The widow Washington The life of Mary Washington

Martha Saxton

Book - 2019

"Biography of Mary Ball Washington, George Washington's mother. Places her life as an orphan, a young wife in rural Virginia, a slaveholder, a widow, and mother to the first president in the context of the changing economic circumstances and cultural values of colonial Virginia and a young nation"--

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Biographies
Published
New York : Farrar, Straus and Giroux 2019.
Language
English
Main Author
Martha Saxton (author)
Edition
First edition
Physical Description
xix, 360 pages, 8 unnumbered pages of plates : illustrations ; 24 cm
Bibliography
Includes bibliographical references (pages [297]-340) and index.
ISBN
9780809097012
  • Mary Ball Washington: Like Mother, Like Son
  • 1. A Child in the Chesapeake
  • 2. A Generation of Orphans
  • 3. Bruising the Small Spirit
  • 4. Mary, Her Kin, and her Books
  • 5. Mary Ball, Augustine Washington, and Matthew Hale
  • 6. Wife and Mother
  • 7. People and Property at Ferry Farm
  • 8. "As Sparks Fly Upward"
  • 9. The Widow Washington
  • 10. Single Mother
  • 11. Mary's Stewardship: Scraping By
  • 12. Mid-Century: A Wedding, a Murder, a Family Death
  • 13. Mary and George's Seven Years' War
  • 14. Between the Wars: Kin, Consumption, Conflict
  • 15. The Revolution: A Family Affair
  • 16. The Endless Revolution: Wartime Virtue, Wartime Woe
  • 17. Mary's War Ends
  • 18. "You Must One Day Fade"
  • Epilogue: An Uneasy Afterlife
  • Notes
  • Acknowledgments
  • Index
Review by Choice Review

George Washington's mother has not fared well at the hands of historians, who have depicted her as a scold and nag of the Virginia gentleman who defeated the British and founded the US. But Saxton (formerly, Amherst College) demolishes that view in this richly detailed biography of Mary Ball Washington (c. 1707--89). In reality, the author uses Mary's status as "mother of George" as a hook to a story that beautifully resurrects an entire social history of the small planter class (and some rich planters) in 18th-century Virginia. Mary lost her father when young, and later her husband, and (as Saxton puts it), "found herself in the mid--1740s with five young children, ranging in age from five to eleven, living on a medium-sized farm on mediocre soil." Throughout, the author reinterprets incidents and letters that have been used against Mary in the past. Saxton's empathy for her subject is balanced with a recognition of the brutality of the slave regime in which Mary played an unrepentant part. This fine book is reminiscent of Laurel Thatcher Ulrich's A Midwife's Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard, Based on Her Diary, 1785--1812 (1990); both authors use the life of an ordinary woman to illuminate an entire society through a past that is both strange and familiar. Summing Up: Essential. Lower-division undergraduates through faculty; general readers. --Paul Harvey, University of Colorado at Colorado Springs

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Review by Booklist Review

The subject of historian and women's studies expert Saxton's solid and edifying biography is not the iconic wife of our first president but, rather, his relatively little-known yet complexly influential mother, Mary Ball Washington. Saxton's point of view, which she goes to great lengths to substantiate, is that Mary has been unfairly maligned by historians, who have generally regarded her as crude, overbearing, and prone to whining. Copious research has convinced Saxton that despite having been orphaned at an early age, raised in poverty, and left to cope as a widow with five children denied her late husband's holdings, Mary ultimately became a picture of respectability. Saxton explores her relationship with and profound hold on George, who shared aspects of her temperament, in frank detail, This much-needed biography not only resuscitates and corrects an interesting figure's reputation and illuminates her role in shaping America's founding president, it also provides a colorfully detailed depiction of colonial American social life. For readers fascinated by early American and women's history.--Brad Hooper Copyright 2019 Booklist

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Review by Publisher's Weekly Review

