conservative churches.

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Subjects
Genres
Essays
Case studies
Anecdotes
Published
Indianapolis, Indiana : Epiphany Publishing [2019]
Language
English
Physical Description
xxvi, 282 pages ; 23 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN
9781946093073
  • Purity culture, sexuality, and queerness
  • Focusing on the family
  • Trauma and abuse in Christian contexts
  • American Christianity, diasporas, and missions
  • Intellectual odysseys.
Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Stroop and O'Neal, both former Christians, deliver a collection of essays about losing faith, begun with the Twitter hashtag #EmptyThePews, which created a groundswell of response from those who had left Christianity. Though the pieces address American Christianity and are weighted towards conservative evangelical Protestants, the essays feature diverse viewpoints within that scope. In "Now Defunct," Stroop writes of a surreal teenage mission trip to Russia in 1999 that made her rethink her faith. In "Saint Tornado-Kick" Peter Counter explores the stifling Catholic schools of his youth and the moment he lost faith, during a robbery in Costa Rica. Some themes are repeated--discovering and embracing queerness, feeling out of place, questions of theodicy--and others are explicitly addressed in section headings, such as "Trauma and Abuse in Christian Contexts," in which Mel Wells offers a gripping account of the complicated, abusive relationship he had with his Mormon stepfather in "Burden of Proof." While some entries are overly brief or serve as just-the-facts recitations with little reflection, many others, such as Carmen Maria Machado's story of a toxic friendship with a youth pastor, "A Girl's Guide to Sexual Purity," stand out for their lyricism and lucid introspection. This collection serves as an important public testimonial of those who have walked away from religion, and will surely inspire others to tell their stories. (Self-published)

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A timely collection of essays by a diverse group of people who've left the religious right.This Eos Award-winning book features an assortment of written works from men and women who grew up attending fundamentalist and evangelical Christian churches but eventually went their own way. The book should be especially praised for its inclusion of a wide range of perspectives. The authors of the nearly two dozen essays here include multiple New York Times-bestselling writers, popular bloggers, artists, and academics; they include white men, feminists, African Americans, members of the LGBTQ community, Protestants, and Catholics. The book's debut editors are at the vanguard of the bourgeoning "exvangelical" movement on social media; Stoops created the viral Twitter hashtags #EmptyThePews and #ChristianAltFacts, and O'Neal co-hosts the "Sunday School Dropouts" podcast. The book's foreword is by Frank Schaeffer, the son of Francis Schaeffer, an ideological founder of the modern-day religious right and an evangelical icon from the 1970s through the '90s. Each essay addresses what the younger Schaeffer calls America's "generational exodus from toxic Christianity" from the perspective of former members. Although many of the authors here are currently atheists, others found spirituality in Eastern spiritualism or in more liberal interpretations of Christianity. The collection's opening section, "Purity Culture, Sexuality, and Queerness," is perhaps its most damning, featuring the stories of abuse survivors, gay people, and other victims of conservative Christians' sexual repression and hypocrisy. Boy Erased author Garrard Conley's essay, "Land of Plenty," on his endurance of gay "conversion therapy," is particularly poignant. Not all of the essays, though, center on traumatic experiences as the factor that led their authors to leave the church. Peter Counter's contribution, "Saint Tornado-Kick," for example, intriguingly shows the gradual transition of a sincere Catholic teenager away from the faith of his parents after taking up karate lessons. Overall, this is a profound, well-written collection that will appeal not just to "exvangelicals" and other critics of the religious right, but also introspective fundamentalists who seek explanations for their dwindling numbers. An incendiary but profoundly moving deconstruction of conservative Christianity. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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