INTRODUCTION:This Is Our TimeWhat is voice? What empowers women to speak--up, out, boldly, truthfully? And why must women claim a place at the table? These questions are at the heart of Write On, Sisters! , which is also a clarion call to women to write, to speak and be heard, and to recognize the myriad influences--historical, cultural, economic, emotional--at play when it comes to how we express ourselves and allow ourselves to be heard.Women are half the world's population, but we do not have an equal voice in the political arena, when it comes to who gets published, or in journalism, where women are still too often relegated to softer beats. Despite measured gains for women in terms of education and employment, the gender gap--"the difference between women and men as reflected in social, political, intellectual, cultural, or economic attainments or attitudes"--is as wide as it's ever been. In her book Men Explain Things to Me, Rebecca Solnit wrote, "Women fight wars on two fronts, one for whatever the putative topic is, and one simply for the right to speak, to have ideas, to be acknowledged to be in possession of facts and truths, to have value, to be a human being." Women today are fighting as we have historically--for equal representation, for our right to be believed and to be heard and to be read. For our place at the table.It doesn't matter whether you're writing fiction or memoir or poetry or self-help or children's books--the personal is political. This was a rallying slogan from the second-wave feminist movement in the United States, and it's relevant to women writers of all stripes because the political conditions in which we live affect women's voices. Women's voices are at the center of some of our most recent, gripping national firestorms: the #MeToo Movement, Christine Blasey Ford's Senate Judiciary Committee testimony against Brett Kavanaugh, Stormy Daniels's 60 Minutes interview and tell-all book, and much more.Because women are too often silenced, because we recognize the effort to silence and the impact of silencing, we inherently bring personal conviction and values to our writing. Audre Lorde, poet, feminist, and civil rights activist, wrote, "When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak." In her activism, she gave voice to women everywhere, particularly to women of color, who have faced sexism just like their white counterparts, but also racism, stereotyping, undermining, and marginalization of their voices.Writing is self-expression, and as such, when we write we give voice to what we think, what we care about, and who we are. When we read a book--or even a post--we take a walk inside the innermost recesses of the author's mind, welcomed into a place so private that the words we read on the page may be words the author has never uttered aloud. How powerful--and intimate--is that?Author Dani Shapiro has said that voice is courage. As a publisher of women's books and a writing coach who works to support people to express themselves on the page, I often think about this most simple of definitions. So many authors struggle with voice, thinking it's something they have to find or cultivate or grow into. Others cower once they begin a writing project, writing to the wrong audience, tucking their tails between their legs as they abdicate their authority--to the peers they imagine will judge them, the family members they sus- pect will never forgive them, the critics they conjure up in their minds. The very act of curbing what we want to say for fear that it might not land well with others is the first step we take in turning over our power--and women writers do this more than men.I've spent the past two decades working with authors, most of them women. I have enough experience with male authors to be able to compare. Yes, men encounter self-doubt. They worry what others will think. They censor themselves, too. But the degree to which women grapple with their doubts, fears, inner critics, outer judges, and so much more is arresting. It's possible that women just talk about what cripples them more, but I don't think so.The culprit is a little thing called conditioning, which in psychological terms is learning that happens as a result of responses to our actions. The first half of this book examines the four main forms of conditioning that hold women back: historical, cultural, economic, and emotional. As recently as the 1960s and '70s, girls were regularly steered out of intellectually rigorous career choices, encouraged to be secretaries and nurses and assistants. Women who pushed to be part of the conversation were considered uppity, brazen, rude. They still are. Where women's rights are concerned, we're still just emerging from the womb. The #MeToo movement has shed light on a disturbing revelation that most--if not all--women go through life dealing with bouts of feeling emotionally unsafe, walking on eggshells, ignoring or denying their better judgments, feeling as if they have to swallow whatever's dished out, realizing that calling men out for bad behavior will only make them seem as if they're oversensitive or overreacting. Many women still earn less than men, and even those women who have means struggle to prioritize or assert themselves financially when it comes to their creative pursuits.It takes incredible stamina to face these kinds of resistance and keep pushing forward. Women writers experience resistance in spades, in the form of discouragement, of not being given the same opportunities as men, of having to weather the sexism of the writing world, of being systemically silenced. Given that women face these kinds of challenges disproportionately, we have to give ourselves props for our persistence. Yes, we can look to the past to see how much we've overcome. That so many women write, that we express out loud, that we publish our truths, are signs of our resilience and strength--and a repudiation of a system that's worked hard to keep women's voices unheard.Throughout the decades and centuries, the idea that women's stories don't matter has been steadily reinforced. Virginia Woolf started an important cultural conversation--and revolution--in 1929, when she wrote A Room of One's Own, which argued that women must have both means and privacy in order to write. She also concluded that women of her generation and prior had to overcome their circumstances in order to write, given the expectation that they become mothers and tend to the household, not to mention the fact that they suffered from lack of education, money, and privacy.Only in the aftermath of World War II, as women entered the workforce in a meaningful way and began to earn their own money, and then following the women's movement of the 1960s, in which women insisted on being heard in new ways, would we experience a pro- found cultural shift that gave women's voices a more level playing field. Still, the effect of centuries of conditioning people to believe that men's stories matter more is that collectively we believe this notion to be true. This conditioning seeps into our own conscience, manifesting as a sabotaging internal voice that says things like, Why bother? Who do you think you are? Insert whatever worst self-doubt or fear comes to mind. It doesn't matter that your rational brain knows otherwise. It doesn't matter if you came of age in the 1970s during the Free to Be . . . You and Me era. It doesn't matter if you're a second- or postwave feminist who believes in gender equality. It doesn't matter if you've been in therapy your whole life to overcome the multitiered impacts of being suppressed. You still believe that what you have to say-- compared to whatever more authoritative, deserving, qualified, or talented person you're measuring yourself against--matters less. We all do this.This is why it's so important to speak and to write and to use our voices. There's a famous quote from award-winning novelist Toni Morrison that I cite often: "If you find a book you really want to read but it hasn't been written yet, then you must write it," she said at the 1981 meeting of the Ohio Arts Council. I like to think she was talking to the women in the audience when she said this. When we speak and write, we claim our right to have a voice, to have a say, and therefore to have power. This extends all the way to claiming our place at the table, which is an act of confidence and audacity. Claim- ing insists. Claiming demands. Claiming means saying, It's mine and I'm taking it. Women are conditioned not to be this way. We're not supposed to insist or demand or take things without asking--even though men do it all the time. We're supposed to demur, be polite, and wait our turn. Well, enough of that already, because look how far it's gotten us. Any woman who's heard knows there's a cost, but she also knows it's worth it.I have heard from too many women since the 2016 presidential election that they are too distracted to write, too upset to unleash their creative energies, that they're wasting too much time on social media and spinning their wheels. In 2018, in an open letter to a young activist during troubled times, Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés wrote, "What is needed for dramatic change is an accumulation of acts, adding, adding to, adding more, continuing."When we write, we add to. When we speak up, we add more. When we publish our work for others to see and consume--this brilliant and brave act of intimacy-- we continue. So, Sisters, I invite you to read on but also, more important, to write on. This is our time. Excerpted from Write on, Sisters! by Brooke Warner All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. 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