Saxton (Being Good: Women's Moral Values in Early America), a professor of history at Amherst, serves up an accessible and vivid exploration of the life of George Washington's mother. Her perspective is sympathetic without ignoring Washington's moral failings; she makes clear from the outset that Washington was a slaveholder who did not have an enlightened attitude towards the people she considered her property. Born in Virginia in either 1708 or 1709, by adolescence Washington had already lost both parents, a stepfather, and a half-brother; after she was widowed in 1743, she struggled to care for five children. Saxton documents Washington's hard work ethic and devotion to her children, even when she disagreed with them (as when she thwarted 14-year-old George's desire to join the British Navy). And she brings to life the social context of the time, in which, under Virginia law, women were plunged underwater if their husbands did not pay fines for their supposed slander and slavery was rampant ("Orphaned by the deaths and sales of parents, slave children lived in a culture in which... grief was everywhere and comfort rare."). Although the absence of much primary source material forces Saxton to qualify many statements, she comes as close as anyone is likely to in accurately recounting Washington's life. This complex, warts-and-all portrait brings a fresh angle to colonial American history. (June) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.


Review by Library Journal Review

Saxon (history & sexuality, women's & gender studies, Amherst Coll.; Being Good) aims to restore the reputation of Mary Ball Washington (1709--89), clouded by previous historians' portrayals of her as unkind and selfish, based largely on stereotypes and misinterpreted excerpts from the letters of eldest son George Washington. By recounting the known details of Mary's life from the few remaining family letters and legal documents, Saxon skillfully fills in the gaps, relating Mary's story in the context of legal, economic, and social realities of 18th-century Virginia planter society. Personal hardships, along with quotes from Mary's prized spiritual guidebooks, explain her pious and determined character, along with her attitudes toward life, death, slave-holding, child-rearing, and the military--all of which she imparted to her children and grandchildren. Saxon describes George and Mary's complex, mutually respectful, loving relationship, and their shared stoicism and miserliness. Although a dutiful son, George's resentful complaints about his mother's demeanor and requests for assistance, Saxon explains, came mostly from a defensiveness regarding his status and embarrassment of his unpolished past. VERDICT All readers will value this vivid account that corrects Mary's record and reveals the dilemmas and distorted sensibility of Virginian slave-holding white women, along with the devastation caused by the Revolutionary War.--Margaret Kappanadze, Elmira Coll. Lib., NY

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Review by Kirkus Book Review

A sympathetic look at George Washington's mother.Saxton (Emerita, History and Women's Studies/Amherst Coll.; Being Good: Women's Moral Values in Early America, 2002, etc.) believes that Washington's biographers have treated Mary Ball Washington (1708-1789) unfairly. "The caricature of an incompetent, crude, imperious, selfish, and unloving woman flowered fully in the 1940s and '50s," Saxton writes, a portrait based on scant evidence and shaped by sentimental maternal stereotypes. Steeped in Colonial history, the author takes on a formidable project: to uncover the shards of Mary's life, place her in the context of her times, and tease apart "the biographical fates of mother and son" in order to give Mary "the dignity of her independent existence." Saxton offers a sensitive, sharply drawn portrait of a resourceful woman whose early losses made her anxious and fearful for life. By the time she was an adolescent, her father, stepfather, half brother, and mother all had died. After 11 years of marriage, she became a widowed mother of five, facing financial instability. "Trauma," Saxton observes, "was Mary's normality." As an old woman, one evening, during a thunderstorm, her daughter found her praying alone: "my trust is in God," Mary confessed, "but sometimes my fears are stronger than my faith." Her fears led her to be overprotective of her children, not least her eldest son, George. When he was 14, Mary strongly opposed his desire to join the British navy as a midshipman"a singularly dangerous institution," Saxton notes. Mary prevailed but later found herself repeatedly at odds with her son's "aggressive, restless, and risk-taking spirit" as well as his vanity and stinginess. Besides closely examining Mary's relationships with various members of her extended family, Saxton mostly succeeds in the challenge of treating fairly Mary's role as a demanding, often cruel, slaveholder who tried to project strength and authority through "force, name-calling, and abuse." Her religious beliefs validated that treatment: "violence," Mary thought, "could justifiably produce obedience," and obedience led to moral behavior. Like others of her time and class, slavery shaped her identity.A fresh perspective on Colonial America. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

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